Does she pushes back against them? If she does that's your green light to try going deeper, in time with her pushing.

 

After having either hole fisted how long does it take for there holes to tighten back up to there as normal size or there new normal size?

 

How about asking her?

 

I would definitely ask first.
4 fingers is way different than a whole fist.
You can stretch her out a bit with some toys too.
I hope she enjoys anal for your sake, because that's gonna be some loose pussy for a bit.

 

Stick this up your ass first

 

my ex wife could take 4 fingers but never able to go the extra mile. my girlfriend now can take the same but doesnt really like it. she'd rather fist my ass. she likes to do it and i love it too.

 

LMAO
There's so much rubbish repeated on here about stretching , fisting and so on , and loose vagina.

Makes you wonder if any of those "advisers" have actually done it ,
or done it to anyone they know well enough to judge the result.

Firstly , it depends on the woman.
If her pelvic opening is to small , she can not be fisted , and obviously from there , it depends on her structure , wether it will be comfortable , enjoyable or otherwise.

Then it's a matter of time , patience , and most of all trust , and lube.
It may even take several or more attempts , if she is keen to , until she can relax and be comfortable , and to find the position that suits her.

But , if she is fit and healthy , she will go back to her normal state quite quickly after.
Fisting will not make her loose or looser long term.

If she also dose her kegels , or pelvic floor muscle exercises , regularly , often , she may even get tighter , if she has for some reason got a bit loose.
(But how do you know , how do you tell ? or perhaps you've become a soft cock

Mostly its just a matter of physiology.
vagina like cock , will be the size they are , no bigger , no smaller .
You get what you're given ,
no choice

After that , it's a matter of how you look after yourself .
Generally.

 

Just some spelling and grammatical errors. but all in all, good info.

 

I spoke flippantly about this before as though its nothing particularly significant in my sex life but with an accommodating woman, it can be incredibly erotic. It's a visual feast and leaves a hand free for self pleasure if desired. I was playing hand puppetry with my belle this afternoon while lapping at her clit. She had a minute or two of intense orgasming. What a delight!

Incidentally, today was one of those days where my cock had chosen not to enter the building. I'm off work with man flu which has consequences but I'll be dammed if I'd let that stop me!

 

I could never claim to be any kind of advisor;
I can only share my experiences and subsequent thoughts or conclusions with you.
You can take from it what you wish...
@slutwolf i feel, you have worded things perfectly...
Only recently did I find myself engaging, losing myself and completely revelling in the very act that I thought impossible for my small frame...
Not only that but I was so incredibly turned on there was no need for lube at all!!!!
All I can say is..... sexual chemistry can be a powerful thing that is seriously underestimated and can’t be truly understood until experienced!

 

Stretching her pussy or ass is hot. Licking her gaping holes would have me hard as a rock. Just thinking about stroking her loose holes has precum dripping from my hard cock.

 

Haha this post, 2017! I'm still not there. Stretching and trying to fist het is big fun. If you want to fist your gf, just take your time, do her step by step.

 

Dose it take long