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  1. seafoam1

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    Because at xnxx.com there are sexuality freaks and general freaks and only a few brave souls like to venture around the whole neighborhood. So it works out for the best if people post in the appropriate section.
     
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    So what say we get to the crux of it?

    So, He wants to be a Whore...
    I'm going to re-post something I wrote some time ago to try and explain to straight males what working as an escort is like for many in the "moderate" end of things. The reason I wrote it for *straight males* was it is all too easy for a guy to get the wrong idea of what it's like for a woman, and the conditions I set up help explain it for everyone... Anywho... Many men and some gals think "wouldn't it be awesome!"

    Welp, you tell me after...

    The best way for a "straight male" to get an idea of what it might be like would be as follows... and I'm deliberately setting up conditions so you can see many aspects and cramming into one night. Also know, I'm making it VERY easy on you.

    If working as an Escort, imagine you're a straight male and have decided to work a particular bar. You cannot go into a gay bar as you'll get little work there, so you must go into a straight bar. You have to consider the bar as well and its clientele. Too shabby and they can't afford you though you'll have a better chance of getting work. Too fancy and you'll have to deal with the management more and clients who's "big thing" is feeling like everyone in the world is there to kiss their ass, so that makes bigger problems as for them making a ruckus serves them as well as anything, so it is risky. A hotel bar with lots of out of town travelers might be best.

    Now I'm sure you're already a little confused being a straight male as to why I would say a "gay bar"....Well, you're going to be going after the men, not the women as that sets you up instantly feeling how sexual the situation is. Does it feel sexy? The idea you're about to hit on other men, be fondled and groped by them? Will have to smile every second and act like the idea of them, a stranger, sticking their cock in your mouth or backside is all you want in this world.

    Next you need to dress for this. You need to look nice, yet you need to dress so it attracts bi or gay males, lets people know you have sex on your mind, yet in kind doesn't look so trampy you can play it off if challenged as just dressing sexy that night rather than clearly working. You must be clean, and that means if you flipped a customer 5 minutes ago, you cannot have a bit of his scent or funk on you, you MUST be fresh as a daisy. You might also want to try dressing or decorating yourself in a way that states what you're looking for, so in this case how about some cuban heel boots, tighter pants that show off the package and rump, a nice shirt with a few buttons undone, and maybe even a touch of nail polish on a pinky or some such.......How's the comfort zone now?

    Now put on your happy horny face and go to work...

    Bartenders see everything... You must get along with him. If you don't he'll have you tossed out or worse still arrested. In kind he is your greatest chance at getting the word out discreetly, so it's time to work out the details.

    Sit and talk with him, get to know him a few minutes, and somehow even though this is a straight bar figure out if he "might" go along with your intentions. If you think he's pretty easy going, not gay or bi yet simply goes with the flow of what goes on in there, find a way that gives you an out to first ask basically "does he think they ever get any bi or gay males in there". If he doesn't flip out, doesn't state flatly no, on and on, then it's now time to take it a step further.

    Ask him if anyone ever checks with him to see if he knows of anyone "working". He'll play dumb even if he understands, it's all part of the negotiation. Yet if he doesn't shut the conversation down, buy another drink, and tip him at least $50.00 if not more. When he asks what that is for, tell him it's just a tiny taste of how you like to take care of your friends. Friends that help you get a little work, as after all, there are a lot of lonely men out there.

    If he goes for this great, if he shoves it back time to go elsewhere. Yet for the balance of the night you must treat this straight guy like he's your best buddy in the world as you're now business partners. However you now need to go out into the bar and move around a bit.

    You can NOT blatantly hit on folks. You cannot initiate conversations. You cannot be overtly sexual. You cannot do anything where you make the first move as on that aspect alone you'll be making a scene and they'll toss you out (sound like that might be embarrassing?) In kind it INSTANTLY without doing anything illegal can get you charged for soliciting. So move down to this part of the bar, later that table, later another, go to the bathroom a few times, and do it so you're seen yet not seeming as though advertising.

    Look for friendly glances and stares, ignore the rude comments and insults you know you're going to get from the vast number of homophobes in there. Do nothing to draw any more attention to yourself or you may get some of the guys hammering on you (though they're already talking about you and the gay slurs get loud at times) and get tossed out if it's too much for the bartender. So shut up and take it, and smile, smile, smile.

    You can't drink much, you have to keep your wits about you. Soon you may note one or two of the patrons paying you a bit of nice attention. Glances, maybe a drink sent to you, whatever. You can smile back, nod, YET you must be VERY careful to not let the other patrons see, as if they do they'll hammer on him for dealing with someone gay (though if a woman because they've already labeled you a whore)....and know BOTH genders are just waiting for a chance to light into you. So keep it cool.

    Hopefully eventually someone will either ask the bartender about you, or approach you in some way discreetly. However it works out they must make the first contact, and you need to make the next bit happen quick as your time is money, yet worse still the longer you delay the more chance he has of chickening out or getting pressured from others.

    Some small talk, be discreetly flirty yet not pushy, let him make the first move at suggesting anything further. If he does, act like the idea thrills you to no end....but sadly you need to make a little money tonight. Now I'm going to give you a break here, as there is a very good chance this moment he makes a scene, might be a cop, or might even try pressuring you to do it for free with various threats. Yet in this case he plays dumb, so you're going to ask him if he wanted some company tonight. If he goes for it he'll want to sort out details then and there yet you can't let him. Time to get him out of there.

    If you hooked up with him on your own, tip the bartender big again and say thanks for the drinks as you leave. If the bartender sent him down, double it. You haven't made penny one and lets say you're already in the hole $200.00. That will pay off subsequent times, though you'll need to keep paying.......You'll also set up such arrangements at other bars, with cab drivers, hotel managers and the heaviest hitters cops who will also want a freebie here and there though will bust you if they need to (though may seem to always get others then you, even competition at times....a whole other issue).

    So you're out the door with your potential date. He's already grabbing your ass and trying to feel you up, if you stop him he'll get mad and you just blew all your work. So take it, take whatever he says or does to a point, yet use it to try and figure him out before behind closed doors. He may even say something as rude as "you're a dirty little cunt aren't you?....Your response? "Oh yeah baby, just for you"....You get the idea, you're going to take it.

    Now hopefully he already has a room, if not HE needs to get one. If he needs to get one he'll instantly feel like you owe him already....deal with it. Up to the room you go. Now before you walk in the door be sure about the following as best you can. Do you think he's going to beat your ass? Get violent? Rape you? Kill you? If you feel comfortable (yeah like if....you don't know this guy and are about to strip naked for him and do what he wants) go on in. If not risking his wrath do not hesitate, tough titty he got the room hot foot it out of there now. So in the door you go, clock is now ticking and he gets a 10 minutes to get on with this, and basically unless he pays for more he gets 1/2-1 hour or until he cums and naturally he's grabbing at you already.

    You must now stop it all semi-cold and work out details. Ask him what he wants, and be firm on what you're willing to do. So lets say he wants a half and half (blowjob and a fuck) if that fits with your limitations go for it, if not start making up your excuses yet you must keep him interested. So lets say you're willing just to give head. He's going to argue, negotiate, plead, etc.. Stick to your guns yet in a nice way though already he's irritating the hell out of you.

    So you agree to a blowjob for $X, he want's you nude, you agree to your shirt off, pants if willing will be extra, he's not willing to pay so leave them on, and all while he's now wanting to talk. "Do you like doing this, for how long, how many guys a day, have you ever thought of doing anything else, maybe you just haven't met the right guy, where do you live...." It goes on and on and you must answer all (not like you'd lie or anything), in fact you must answer it as though this is the only thing you'd ever want to do, and he must be made to feel as though he's the only one you want to be doing it with.

    Get your money up front and put it somewhere safe. Now you have to be sexy, you're a straight guy about to blow another guy who lord knows what he is....Don't ask if he's married or about him, let him initiate all conversation as you pull of your shirt and coo and swoon at every word and touch from him. He'll want to be naked most likely....Fine tell him to get undressed you'll be right back. If he wants you to undress him try and get out of it yet if worse comes to worse do it.

    As he gets undressed or after, naturally the whole time mauling you and wanting you to take your pants off.....Remember, you're now bought and paid for and that's how he views it. Make it nice for him and this will go well, make it so he reminds himself he "paid for you" and this could get ugly. Go to the bathroom and get a clean washcloth and towel, soap it up hopefully with that antibacterial you brought that has just a touch of alcohol that you know doesn't burn, and come back out and bathe him. Make it sexy, make it nice. His cock you can smell 6' away, he's been in his suit all day, in fact he stinks all over. Naturally you tell him you're doing this wanting him to feel fresh to get the full effect of you, yet you really want to get some of the stink off so you don't barf right there. Do his chest, thighs, and naturally that filthy cock and balls. Dry him off and get at it.

    Moan and groan about how nice he is, how handsome, what a big cock he has, just the way you like a man, any slams to himself you shoot down stating how the others must be crazy, though naturally you'd not be caught with this guy out in public.

    Touch him all over though his pits and feet are still reeking, his cologne is about to gag you as he bathed in it clearly and it must of cost fifty cents a gallon. Get him going and focus on that cock...Get it hard fast...Whoops what's happening? Why is it not getting hard? Did he drink too much, what you didn't make sure he was not drunk which means he'll take forever to pop off, maybe he's just nervous, naturally he's making excuses and you're making him feel better, yet keep at it or he'll stretch this thing out all night.

    Naturally he keeps telling you if you'd just get naked he'd get hard, yet you keep at it as he mauls you top to bottom and if he didn't pay for it you have to remind him that's not the deal. Naturally he pouts, stops, and five seconds later starts grabbing at you again, yet when he grabs you he gets hard so you let him and now you're ready to go.

    Sneak the condom into your mouth and put it on him, work it down all the way, enjoying the taste? His pubes still stink like ball sweat and cologne, and you start going at this seriously......Now you're doing a great job though getting a bit miffed at him trying to pull your pants down, you have to keep stopping to nicely say "no no", and suddenly he stops you as you're doing it too well and he doesn't want to cum that fast.

    Ok back at it, screw his schedule, work him good, he's grunting and making noises that would embarrass a hippo, yet you've had to stop often to keep your pants up, and now he's trying not to cum and this is taking longer then you want. By the way, how's that strangers cock in your mouth and balls on your chin?...Sexy huh, feeling like a porn star are ya?

    Naturally he suggests "I'd cum faster if the condom was off".....Nope not happening, so then next he asks "it would help if you shoved a finger up his filthy unwashed rump". GAHHH! fine, grab the rag and wash his ass while still sucking, take that spare condom out of your pocket while still sucking, slip it over your finger and shove it in, all while still sucking.

    Now he's getting close yet naturally, suddenly, he wants you to stop again, you try and keep at it yet he wants you to stop so you do.....and you nicely have to ask "what's wrong baby" though you know he's stalling. "I just have to see that ass of yours, c'mon, I'm nude, take it off for me". This is going no where quick so you have to decide....Knowing what the probable consequences are.

    Fine more money....He gets more money, you stash it, his cock you just worked so long to get hard is soft again, and you take off your pants with the deal of no touching. "Let me see how hard it is" (all guys want to know if you're getting wet from this.....as if)...."Oh it's hard baby, now just relax" as you start blowing him again. "But I want to see it!" whining begins, you mention to him you're about out of time, he doesn't care just wanting to see....So guess what.....You must now feeling anti-sexy and not horny in the least must get your own cock hard......Get to it.

    Naturally he wants to watch, also touch yet you said no. He keeps pushing so finally you say screw it and let him maul you as you try to suck him off quick. Finger back in his ass, you're sucking like mad and then it happens....Now with us gals it's usually the coochie though sometimes the other....For you being male, you get the other.... WHOOPS, you now have a finger in your ass. You stop again and tell him he can't do that, he'll tell you how he'll cum faster, you try to dissuade him with more money, he backs down, back at it, finger in your ass again.

    Ok now you have a major decision to make... Do you stop the whole thing now and leave knowing he'll be pissed, really pissed and might go off on you. Oh did I forget to tell you? See being a girl I'm used to guys being much larger at 5'-5 1/2" 115#, so we'll make this guy 6'6" 270# for you. Know as well there is a good chance he can take you out one punch...If he does you'll get raped or worse. So we want to avoid making him mad.

    You stop and mention how you're running out of time, touching is extra yet he gets down to it and states he changed his mind he wants to fuck you. It's up to you yet if you just go back down on him now he's going to be upset even if he cums. So you have to decide do you let him fuck you or risk the rest... Fine let him fuck you... FOR more money.

    Naturally however he has nothing left. "Nothing at all honey?" Well maybe he has something as he opens an empty wallet, and begins searching around through his clothes and waits for you to turn your head and then magically it turns out his shoe is a cash machine with crisply folded bills out of a wallet stuffed in there... See you're a whore so clearly you must be a thief as well.

    Anywho... Back to renegotiating, he doesn't want to pay as much, you won't do it for less and don't want to be doing it in the first place, and naturally, you must make change. Ok we're ready to go again...Yet he wants to maul you some and talk more... Nope now or never. So you fight to get his cock hard again, suck it, lick his sweaty balls, stick your finger in his ass, on and on, finally he's hard and you get up, crawl on his lap and shove his cock in your ass.

    Are you having fun yet?

    "Ohhhh it's so big, it's almost tearing me apart!" As you wonder if it's even in yet. "Oh baby it feels so good, I love having your cock up my ass!" Don't barf now, how's that dick feeling shoving in and out of your straight male backside as he grunts and moans, grabs your dick being way too rough with it and so on.

    Nope, he can't do it, he wants you on your back, so you flip over with him grunting and sweating over you and he keeps at it but no, not yet, he want's you on all fours as he has essentially decided to try every position of the Kamasutra. Time to end this. Over on all fours as he begins to pound in your ass as though you can't feel a thing and it's impossible for you to be hurt......Lock your heels behind his knees so he can't get away, reach under your legs and grab his balls and begin stroking them, oooh and ahh, and tell him what a great fuck he is as he mauls your cock and balls so rough you think he's going to rip them off and the whole while have to deal with him asking if you're about to cum and do you like it.

    Why of course you do, you love it! (wretch, gag) "Oh, Oh' oh baby I'm so close, cum in me now, cum in me now!" As he suddenly shoves in extra hard one last time and grunts out his orgasm falling on top of you sopped in his sweat, his dick still in your ass, and telling you how much he loved it as it is clear he now wants to cuddle before round two.

    Nope...He came, it's done. "Excuse me baby I'll be right back, I want to be fresh for you". Pry yourself from under him, grab your clothes and all the money you stuffed in them, go into the bathroom and lock the door. Go to the bathroom as now you feel you have to pee and poop (ick sorry just how it is and is worse with anal sex so what you get to deal with). Jump in the shower to get his stink off of you or you'll reek like his cologne, his sweat and his balls......You have 2 minutes to do this as he's already calling out to you as you dry telling him "just a minute", and in at most another 2 minutes get dressed and ready for your "next date" you need to find. You MUST be squeaky clean and fresh as a virgin, no shortcuts.

    Naturally you're sore all over, in your case your ass, cock and balls feel like they've had the crap beat out of them and just be glad you don't have boobs or they'd be worse, and you emerge him laying there thinking he's a porn king, his jaw dropping as he thought you'd stay the night, blah blah blah, how can I find you again, etc. etc... and naturally since he has cum... No tip.

    Out you go, off to do it again as when you work you work and it's only 8:00PM and your day doesn't end till about 3:00 or 4 AM. You may also need to tip the hotel manager on your way out.

    Congratulations!... You just did a VERY easy and no complication trick! Try and get 3-4 more of those done tonight, and you're on your way to having lots of fun.

    With the money you had to spend you just made about half of what you charged. You can't go back to the same bar tonight, as it will hurt business the bartender then thinking you a filthy whore vs. a regular one. Time to go to elsewhere you have set up after checking messages to see if any old clients called or maybe a cabbie, bartender, hotel manager or whatever has a client for you.

    You're a straight male (point of that is it's too easy to get the wrong feeling about this otherwise, women view it much differently so trying to simulate that).....You just were mauled by a stinking sweatty guy, sucked his cock, stuck your finger up his ass and then he fucked you in 3 positions for really not that much money... A stranger.

    Easy money huh... and that was an easy flop. BTW, How sexy do you feel now? Feel good about yourself?...faggot, whore, cunt, slut, cocksucker, bitch....(not intending to slur gay men with that word just trying to get the straight guys to feel how it makes you feel about yourself and how others treat and talk to you).

    ...and doing movies a whole other set of "fun and easy" circumstances.

    Now get back at it bitch... "You're on the clock."

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  4. Smittenjen

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    Well thanks for all the relevant posts guys. Also, thanks for the recommendations to use the search tab. I'll use that next time.

    However, I do believe that having a general curiosity does fit under the 'general discussion' tabs. Who decides on what is general or not? No need for hostility folks, we're all happy horny people here!

    Cheers again.
     
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      The angry mob will let you know if you post in the wrong place, don't take it personally, I did it myself when I first started out and I got the same reactions.
       
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  5. Smittenjen

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    Thank you for the warm welcome :)
     
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    Thanks! That's a good idea and something for me to look into.
     
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  7. Smittenjen

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    Hi, thanks for your message. I wouldn't have chosen sexuality as a heading to put this under, so thanks for the heads up.

    What is a 'sock'? And why are new members called them?

    In regards to your comment on me posting into an escort site if I was serious. I started the post off (in fact I think it was the title) by explaining that it was a curiously. I'm not serious about it yet, just gathering opinions. Thanks again for your suggestions, I will certainly be using the search button from now on.
     
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      FYI, a "sock" is when a person with one account will create a second account with a different name just to hurl insults, make outlandish statements, and cause general mayhem.
      Socks are frowned upon because it keeps the true author unknown. Sometimes a person will have more than 1 sock and they will play off each other.
      It's just all part of being here and sometimes it is funny but yes, some people get really pissed when they are in a "sock war"
       
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      Thanks for the info!
       
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  8. baman42

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    With having no experience of being an escort, knowing an escort or even having an escort, I wouldn't say that I have much information of the subject but the best advice would be to forget about being an escort and think about more of the idea of being a cam girl, like @Big Black Dick For You has said. Just like he mentioned, a big difference between being an escort and a cam girl is security, I would believe on the top of my head. You're putting yourself out there in the real world meeting strange men that you have never met before that would pay to have sex for you. What if things don't go right and the worst happens to you? Being a parent, you certainly have more to live for than just for yourself. So taking that risk isn't worth it while being a cam girl, there are still unique risks that it has but more "worthy" if you compare the risks of being a cam girl and being an escort. The biggest risk of being a cam girl that I could think of is pretty much your identity. Sure, if people across the internet and real world suddenly find out who exactly you are, then things can suddenly change for you but hey, at least it's better than putting yourself out there in the real world and can cause potentially cause more harm to you. Sure, you may get harassed with your identity being leaked and your family as well but that's one of the worst to come I can imagine if you were to be a cam girl. And because it's the modern era, there's more different ways out there to earn money. So because of that, you can become a cam girl and earn money from that by just setting up your webcam and do whatever you want sexually in front of your audience like www.chaturbate.com or http://www.myfreecams.com/ and/or join a site like www.clips4sale.com you can create an account and post your own videos whether if it's solo or with a friend or two and then require people to pay money to watch the video.

    Also, since the whole point of this thread that you made was for you to ask a genuine question that is sexual, hoping to receive genuine answers should be placed in the sexuality section. You can argue having a general curiosity but the point of the general discussion section is to have threads that don't fit in any other section in this forum, which is apart of the rules.

    But yea, the best thing that you can do if you're really serious about this, then the best thing you can do is to think over with the serious posts that you have gotten and do some research whether if it's about more of being an escort, cam girl or even something else. You may find some real and quality articles. Hope that this has helped.
     
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  9. speakeasy

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    I think there's a difference between an escort and a call girl.
    An escort should be able to accompany you to the theater, know why there's more than one fork on the dinner table, comport herself with elegance, charm and intelligence.
    She should take an interest in you (even if she's faking it)
    She should be more than arm candy.
    She could be someone you might go out with and not end up in bed every night.

    A call girl is a high priced hooker.
    Nothing wrong with that but to me there's a difference.
     
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      Hehe, yes, "Escorts" would like for you to think that. Fact of the matter is most "escorts" are simply outcall/call-girls. I've met so very many who liked to claim that "men pay them thousands simply for their company, or when out in public, their reserved yet sensuous, educated presence, and, they NEVER have sex with their clients." The ones telling the truth are broke, the ones lying have money. Men don't hire women to pull the headache routine, men hire women to suck dick. Plain and simple.

      Hush....an alias
       
      Hush, Mar 29, 2017
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      I've only known one and yes she did have sex with the clients and it was understood that it was expected.
      She was also expected to have the ability to do the things I mentioned above.
      In most cases, except for the usual age difference, most probably wouldn't have known she was a pro. (well, YOU might have figured it out.)
      She said that yes, money was exchanged for services but they didn't treat her like she was just a hired orifice.
      She also claimed that she actually enjoyed the company of her "friends".
      She might have been self delusional, I don't know. I couldn't afford her services anyway.
       
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  10. RCummings

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    You mean after your full time and demanding job, the kids ( who is going to look after them) and working as an Escort you really think that you are going to have time to 'go out and experience life a bit'.

    But if you really think that you are going to be having sex with Ryan Gosling look a likes every night instead of old, fat, ugly, rude, possibly dangerous, probably disrespectful men then go for it. The possible STDs, chance of assault or rape will pale to insignificance with all that sexy fun you are having and you are getting paid for your orgasms too.. Win win huh!

    Now the reality of having to spread your legs and or suck cock after a hard days work, the trying to find a babysitter willing to work past midnight and then you get up early and drag yourself into the office....Again..

    Perhaps you might get your head out the clouds and see it for what it really is, and Pretty Woman it aint
     
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  11. Karismaluvsu

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    I was an escort, actually I still get turned on by some of it. I kept thinking why in the world would he need to pay for it? He's fine as hell, has a huge dick. He can fuck me and pay me all he wants! I just ended it after kids. It's not that I couldn't do it again I just want my kids to have a normal life. I don't suggest moms to do it but single women just be safe screen don't talk about prices over the phone. Never say you can do a service for an amount. You would put an add out for an example as this.

    Sexy blond milf you always dreamed about. (Or whatever your line is)

    You make a little paragraph about yourself, your likes turn ons or whatever. Then at the bottom list your prices. You can add in codes for covered or uncovered services. Like if you like it bareback then you could say a line like, raw, no limits fun for the night. And can add bbj (barebackblowjob) or whatever. Or vice versa which I always suggest is, I never come without an umbrella, cbj only, and ALWAYS use protection. Even if you do have sex you always make sure to watch that your wording is for time only not services especially on the phone. Ummmmm and prices listed by time.

    150hhr
    300hr
    800night


    If you do it just screen them. Get some real info especially if you're a mom and try to have someone you trust go with you and wait outside until ur comfortable. It's not actually as bad as it sounds. I enjoyed it more then I didn't. Majority of the men I saw were actually sexy, cool as hell always spoiling the shit out of me taking me on trips shopping sprees just bringing me gifts just because they thought of me. A few guys tried to marry me but and that's also a hard aspect not to get attached to ur regulars. Some really good guys out there that just want company friendship and good sex.

    Don't lead anyone on either if they want gfe (girlfriendexperience) then expect kissing and cuddling and really romantic stuff but don't think they want more. The guy will say he wants to be with you if he does but don't get attached if they never say anything like that because gfe is pretty intense sometimes. You may travel the country, see each other every weekend and he treats you like ur the center of his whole world and have a whole wife and kids at home. Some men just want that escape. It's all fine and fun at times if you go about it right but also it can be very draining mentally. Also if you're not prepared to tell any partner you've been with over a hundred men then it's not the job for you. And that can be a veryyyyyy hard thing to say in the future. Though, not all men care and no ur pussy isn't going to be used up. A pussy is a pussy is a pussy. Mines actually tighter after kids. Go figure. It all depends on genes and the pussy in question. I use to take one client who was beyond huge literally I get turned on every time I think of him. And his dick use to like make a bump in my belly when he went all the way in. Now I'd never be able to fit that in here. I cry sometimes and my bf is like 1/4th of that. Or at least 1/3rd Your vagina isn't gonna be ruined by some crazy wild sex every day. Might even make it stronger?
     
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      Hi!nyhis a fabulous comment and exactly what I was looking for, thanks!

      It was great to read of your experiences and it's given me lots to think about.
       
      Smittenjen, Mar 29, 2017
    2. Rothko
      You mean you have now heard what you wanted to hear rather than listen to what you really should hear. There is a difference, it is the same difference which seperates fantasy from reality, something I think you might be struggling to do right now
       
      Rothko, Mar 30, 2017
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      Nope I know exactly what I meant, thank you. It was a really useful post. I also have a firm grip on reality, thanks for the concern.
       
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  12. justpassingthru

    justpassingthru No Rest For The Wicked Banned!

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    The best thing about escorts is that they tell you what you want/need to hear without a vested interest in stroking your ego other than for repeat business. If they continue to see you they start to become attached to their clients if they had a "rough" upbringing as they develop a "daddy complex" or are just that desensitized that they can tune out the bad (in some less desirable clients) to keep the money rolling in. That is not the majority of the girls in that industry but it does happen and the sugar daddy you gain will make you hate sugar after a while. I blame my warped sense of open mindedness for my adventure into this world and most men can't handle their partner sucking cock for a living even if hey say they are okay with it as long as it is strictly business. My ex used to love that I was so understanding about what she did until she started to think I just didn't care about her if I had that attitude. I got bitten by the "their body, their decision" devil LOL, which she is part of his clan and does his bidding for him.

    They come over, you have some fun and then show them the door with a fist full of cash plus cab money. You don't have to worry about them hogging the bathroom (I would need to hire 5 at a time to have that problem) and you don't have to cuddle afterward ... if you are lucky.

    That said, I made the mistake of driving one home afterward "because I was going that way" once upon a time and that turned into going out "casually" without financial compensation, 5 dates later I invited her to move in since I had just gotten legally separated from my wife at the time. 4 loooooong years of a relationship and a beautiful child later I still to this day (20+ years later) look back at that as the worst thing I ever did in my life other than having the child which she gave up for adoption behind my back anyway ... and hate the film Pretty Woman still as well LOL. I got her out of the business by teaching her the rules of the banking industry and got her a job at a bank for a less stressful living. I am not saying that as a bad thing in general, some women are "hardwired" to be in that industry and do a damn fine job of it if they can save the money they make to have a good life.

    Escorts have ONE purpose and ONE only and some aren't even that good at that considering the fee attached.

    I do wish you luck in considering this question you are bouncing around in your head but more importantly I wish you a safe journey as the school of hard knocks takes the sparkle off of the whole idea ... find a "handler" that can get you into "goldmines" like business seminars and oil/gas conferences, the women I managed easily made 10 grand a weekend without even breaking a sweat and didn't even need to supply "happy endings" at times as the arm candy was the hook for some of those rich guys stepping out on their wives.

    I am not going to say I told you so about a previous comment I made earlier since we are having this discussion in the sub basement and it only gets uglier from here and not even I will venture into the Personals section without a loaded sidearm LOL.

    Don't be a Brandi ...
     
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    mohmedrdaaa Porn Surfer

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    so sexy tits
     
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  14. wantingnot

    wantingnot Sex Machine

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    I do remember dreaming about the life of an escort (taken to eat, travel, etc.) but that is not my end of the business. It is a very different life when the evening starts off at a street corner.
     
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  15. seafoam1

    seafoam1 Porn Star

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    So tell us, @Smittenjen, are you still thinking about trying this?
    There have been a lot of warnings to you here but it is still up to you.
    I suppose you could start small and try a few just to see if it's for you.
     
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  16. Gac_Dre

    Gac_Dre Sex Machine

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    Tis better to regret something you have done to something you haven't.

    How about starting in a legal brothel or agency? Perhaps a two week vacation to Amsterdam or the like would behoove you...I suggest Nevada as a safe way to try pros out...


    Good luck


    Hookers are all amazing and I do not trick..
    .
     
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  17. Supash

    Supash Sex Machine

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    Checked out your pics, I'd say you would have no trouble finding clients.
     
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  18. Drillthis

    Drillthis Porno Junky

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    Here is my story. Not at all proud of it.
    My boyfriend and I don't have hang ups about sex. We have always had other guys or girls join us for threesomes or whatever.
    We both have jobs but neither of us make a lot of money. We live paycheck to paycheck and sometimes we can't stretch it to the next payday. We have barrowed money off our parents but they always give us a lecture and it gives them the opportunity to judge our spending habits.
    We live in a small town that's 60 miles from a big city. Small towns are a great place to live. Less crime, people are more friendly but, everyone talks so you always have to be aware that if your secret gets out, it spreads fast and small town people like to gossip.

    So, one of those weeks when money was running short, my boyfriend mentioned reading Craigslist ads where guys were offering money for sex. Craigslist is also a little safer in small towns and we had used it before to find other couples and a few single bi guys to play with.
    We talked about it and decided to go for it. We browsed ads and answered a few. We needed to screen the guys very well and had a certain profile that we were looking for. The men had to older. They had to be married, and they had to send us a face picture.
    What we soon found was that there were a lot of game players, liars, and cheap asses around.
    Eventually we made a deal with a guy. He was in his late 40's, had a wife and kids, and was the owner of a local trucking business. He just wanted something on the side because his wife had pretty much cut him off.
    We explained our situation and the rules we had and agreed on a price.
    Rules were simple. He had to come to our house, my boyfriend had to be in the next room, and if he tried to hurt me, the cops would be called. He also had to wear a condom.
    He showed up and we were all nervous. I thought it would be fun and it was but in a different kind of way. It felt more like a job. Like I needed to make sure he was satisfied. It was all strange. It wasn't about me at all or my pleasure. Yeah, he made a little effort to try to please me but his main goal was to use my body to get himself off. The whole thing from the time he came in the door until the time he walked out was less than a half hour. There really wasn't anything sexy about it and no way was I ever going to have an orgasm with him.
    Once he was gone, I didn't feel real good about myself. There is a big difference in being a slut and being a whore and I felt like a lowlife whore.

    It paid well and that's why I did it. The guy called me up about once a week and would come back for more. He was a happy guy and the more it happened the more relaxed I felt but it still wasn't sexy. He also got more comfortable and that really didn't make things better. He paid extra a few times for anal and started to last longer and it just made it ordeal last longer.
    Eventually, he slowed down his visits and I have done the same thing with a few other men.

    I have never been hurt, so far word hasn't got around and I hope it never does. The men have been nice but the only reason I do it is for the money. It doesn't turn me on at all.
     
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  19. Ficxa 479

    Ficxa 479 Porn Star

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    If dont know what to do, take one step forward. Go for it you may always put a stop if you dont like it. Or some 1o years after you gonna be sorry you ddnt take a chance. At least make a try. Who dares he wins, dont listen to those losers. Life is a gamble.
     
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