Depends who the man is. Shallow self centered guys probably want just sex. Loving and decent men will want a relationship. So the answer is probably both lol

 

Either or both

 

Until I find the rite one sex

 

Do women want a relationship or just sex?

 

Most younger guys I know personally prefer to be single. While they like the steady sex in a relationship, they don't want the drama which is endemic to all relationships. So they surf porn, jerkoff, maybe fuck some girl they meet at a bar and then go back to their video games.

 

It depends on her lifestyle. Does she have her life together? (job, stable living situation, not a druggie) then sure. If not then it's just a fuck and chuck

 

Depends on the person... and the sex. I'm lucky and found my person, so I'm very happy. However in the past I've been quite miserable in relationships that weren't going anywhere except the bedroom, which is all fun and games until it isn't.

 

Both

 

I have, and had, friendships with women I have no intetnion of sleeping with. Great people, just like my male frends are.

 

Yea. OOF.

 

You can't really overgeneralize, not only because men are different but because what a given man wants can change over time, and also depends who he's with. There have been times I wanted a relationship. Now I have one that's lasted for decades. If it ever ended with me still alive I can't imagine wanting another.

 

I can't speak for other men strictly speaking for myself I don't want a relationship just strictly sex

 

Excellent points, of course. But there is a reason why generalizations are what they are. My personal one on one experience with many kids in their 20's is that they have no interest in relationships for the reasons stated. However, should the right woman appear out of thin air with flawless features, a sweet temperament, intelligence and money in the bank, all bets are off. I might add that many young women complain about not being able to find people to date as "dating" is no longer a thing and besides, it's too damn expensive! Exceptions to every rule, though!

 

Theres nothing better than finding your person. Sex doesnt really compare to the peace and fulfillment of real love. But its still frickin' awesome!

 

I have an extremely hard time trusting anyone enough for a relationship, but I also dislike passionless sex, so for me I need a girl I have an emotional attachment to and enjoy being around them.

 

One thing at a time
Meet
Go out
Fuck
Then maybe relationship
Then heaven or hell

 

Wow. The good guys still exist. I wanted love, marriage and family and put off sex for many years longer than my friends because I wanted SEX to be WITH my love and in my marriage. Yes, I was old fashioned and it didn't play out well for me, by the time I was trying to catch up I was seriously out of step. I did marry finally at 44, my wife a woman who had been a friend for 10 years. And she promised me, PROMISED, that I would never go 6 or 8 years without love or sex as had been my life so far. A relationship for 3 or 4 years, then nothing for 6 to 8. Repeat. I hadn't had sex for 8 years when we hooked up. THEN, 3 years in and 2 more kids born and she decides she doesn't want sex anymore, even refuses to follow her OB/GYNs advice. But it wasn't sex she didn't want, it was me. So for the next 6 years I could get sex as long as I got her juices up with someone else involved. That was fine, I had experience with MFM as a single and liked having my wife orgasm over and over with 2 men paying attention. THEN she decided she just wanted to give me a quick BJ and fuck the other guy without me. And then she quit the BJ. Which meant I was back to NO sex but she was off at her boyfriend having sex and MAYBE letting me fuck her when she got back, pussy full of his semen for me to eat and fuck. Not saying I didn't like that, but it shouldn't have been my ONLY choice. I blew up at HIS place and I told her I wanted a divorce and he immediately dumped her as well.

So NO, I don't want a relationship. IN fact I so don't want a relationship I'd rather never have sex again than risk one happening. My daughter, bless her, said that Mom fucked me over so badly I need to pull some money out of my retirement, go to Vegas and spend the weekend with some high priced professionals. Love that girl, she sees me LOL. Yeah, I think the only way I will ever have sex again is paying for it or trying it with another guy. I think the closest I will come to letting myself care for a woman are some of the women here I can love from afar LOL.

 

Men start out loving and decent, until they get fucked over, I'm speaking for me . because I became shallow, and self centered, over time. This new generation is all about themselves, and appearances. I won't even kiss ass for sex. These days, ppl treat it like currency.

 

So find a guy you want to have sex or one you do not need sex with.

 

Why are they sexless?

I cannot think.of more effortless activity that blesses a relationship.