im not that why i went bi i can always find a hard cock for my ass

 

23 years of marriage here and sure there are times when i feel i dont get enough. Life is not one straight line. There are ups and downs. On the ups. We fuck like rabbits but on the downs its barren for weeks sometimes months. Looking back those times have genarally bee when either or both of us have been stressed or tired or shitty. They pass and there is always porn to jerk off to. Occasionaly i have seen a prostitute to get some relief and attention. Not proud of this but life is not easy and its better than affair.

 

Im not married but i may as well be im lucky if i get it twice a month

 

Took the words out of my mouth...

The only difference is my wife and I have only been together for 7 years....were still in our 20's smh

 

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. I am 30, he is 37. The couples on here who are older than us seem to be able to hold it together more and have way more sex than we do. How is that??

 

I failed to mention husband and I have been together almost 6 years

 

I get it 2x3 a week. My wife always fixes herself up. I would like to do it a little more but
we do have great sex. Been married 39 yrs.

 

I can echo several in here, I have been married for 14 years and there are times where it goes 2 to 3 weeks between... And doing the wash helps (I am home a lot right now) but only so much when she has no desire...

 

I've been married almost 28 years and sex keeps getting less and less. I have tried all of the above mentioned suggestions and many more, but my wife is just not interested in sex. Makes a guy feel real good about himself, huh? This has gone on so long that the other day she was laying on her stomach reading a book, wearing some shorts without underwear. As I left the room, I had one very small moment when I thought about stopping and touching her in a sexual way. Then all the memories of being turned down and/or her lack of participation even if she did say yes came back and I had no problem walking right on by. I will NEVER ask my wife for sex, ever again, no matter how long it has been and so far she seems to be just fine with that!

 

You are one lucky dude.. 2 to 3 times a month and Id be a very happy fella

 

I know exactly what you mean. It is ther same for me, total lack of interest and a complete refusal to let me touch her.

Silly thing is I keep going back, hoping that perhaps this time it will be different. Trouble is it never is. It is always too late, or too early, or she has other stuff other mind.

Anyway where I used to shave her, go down on her use her toys her, make love, and she always seem to enjoy it. Now the bush resembles King Kongs Bride and is totally off limits to my fingers and way off limits to my tounge.

I dont mind the lack of shaving I dont mind the lack of penetrative sex, but I do mind the lack of feeling of being desired and the feeling you get when you touch your partner and they respsond positively, when you are able to bring to orgasm in whatever way. The feeling of being sexually close.

 

I couldn't agree more. I think my wife is and always has been afraid of being vulnerable during sex. To give herself over completely during the pleasures of sex is beyond her comprehension.

 

Man, I know that feeling. My wife likes me to be a little flirty and affectionate as long as she also knows it's not going to lead to actual sex or pressure for sex. In return, she's flirty back, so I don't feel like I'm getting the cold shoulder entirely. Since I'm getting some once in a while on the side, I guess I can live with her not letting me close the deal at home.

The closest I can come to explaining it is this: If you loved some guy like a brother, and you were straight and he were gay, how often would you be able to sleep with him? My wife will do something she's not into for me, having sex, once in a while. She enjoys it when we do it. But she's just not into it on her own initiative. It doesn't mean she doesn't love me, or that I'm not attractive. It's just not something she's into and she can't change that. I know she wishes it were different. But I don't think counseling can make a gay person straight, or some people who don't like sex suddenly start liking it.

 

Next time I get to Florida I will give you a call and see if we can work out your anger issues!

 

You know what fellas,..there's one more lil thing that started bothering me. Along with many years of putting up with "turned down" sex and no longer seeing any desire in her eyes,....I noticed she really lites up when a chiseled, six pack, total body shaving, Ambercrombie & Finch wearing cover boy walks by or is near. Her clit must be quivering! Ok I know he (they) are eye candy to her,..but I for one never make it obvious that I'm checking out another women in front of her. I mean, she's not that obvious, but I have my tricks to see if she is. So she's got to be no longer attracted to me. Im 41 now and I know i don't look like Im 23 like when we met. But I still find her so hot,..I guess her story for me is much different now.

Fuuuuuuck,....

Time to seek out a gf?,...

 

even enough wouldn't be enough

 

Going through a similar problem. You have my sympathies.

 

Been married 8 years here and the sex is better than ever! She just turned 31 and is hitting her sexual prime. We probably average 4 to 7 times a week...depends on the week since we work completely different schedules. I will admit I don't get head as much as when we were dating. She likes doing it as foreplay or when I pull out ready to cum. I rarely get a complete blowjob from start to finish anymore...unless she wants to buy something expensive ;-).

 

Been married for 20 years, sex has totally disappeared for our daily life, I would be lucky to have twice a year. Sad, very sad indeed.:wall:
Years ago, I heard a saying that said:

During the first 2 years of your marriage, put a match or a toothpick in a box by your night stand, each time you have sex.
After the first 2 years, remove one match or toothpick after each time you have sex.
Apparently, on the day you die, there will still be matches or toothpicks in that box by your night stand.:excited:
Just food for thoughts,...

 

plenty