I've only just started to do it and the first time was bad, not enough lube, i was tense and it hurt. Since then he has become a little preoccupied with it and sometimes forgets i have other holes!! It is becoming easier now i'm more relaxed and i really enjoy it, providing he or i can do my clit at same time, i actually prefer it on my back with legs up. For quite a while after i can still feel him in there, does anyone else have this after feeling? It just keeps me horny.

 

If I put my finger in her ass while we're fucking, it seems to bring my wife to orgasm faster. She claims her asshole was hurt when she gave birth and as far as she's concerned I'll never be able to put my dick in. We've discussed it at length.

 

Me and my gf tried anal a couple times, neither of us could get into it, we tried it just to try it, i personally just love good old fashioned vagina. For us the cons ought weigh the pros.

 

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Originally Posted by Jule
I like anal sex, even though it isn't something that would bring me mind blowing orgasms. There are better ways to do that... So yes, when I do it, I enjoy it. But I have to say, I can't always take it.. Sometimes, I cannot relax enough. So it depends.

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Originally Posted by countrymama
This, i think, is a very personal matter, that varies greatly from woman to woman. I personally just recenlty started to enjoy it. It used to be I would give in to my husband when I had been drinking enough to know that I could relax...

The impression I'm getting from both of you is that you're willing to engage in oral sex, but it's not your preference. It's also interesting that the body's first reaction to anal entry is to seize up and fight it

if u had the choice between pussy or arse... ofcourse pussy will come first... u only quoted one part of the text, which obviously can be taken 2 ways

 

i dated a girl who would have multiple orgasms during anal. the only reason we didn't do that all the time was she was afraid of damage she was doing to her system, so we limited it to about once every other week. she was a pro at it though when i met her, she taught me how to ease a woman into it. retrospectively, i feel like i owe her a tutor's fee or something.

 

My wife like Anal sex

 

My experience makes me think some do some dont.

Some hate even the sheer thought of it, but iv had a few gf's who have prefered to anything else.
Some aint too sure and slowly like to try it, like one gf who turns out she does like it, but it took us a while to get into it in a way.

 

THERE IS THE OFF CHANCE SHE IS SIMPLY GIFTED EAROTIC SNSETIVE ASS
BUT THAT IS JUST A THEARY

 

If you ever won a spelling bee your out of the question also.

 

I havent gotten to anal sex yet...me and my bf have tried..he got as far as having his head in me, but it hurt to much and i wasnt relaxed as well because at the time his parents were home and i couldnt really relax, and let out emotions how i wanted too. i want to do it really bad, he does as well, we do have lube but havent really put a night aside to try just anal..any tips ?

 

I've never used lube, it hurts but take it nice and slow.. It's worth the little bit of hurt, at least I think so!!!..Once he's in just relax and get used to it...you both have to relax, Have him take nice, very slow easy strokes at first until you're opened up more...You'll know when he can pick up the pace...After a while you'll be meeting him...It makes me twitch just thinking about it...Good luck and Enjoy!!!!:-D

 

How can i relax though..anything i should do first or during to relax me..i think its hard to relax when it hurts so much

 

Do you drink, have a few drinks....Start out with some oral, move to a little vaginal sex, and then try the anal....It might not work for you the first few times....I don't like just anal it has to be a part of the whole picture....Use the lube, get really hot and passionate first....

 

yea im only 21 so of course i drink haha..but anyway..i was thinking of maybe some oral first, and maybe i can touch my clit while he tried to put it in, that always relaxes me

 

Just make it a regular session of making love and see what happens...Don't think about it and it will happen eventually.......:-D

 

Ok i will let ya know what happens

 

Let me know and good luck with it!!! It took me a while to start enjoying it and even longer to admit it, but things are so much different now....:-D

 

Count me out coach

Never had much thought about going up the old poop shoot.. The ladies I been with were not into it either. So I don't think I missed anything ...This at one time was thought to be and talked about as being a Greek thing. Times are changing now.

 

Well me and the bf have only tried it once and I loved it. I had had a few drinks before hand so that relaxed me, and we just lubed up and went for it. Definately something I will do again.

 

If you are interested in exploring anal sex I highly recommend Jack Morin's Anal Pleaure & Health. (My dad gave this book to me when it first came out and it is now in its third edition.) Some women have terrible first experiences with anal sex while others view the anus as "taboo". In both instances it is up to the man to make his women feel comfortable exploring this part of her body.

When my partner and I first started dating there was no way she was going to do anal. Now her anus is her perferred point of entry. She absolutely loves it! Anal sex adds another dimension to sexual pleasure if done properly but it requires us men to use both heads.