I AM NOT

I havent had any in some time, I have been fortunate to have had two wives whose sex drive was low. First one I divorced, second one is everything else a husband would want in a woman and I will not lose what I have doin something dumb. We have been together 26 years now.

 

Well as far as the bank, it's mine. I make 5 times what he does.

My concern is the kids. They love him to pieces and he is a good father to them. I have asked him about having an "online only" relationship, but he still considers that cheating. I'm shocked he hasn't tried to get into my account yet, thankfully he is not computer savvy.

I have debated it quite often. I'm sure at some point it will come to that.

 

Who says the married girls aren't getting enough from their husbands...???
Two way street you know.

 

I get plenty from my wife, in fact I can't always keep up with her. There are times when we go more than a few days without sex but i'm happy as hell. Sex is just a part of the relationship. Been married 24 years.

 

not even close...

We tied the knot last November and havent had sex since. We were never more than once a week prior to getting married, but the stress and difficulty of life this past year has really contributed to each of our cases of depression.

Hers is worse than mine so she has quite literally no sex drive. Im not the type to push so we just deal. I wack off every day.

 

Do you mean that you get laid elsewhere by a different woman??

 

Man,...I do ALL the laundry (wash, dry, fold, even iron),..I cook and clean up the kitchen, (we take turns cooking),..I do the dishes,.. Im at her side pushing the grocery cart at the store,..I gas up her truck each weekend,..vacuum , dust, windows, toilets, blinds,..all of it my friend. I do way more than 50% of running the house. I dont mind at all,..I watched my dad help around the house growing up. But you would think, that perhaps this would make her feel, "wow, my man does so much, I should let him eat some of my sweet pussy tonight to thank him". Hahaha

 

.......east coast ,...how is that from Texas,.....hmmm,..damn, too far. :excited:

 

That would certainly earn you the ability to lick all you wanted and even fantastic blowjobs anytime, anywhere. Switch spouses? lol

 

:rose:

 

a little over 1 year for me (married) and IM the one not gettin enough. 1-2 times a month if not that, almost 2 months. im a pissed of wife

 

Same here plus working 8 to 12 hours a day. Single income household (I'm the one that makes all the money..) I can't fault her for having health problems though. She tells me I can get a girlfriend for sex and I still feel bad.
I would rather it be her, and I'd rather she felt better. I'm sure she would want me more often if that were the case.
Sometimes life dishes out worse than people should get.

 

Thats exactly what I mean...

 

Me too bro.

No judging here. Too bad we cant grab a beer and compare notes. Cheers.

 

I think I'm coming up on a year without sex with my wife, but maybe it's only been 8 or 9 months. She simply isn't that into it.

For anyone in a similar situation, I recommend the book "The Sex-Starved Marriage", by Michele Weiner Davis. I tried a lot of the advice in the book, but the main thing it helped me with is understanding it from my wife's point of view. I was feeling resentful but I came to see that it's not really her fault, and that she is probably as unhappy about it as I am.

Still, I'm no saint. I cheat on her sometimes, but I feel like it keeps me from becoming too frustrated and taking it out on our relationship. We've been married over a decade, so maybe it's working.

Okay, bring on the people who tolerate bestiality posts but go ballistic over cheaters.

 

Im on your side. Back when I did cheat,..it was one of the few things that would put a smile on my face. In fact, we fought alot less at that time. ....hell,..maybe she was fucking around too.

 

I've thought about that, and for a while I thought I'd be pissed off that she would give it to someone besides me. Now, I think I'd be partly okay with it. She deserves some sexual happiness, if she can find it. But I don't think she's looking or interested.

 

Ive looked hard at everything myself and came up empty. If I could hide it and get away with it, so could she, kwim? Her libido is either shot to hell,..or,..she has no desire for "me" anymore. She dresses so classy that it compliments her curvy figure. I know other men see her,..and Im sure she notices too. She must be turned off by me. I know she would look soo hot getting fucked by another guy. Our anniversary is several months away,...maybe, maybe, I'll get lucky that night. damn!

 

I feel for you guys, it is similar for me here too. Like some of the others I do probably in excess of 90% of the housework, cooking cleaning washing cooking etc Ive tried to taolk, Ive told her how I feel but it doesnt seem to mean anything. It is like if I dont want to have sex then you shouldnt want to either. If it were the other way around I know for sure I would do my best to do something to please her

 

im not thats why i went bi can always find a hard cock to fuck