To the original poster, you're fine. I am the same kinda person if that helps and normal too. I like cock, I like pussy, I like sex of any kind, sorry no animals. I gotta say though, doin the guy thing is starting to wear thin, fucking the wife is still fun....could be alot better, but still fun.

 

Hi guys(and girls),

Im Mike. I was about to make a thread like this and decided not to (since I saw this one) and im good with forums and I know multiple threads get annoying.

anyways... I have the same.. "problem" if you might call it that. I love looking at cock. It doesnt turn me on though. I usually end up going on porn and then as I see girls giving head to guys with nice cocks, I begin to imagine myself playing the role of the girl(s) and not the guys. then I go on gay porn... it just sorta leads into it... hard to explain.

anyways, I dont beleive im gay or bi because I am not attracted to men. I cant look at a guy and want to walk down the street hand in hand with them. I cant imagine making out with him or going on a date. In other words, I cant fall in love with a man. I wouldnt want to know the person either. but... I would give them head all night and get loads like a crazy slut...but once I orgasim...the feeling is gone. its only when I am turned on that I want cock.

any thoughts?


Thanks,
Mike.

 

i am the same way 100% i think its the thought of doing something that might not be in the "norm" i love the thought of giving a guy head with my girlfriend.. but when i cum.. i am not about it at all... when i was younger i had a few guys i messed around with and i loved it up untill the point i came and then i was get all bent out of shape.. sometimes cried (i was in 7th grade i think) but i dont think i am gay at all... i am a straight man with gay tendencies lol

 

I have not done anything but once im horny im willin to go with a guy(s). ive played with bananas and cucumbers and often had two toys with me. once I came I was like "what the hell am I doing?". then the next day or several hours later, same thing.

 

I am a "bi-guy", but I don't really consider myself bisexual - I'm just sexual, that's it. Sex is sex.

I know many "straight" guys who I mess around with - and the range of their sexperimentation goes from not wanting to touch me while I give 'em head to guys who luv getting fucked. But they still consider themselves straight.

One particular friend only likes to play with me when a woman is present (my wife usually), but once he gets going he likes everything except being fucked. He likes anal stimulation and will even kiss me when he's cumming. Afterward he doesn't clam up or get shy, but he will focus more on the female before revving up again. It's totally hot.

 

i thought i was straight til a few months ago when me and my long term girl were speakin about fantasy's, i quickly realised im orally bi, and get turned on by the thought of doing things to a dick, but anything more then oral is a NO. but i would gladly choose pussy over any dick x

 

For AMAC

You said it all right there! I'm not gay but some of my best friends are and as far as I'm concerned they are more real and more of a man than allot of straights I know. They tend to drop all the image bullshit that most boys have to hide behind therefore being comfortable with themselves. "If you cant love yourself its very difficult to love others"

 

Dude, you are just bi-curious. Give it a try, then you"ll know for sure.

 

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Right there with ya man.

 

bugger it....ya only live once.if ya interested then give it a go.........who gives a f&#k

 

Yeah, i'm the same. I'm quite a mix, i've never been turned on all that much by gay porn or whatnot, but i've always liked other guys penises, and i like bi fantasies, i dont think it even quite comes under Bi. It also depends on what mood i'm in, if i want some tenderness, i'm totally straight, but if i'm feeling horny i'd be happy to fuck/be fucked by a guy. I'm not sure if it'll ever happen, but a camping trip with mates that turns sexual? my biggest fantasy. My mates all know (well, my closest ones) and all admit some degree of agreeance, but not to the same extent as myself. I got over the whole "am i normal" thing years ago, it's never been a problem with me, although i do get nervous in relationships, so now if it goes far enough i made a vow to myself to always tell them. I'm busy writing a story along the lines of my aforementioned fantasy, it might wind up here, it might not.

T'n'F

 

Perfectly stated. That about sums it up for me as well.

 

To elaborate (since I enjoy this topic as of late ), sucking, stroking, looking at cocks turns me on; being cum on by a guy turns me on. Exhibition-play in front of a guy turns me on. I fantasize about receiving anal with a guy, or a shemale. Ive had multiple oral experiences with a friend. However the thought of relationships with guys, kissing them, etc., just turns me off. Im totally into women otherwise. Im happily engaged to a wonderful woman, the sex is great, and I completely love everything about the female form. 9 times out of 10 (well, maybe 8...:-D ) I masturbate to women; but when watching porn and such I enjoy what the guys are packing too. I used to worry about the whole "Am I gay?" thing, but then I realized what many have said here: sexuality is a diverse human trait. All too often we place limits and boundaries as to what is "normal". If you enjoy what you are doing, think nothing of it and go with it. If you try it and find out its not for you, well then, lesson learned. If you try it and want more, then enjoy it for what its worth until you feel otherwise.

 

I just joined this forum, and have been reading the various posts. I find it interesting to note all the men who state they like to fool around (to a point) with other men, but then quickly lose interest once they orgasm. I'm exactly that same way. My first sexual experiences were with boys, first when I was 9 or 10 and another when I was 13. I've only ever dated girls, but have fooled around with boys from time to time. I've never felt anything emotional towards guys, or really been turned on by anything other than their cocks. I have no trouble appreciating a good looking guy's looks, but I'm not attracted by their looks. Kissing a guy not only disinterests me, but flat out turns me off. I love having guys cum in my mouth, but I have to make sure I don't cum first, because I stop touching them at all at that point.

 

Well, this is exactly the subject that led me to this forum! Actually, I LOVE the posts saying "jeesh not another one" about guys hung up about possibly being gay or bi. I grew up in a pretty free, hippy family, so I've never been particularily hung up about any less-than-traditional sex, but it did take me a long time to actually wrap my brain about wanting to have sex with guys and thinking about cock. I do think there is a social stigma about bi guys that girls just don't have to deal with. Hell, everybody knows that girl-on-girl action is HOT, but guy-on-guy, not so much. It's a shame.

For me personally, I'm happily married and my wife is fully aware of my ourges. I have yet to act on them, but I think I'm finally getting to the point that I want to try it out. We have been playing quite a bit with her wearing a strap-on; I suck it, she fucks me, the whole bit. Heh, the other night while she was fucking me she started the dirty talk and wanted to know if I wanted her to pull out and cum all over me. Christ, put me right over the edge.

So yes, there are a zillion versions of sexual orientation and I love figuring out what I am! It's a great ride!

Sam

 

Agreed, Sam.

Great avatar, btw.

 

im the same way i like cocks but not the guys faces. shemales and harmys really turn me on

 

Great post there Sam.:rose: I also like your avatar. And so far I like what I have seen of your posts.............Not that my opinion should really matter.:rose:

 

Take turns

I've been shown two solutions to losing interest in sucking a cock once you have shot your load. I did 3-somes for quite a while with a couple who wanted to have the two guys pereform for the wife. We both enjoyed it until one of us would cum, then is was over. Problem was that both of us guys got really turned on by the taste of cum, so Dee came up with a really neat solution.

She got Clint on his knees in front of me sucking my cock while she stood beside me facing me and slid her thumb as far into my ass as it would go and massaged my prostate until she forced cum out of my cock without making me cum. I nearly did, and it felt really great. With some of my cum in his mouth to enjoy, Clint stood up and I sucked him off. I was still very much into it since I hadn't had an orgasm. Dee finished me off after I did Clint.

They moved several states away, but Clint traveled back on business every few weeks for more than a year, and we would meet to suck cock. We solved the problem without Dee by taking turns getting the mouthful. One time I'd have him cum in my mouth and then I'd Jack off. The next time it would be the other way around.

If anybody would be interested in a similar arrangement in the Indiana, Illinois, Kedntucky, SW Ohio area, PM me.

 

to put it simply if it feels good do it