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  1. ShakeZula

    ShakeZula The Master Shake

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    Exhibit #11. Post #53

    In response to apparently no one, she simple drops in to tell us all to fuck off again. All done without provocation. Keep in mind, we're in to the second page, 53 posts, and not one user, be it mod or otherwise, has insulted her in any fashion.

    Exhibit #12. Post #57

    Here we get to the root of the issue. Deidre once again accusing the mods of favoritism. Never once offering up an example of this favoritism in action.

    Exhibit #13. Post #61

    In this comment we have Deidre replying to Kimiko's comment to her that someone could be a 'fucking prick' and still be a perfectly good mod. This post contained no insult to Deidre. Deidre's response is to call Kimiko stupid. Another insult.

    I want to remind you all again that no one in this thread has insulted Deidre once.

    Exhibit #14. Post #68

    Kimiko replied to Deidre that she was free to tell the mods and admins anything she wanted about her. It was done in a sarcastic manner, to be sure, but no insult was given. Deidre responds with an insult, calling her a freak.

    Exhibit #3 for the Defense. Post #76.

    I have returned to the thread after a long string of unanswered insults directed at me by Deidre. Surely this time I let her have it. I mean, in that last 'flame' of mine, I come off like a total pussy.

    Yeah! I totally fucking let her have it! I–. Oh wait. No I didn't. Fuck, what kind of candy-ass master manipulator am I? I can't flame worth shit! It's like I'm... It's almost like I'm being completely reasonable about the whole thing and not engaging in a tit-for-tat flame war with arguably the forums most accomplished flamer.

    Exhibit #4 for the Defense. Post #86

    At this point, Deidre has been absent from the thread for a bit. bladeway, who I've had a few disagreements with in the past, but nothing major as far as I'm aware, has said that I'm not able to moderate myself, let alone the forum. But if the New Mod thread is any indication, I seem to be doing a fine job of moderating myself and not getting in to a flame war, despite ample justification for doing so.

    This was my reply and notice again that I don't insult anyone. This must be me abusing my mod powers when people disagree with me or criticize me. I thank them and ask a question regarding their motivations. Fuck me, but I'm a scary son of a bitch with all this mod power at my fingertips.

    Exhibit #15. Post #94

    Piggit, with no direct reply, cautioned Deidre to be careful, that she didn't want her to 'blow a gasket' over the new mod appointments. That was it. No insult was given. Deidre's reply. Calling her a stupid bitch and calls her and the admins a joke.

    Exhibit #16. Post #96.

    In post #89 I respond to a comment from piggit that this forum is actually the least moderated forum I've ever seen (a sentiment that is in dispute by no one) and that people who cry of mod abuse here really have no clue what they're talking about. I in no way reference Deidre or insult her. In response, Deidre calls me a 'fucking prick' and indicates that I must have given blow jobs to nophest and chunky to acquire my position.

    This is the end of page 2. Deidre has 6 posts on this page of which 100% are insulting towards other members. We now have 100 posts in this thread where Deidre has not been insulted a single time.

    I posted 3 times, none of which were in response to Deidre and none of which insulted her.

    How's the bottom of my shoe tasting, Stallion? They're New Balance. I like them better than Reebok and Nike. Sorry about the gum.

    On to page 3.
     
  2. ShakeZula

    ShakeZula The Master Shake

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    Exhibit #6 for the Defense. Post #107.

    After two pages of insults and not a single answering insult by me, I weigh in for the first time on page 3.

    I gloat a little bit at someone who I think may be a sock. It's a natural reaction, I think, to a person I've never seen before tell me that I'm an awful choice. Was he a sock? You'll never know. He has since apologized for accusing me without grounds and we're cool as far as I can tell.

    My insult count to Deidre? Still 0.

    Exhibit #18

    Another accusation of favoritism against piggit and her inclusion in to the revolving position of 'worst member here'. This position seems to be whomever she's arguing with at the time. This post from Deidre was in reply to where piggit said she'd best get a raincoat because Deidre was going to make sure the gasket blew up right in her face. (Post #106) See Exhibit #15. In piggit's response, she did not insult Deidre.

    Exhibit #19. Post #116

    Further accusations of favoritism and that non-favorite members are pushed out by the mods. And a small insult calling me baby.

    Number of times Deidre has been insulted so far in this thread? 0. Number of posts where she has insulted, accused or flamed other members? 16. (I think. It's getting hard to keep track.)

    Exhibit #20. Post #118

    Accusations, again. Accusing the mods of banning someone with a unpopular opinion. If she could provide those names, she might save her sorry hide from getting banned. There is a list of every single person who has ever been banned from this site as well as the person who banned them. It would be nothing to verify what she says. But she chooses not to do so.

    Exhibit #20. Post #123

    Piggit has asked for the names of those who were banned. Deidre insists that piggit knows and calls her a stupid bitch for, I guess, asking for those who she feels were treated wrongly. She says we can all read but this forum has close to 100,000 members and several hundred thousand pages of comments and several thousand pages of threads. Why doesn't Deidre want us to find these banned users? Those treated unfairly and by the mods of this forum? Why doesn't she want to demonstrate that we are all as nasty and unfair as she accuses us to be?

    Perhaps you'd best ask her.

    Either way, still no insult from piggit (or myself) and more insults from Deidre.

    Exhibit #21. Post #125


    Piggit claims that Deidre is angry, not for some abuse given to some members whom Deidre refuses to name but because that she was unable to honor a request by Deidre years ago. Piggit says that if she wants to be angry about that, go ahead, but to at least be honest about it. Deidre calls her disgusting and casts more dispersions on her character.

    Piggit did not insult Deidre in her comment.

    Exhibit for the plaintiff #1. Post #127

    After 127 comments, 2 1/2 pages of unanswered insults by Deidre, we get our first zinger of the thread in return. Kimi tells her she's full of shit. Wow. The forum is really ganging up on poor little Deidre.

    Exhibit for the Plaintiff #2. Post #128.

    Kimiko implies that Deidre is not rational. Ooooo, Burn! That's worse then telling a member to kill herself! Oh wait. No, it's not.

    Exhibit #22. Post #130.

    In response to being accused of being irrational, Deidre tells Kimiko she is shit. Always has been, always will be.

    Exhibit #23 . Post #133

    Kimi points out that Deidre has never been punished for expressing her views and *gasp* Deidre agrees with her. Then calls her a freak.

    Folks, this is a staggering revelation. Deidre has been claiming abuse by the mods yet here she sits, in total agreement with one of her sworn enemies that she has never been prevented with speaking her mind. But if the mods aren't mistreating her by preventing her from speaking her mind about her politics or other values, what are they doing?

    Wow. :shock: Some people might take this as an admission that all of her claims of mod censorship were crap. We have these mythical people who were supposedly banned, but Deidre is unable to furnish us with any names. We're left to rely on only her preception of events that she's been mistreated but the only way mods can mistreat an individual is by limiting their ability to freely express their ideas and Deidre just admitted that she has never been hindered in her desire to say whatever she wanted to say regarding any issue that was brought up!

    Deidre, I'm afraid you have egg on your face.

    Exhibit #24. Post #138.


    Deidre calls kimi a freak, a murderer and suggests that she sympathizes with those who rape and molest children. Pretty foul stuff. Especially when you consider that the worst Kimiko has offered up thus far is implying that Deidre is irrational.


    What follows is some back and forth between Kimi and Deidre but I've decided at this point not to include that. Simply because the primary reason for doing this was to highlight my involvement in this thread with Deidre. I got a bit carried away but there is simply too much in here for me to bring up every single one.

    Following that, there was no insult given by me to Deidre on this page. In fact, I only had one post out of 50 and that was not directed at Deidre.
     
  3. Lookn4awillin1

    Lookn4awillin1 Porn Star

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    Not at all, there are a slew of members that don't have an inflamatory bone in their body. Any one of them would be fine. Ejls was an excellent choice. Sorry to take the "glass half empty" stance. Guess I am supposed to be thankful they got it half way right.
     
  4. ShakeZula

    ShakeZula The Master Shake

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    On to page 4.

    Exhibit #25. Post #153

    In a post that doesn't seem to be directed at anyone in particular, Deidre removes the mantle of worst member from Kimiko and places it firmly back on my shoulders again.

    153 posts and I have not insulted her once. In fact, I've barely spoken to her.

    Exhibit #26. Post #155

    Deidre insults me, two other mods and the admin yet again and then insults another member for pointing out contradictions in her posts in this thread.

    Exhibit #27. Post #175

    Again, accusing a mod of mistreatment. This time saying piggit encourages members to mock her. No evidence is provided to support this claim. She accuses piggit of making fun of her but, at least in this thread, piggit has never insulted her.

    Exhibit #28. Post #178

    At this point there is a bit of a scuffle going on because some people have pointed out that Deidre seems to be condemning all mods and then saying that ejls is acceptable. They bring up posts where she condemns all the mods and offers no qualifiers. Piggit points out several and suggest that given the nature of the posts it should be easy for Deidre to understand that someone might get confused as to her intentions.

    Deidre responds by letting piggit know she can't stand her and says that we're all wastes of time.

    At this point I would be tempted to say that piggit has been the receiver of more abuse than me in this thread and she still has not answered Deidre with any insults of her own. Unperturbed, Deidre insults her and the other mods/admins at every opportunity. As she said she would do on page one.

    Exhibit #29. Post #183

    Deidre accuses the mods of mocking her. Apparently ignoring the fact that no mod has insulted her or mocked her. Her and Kimiko traded a few punches but ejls, piggit and I have said nothing derogatory about her or to her.

    Exhibit for the Defense #... fuck it, I can't remember what number I'm on. Post #189

    At long last, I'm back in this thread. Fire extinguishers at the ready...!

    Well god damn. Some cheek, but no insults. :mad: You know, you'd think for the amount of shit I'm getting, I would have been a lot more insulting in this thread.

    Exhibit for me. Post #198

    This is the really long post where I explain exactly why I will not be banning people I don't like and where I insult exactly no one.

    Some cheeky comments in the last paragraph, but no insults.

    4 pages and 200 posts in and I've yet to utter a single insult. Shall we go to page five?

    Let's.

    -S-
     
  5. Lookn4awillin1

    Lookn4awillin1 Porn Star

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    Of course they are not for her benefit, they are for your benefit, ass. You stay outside?:rolleyes:
     
  6. ShakeZula

    ShakeZula The Master Shake

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    Page 5.

    Actually, nothing happens here between Deidre and I. She doesn't post, but I become much more active. There is a lot of back and forth between myself, Emily 23xxx and Bladeway concerning my signature and it's merits, but no insults are hurled. To anyone.

    Page 6.

    Not much in this page, either. DL and I go a few rounds about Christianity. Deidre doesn't post and I don't insult her to any other members, nor do I even mention her.

    Page 7.

    Exhibit #30. Post 306

    After a brief absence where I'm pretty sure no one insulted her, Deidre returns to tell us that all the mods are a disgrace.


    She again reaffirms all her previous attacks by insisting she stands by them.

    Exhibit #31. Post #308

    All the mods are a joke (this time sparring ejls) and we're all immature. In Deidre's world, immaturity apparently means not insulting the person you are repeatedly attacked by. :rolleyes:

    Exhibit #32. Post #309

    Deidre reaffirms her previous statement that she intends to harass the mods and call them out to everyone who will listen.

    Exhibit #33. Post #312

    Kimiko commented that my big long post about how I won't be breaking any rules and what a mod's job is, should be required reading. In response Deidre calls her, stumbler and myself racists. I'm not sure how I became a racist, though. Apparently she tacks on whatever insult is handy and maybe feels she gets a combo bonus if she can include other members in the same insult.

    312 posts and I have no insulted Deidre once.

    No exhibit number. Post #314

    This post is a bit of an anomaly. Deidre has said multiple times that she is proud of the comments that I have chosen for my sig line yet here she seems to be embarrassed by them. She calls my use of them immature whereas in the past she told me I was welcome to keep them there for as long as I wanted. Which version of Deidre are we to believe? Keep in mind she has never asked me to remove them, either publicly or privately. If she had, I probably wouldn't have done it because they aren't there for her, but then again, I might have. It probably would have depended a lot on my mood.

    Exhibit #34. Post #319

    In response to me telling everyone why I would not abuse my mod position I'm called a pompous ass. In explain how I will most certainly behave in a mature manor while on the job, I'm told I'm immature. Go figure.

    Exhibit #35. Post #320

    Deidre indicates that I deserve to have her slit my throat and play in my blood because I have called her Filthy Whore. Make no mistake about it, Filthy Whore is an insult and was always intended to be, but it is a far cry from murder and what ever kind of sadistic mind would dream up playing in the blood of a dying man.

    So do I deserve a few jabs for my nickname for her? Absolutely. Are her manner of responses to me and others in proportion to what is said to her? I would say in most cases no. Refer back to Exhibit #15 where she tells Rockprincess to kill herself after RP suggested that she have a good morning.

    No exhibit number. Post #325.

    Another anamolous post where she tells me to continue doing as I like with her old posts and that her desire to murder me is justified because of it. Again, not for actually insulting her, but just for reminding others what she's likely to say when she forgets to put on her saccharine mask.

    Thus far, even though we are conversing directly with each other, I have yet to insult her. You could say that my signature is an insult in some way, but I would ask you how since I have stated several times that the signature is there for DL, not for her and she has repeatedly insisted she stands by those words.

    Exhibit #36. Post 332.

    Piggit reminds Deidre that she has called her a great many names thus far in this thread and Deidre responds by accusing piggit again of mistreatment. Never once producing a shred of evidence that this is true.

    Exhibit #37. Post 337.


    More accusations, then confirmation that she has not been mistreated. Then accusations again. Apparently the use of 'smart alecky' posts are all it takes to be called every word in Deidre's insult arsenal. If you disagree with her with too much cheek, you deserve all you get.

    I'm beginning to see a pattern here. It's not that the mods mistreat her in any way, shape or form. It's that there are no mods on her side in any issue. This makes her feel threatened, apparently and she feels she has to lash out and attack them in order to restore the balance.

    It's interesting what patterns emerge through exercises like this.

    By the way, piggit has come her closest to insulting Deidre thus far. She said she was behaving childishly.

    Exhibit for Deidre. Post #340.

    I tease Deidre about the fact that I can identify socks with a little digging.

    Exhibit #38. Post #341

    More accusations, no proof. But again, confirmation that the mods have never mistreated her with regards to censoring her. Which is the only way we could mistreat her in any legitimate fashion. I find it hard to believe that anyone would accept that not siding with Deidre is akin to mistreating her so once again we have evidence that her accusations of mod impropriety are groundless and that nophest's decision was justified.

    End of Page 7. I mention that I like to call Deidre Filthy Whore and silly bitch, but I never actually call her those. It's the closest I've come to an insult thus far, after 350 posts.
     
  7. Kimiko

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    For the record, Shake, I would never, ever deny that I have, on occasion, hurled insults at deidre. I don't apologize for that in the slightest degree. She deserved every single one of them, and more. If anything, I consider myself to have been far too restrained in my insults, given deidre's well-known talent as a provocateur.
     
  8. ShakeZula

    ShakeZula The Master Shake

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    Page 8.

    No exhibit number. Post #357


    Deidre makes one of her many rambling and nonsensical apologies. These are usually as short lived as a may fly and not worth the bandwidth they're transmitted on.

    Exhibit for me. Post #360.

    I acknowledge that I have mocked and insulted her in the past. But I do not mock or insult her this time.

    No exhibit number. Post #363.

    I can only answer by saying I think she's high when she posts crap like this. It makes no sense. If there are insults in there, which it seems like there might be, it's hard to determine. It's like she printed out three different conversations, cut them up line by line, mixed them and then selected a few to paste together in a new paragraph.

    Exhibit for me. Post #369.

    I dismiss her apology as more bullshit from her but I do not insult her.

    Exhibit #39. Post 384.


    My responses tonight. What responses? I dismissed her apology and told her I had no idea what she was talking about. This constitutes telling all these other mysterious and anonymous forum members to fuck off and me baiting her.

    Thus far I have no insulted her and I have teased her one time about something that, according to her who has no socks or anything to hide, shouldn't worry her. Admit fault for what? None of us have insulted her. She said from her own mouth that none of us have hindered her speech in any way. So here we just have more accusations of mod abuse.

    Exhibit #40. Post #387.

    This one is tricky because she posted inside a quote of TCL. We'll take it line by line, I guess.

    "ShakeZula deserves a kings ransom for his actions here."

    I have done nothing in this thread to insult anyone, least of all her.

    "Have you not seen ShakeZula proclaim he is all that now that he is a mod. He tries to play nice to everyone now because he is in his new role."

    Well now am I playing nice or am I telling everyone to fuck off and baiting her. They can't both be true.

    "That is obvious. I have seen a few bannings on here that were not justified, opinions are a bitch also."

    More accusations. Still no proof.

    "I wish he would tell us because we could put to rest so many myths here that have lingered for too long. Why would anyone make a sock? I can understand some in light hearted fun but members here are twisted and not in a good way. Who has the time really? If you study the boards long enough some are so easy to tell it's funny. You see one log off and then the other logs in mysteriously."

    Now she wants me to reveal socks after screaming for days that I'm not worthy to be a mod because I might just do something I'm not supposed to.

    "I have nothing to hide here although I might cut back on pms and go more visitor page messaging because I can imagine he is filtering through everything I have ever said here to make himself look better like he always does."

    Earlier in the thread she acknowledges Chunky's post–and seems to accept the fact–that mods can not access pms. Now she accuses me of having that ability and using it. With no proof and in spite of the fact that such a thing is impossible for the four of us.

    Exhibit #41. Post #398

    This one is a doozy.


    Deidre denies starting any hate with anyone. But in this very thread she had twelve consecutive posts of unprovoked attacks against the mods and anyone who congratulated them. She posted for the first several pages before anyone insulted her at all and the first person to fire the first salvo merely said she was full of shit.

    How, in light of this overwhelmingly damning evidence, can anyone side with her about anything? Excepting DL, who's mind is long gone, what the fuck can you be thinking? Her conduct is indefensible. I'm baffled at the people who have the gaul to tell me I'm responsible for her attacks. Truly I am. I've gone line by line in this thread so far and I haven't insulted her a single god damn time. Are all you people fucking crazy?

    KN and bladeway, this is the person you're going to leave the forum over and blame me for it while you're at it? I mean... God damn.

    End of page 8.

    It's 2am for me. I'm going to bed.

    -S-
     
  9. ShakeZula

    ShakeZula The Master Shake

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    I wasn't suggesting that you were trying to deny anything, I was merely going for full disclosure. I quickly realized how long that would take given the already long time it was taking to do what I did so I opted to just go for the ones that concerned me directly.

    -S-
     
  10. Kimiko

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    That's cool...I just didn't want anyone to think I was in denial myself about some of the things I've said to her.

    That was sure a wonderful trip down memory lane, though...next time, why don't you just give me a nice paper cut and pour lemon juice on it? :)
     
  11. Distant Lover

    Distant Lover Master of Facts

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    I am pleased to be associated with deidre79. :)

    This thread demonstrates once again that she has many admirers here. Everyone knows I am one, but I have never considered myself to be her favorite.
     
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    DITTO
     
  13. Kimiko

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    I'd be very hesitant to put that on my resume if I were you, DL. Unless you want to cite it as evidence of your compassion for people with disabilities.
     
  14. richief

    richief The Curly Wurly Man In XNXX Heaven

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    With all the skill of someone who as spent his adult life in Parliament you duck the issue of the question you was asked.

    I never claimed you were her favourite, but the other way around.
     
  15. Kimiko

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    Stop it! Get back to SemiLunate! :mad:
     
  16. liltxsmile

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    That's rich!! :eek::mad:
     
  17. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    Shake, have a pleasant nights sleep, in the morning you can read the rebuttals.

    Which I will begin right now, what has totally been ignored in your presentation of the "evidence" is your history with deidre and the stated fact that you know how she is when she get her jockeys in a wad. Also you have ignored the other posters who early in the game, were egging her on unmercifully, you are a mod now, yet you did nothing to squelch the rhetoric until much later in the thread.

    You said that it was not your job to do this, but then later did exactly that, you asked the two chief antagonists to "cool it", when did it become your job?

    Shake, I am not insinuating that you intentionally baited deidre, but unintentionally I think you did to exactly that. Perhaps I am so jaded by your usual caustic and snide remarks, delivered with an air of absolute superiority that I read things into your posts that aren't there. If I, such a stalwart keeper of decorum, thinks that, what the fuck does a paranoidal person see.

    It's in your history Shake, you love to piss people off, you love to tell them they are morons, you enjoy trampling on their beliefs, you done it for years. Why the hell would anyone expect anything else from you. A simple fact that you gave her no quarter, can be construed to mean "fuck you you idiot"

    That infamous fucking thread started by Red and cranked up by a cast of many will come back to haunt the forum.
     
  18. Chagrin

    Chagrin Friskeh Kitteh

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    Holy crap that's a lot of evidence!

    -runs to the lobby to buy some more popcorn quickly, hoping I don't miss anything-
     
  19. richief

    richief The Curly Wurly Man In XNXX Heaven

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    Ha you stop it and get back into your booth I have another roll of $20 bills.:excited::excited:
     
  20. ancient_red

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    lol, was that on this thread? *digs* Oh nope... elsewhere. back to it then!