Just to play devil's advicate. I've been in your bf's shoes. My frenulum was inflamed. So it felt like my dick was being torn off during sex, but it didnt hurt that much with masturbation. And my girlfriend pleaded for me to see a doctor. It was an embarassing problem to me though, so it took me a few months to go and finally one. Especially when i had to tell my mom whose insurance i was under. I ended up needing to get a circumcision done. Is your boyfriend uncircumcised?
I'm not saying this is the same circumstance, but talk to him about it. Assure him if it is theres nothing to be embarassed or scared about. Except boners. For about a week, those hurt like a son of a bitch.

 

No he's circumcised and he's says he won't go to the dr cause he hates them and can't afford to

 

Ahh okay. See i was circumcised when i was a baby, but apparently they botched it, and it grew back. And he might just need to bite the bullet and get it checked out. There are payment options available. Either way, best of luck to you and him, i hope everything works out for the best. I'm going back to just lurking meow.

 

You really need to take the bull by the horns and sit him down and get to the bottom of this.

 

That means the thrill is gone. Time to move forward. Just wasting time!

 

At 44, believe me when I tell you, I have learned a lot in life about love. The in love part for him is gone. How old are you, if ok to ask?

 

That your BF masturbates to porn isnt unusal but that he masturbates to porn and has sex chats on the phone with other woman is hugely disrespectful to you. More so when he is refusing to have sex with y

He could be cheating, he could also have a STD he is not telling you about or maybe its a signal that actually its time to drop him and move on.

Whatever you need to talk to him and resolve this. If he needs to see a doctor he needs to see a doctor and fuck the expense.. He needs to go and see one.

Its not fair on you to know he is jerking off on sex chat and be left frustrated. It is one sided relationship in which you are loosing out and not just sexually. Seriously get this sorted and do not let it go on any longer

 

First off what the fuck is wrong with him, as an F.A. I'm quite impressed at your beauty. That said he's a boyfriend which is a pay for play that he is not obliging and if it's love or worse you think he's marrying material he's definitely falling short of an HONEST commitment. I can tell you having had a serious groin pull that not only sex hurt (I tried) that jerking off was no different, tell him to butch up a reason or find another! The longer you humor him into arguing or debating the longer your without what you deserve.

 

I think it's very obvious, but they say love is blind.

 

Ty hun

 

I'm 37 and he's 40

 

Hey extremely,
I've read through the thread..have u thought of asking him about a 3some?

 

Don't waste anymore unnecessary time in your life. Life is short as it is. There are some good men left, that will appreciate you, as is

 

He said he can barely handle me cause he never lasts long then can't get it back up and half the time goes right to sleep after cummin

 

Ty I hope so

 

Tell me more about you, if ok to ask?

 

In that case...I agree w hornyman.
Time to find a man that can handle u.
Or try ur luck on the other side of the fence...either way, find someone who will do right by u

 

What would u like to know

 

I may have to if things don't change

 

PM me, ok?