At what point do you consider someone Gay or Bi? When they want to experiment or after they have experienced someone of the same sex?

 

What do you care who considers what at what point?
Those are opinions. Didn't your mom tell you not to care about peoples' opinions?

Anyway. Lemme have a wack at this:
Gay, bi- and straight are not the three available options, ok? Those are points on a spectrum. The theoretical (!) spectrum is 100% hetero- on one end, moving to 50/50 bisexual in the middle and 100% homo- on the the other end.

100% on modern scales include dreams, fantasies and plain ol' arousal levels watching different acts of sex and so on... So it's not only about what you've actually done sexualy. It's what you think about, what you want and what arouses you (only if it's in your head and doesn't turn you on in reality).

When approached this way, turns out that technically no one is 100% homo- or hetero-. We're all somewhere on the spectrum.
I experimented with the same sex a bit and I consider myself - I am - slightly bisexual. But a lot closer to the hetero- end of the spectrum.

 

Totally gay is a guy, or gal who only wants to play with their gender. Bi is a guy, or gal, who enjoys sex with either gender. I am bi and love cock and pussy equally..........Life is TOO sort not to have all the pleasure available, DONT let social mores rule your life. Do what you want to , with those who are happy to do it too. But try not to hurt others while you enjoy yourself. Seems to me almost a moral preaching !!!! Perhaps I could start a church? Bet that it would be popular !!

 

This question keeps being asked. Why do we need a label. I look at myself as sexually flexible. If it feels good or makes someone else feel good do it.

 

I guess it depends on how you define "gay" and "bi".
Let's assume for the sake of conversation that by "gay" you mean homosexual and by definition homosexual means a person who has sex with another person of the same gender.
In which case, being "bi" is the same as being homosexual but not strictly homosexual.
Then there's the difference between being homosexual and performing a homosexual act.
A man is prison who has a knife to his throat might perform an homosexual act on his assailant but that doesn't make him homosexual.
The same goes for a woman who's forced to perform sexual acts during a rape. The act doesn't define the personality.
Nina will have sex with another woman simply because she knows us guys like watching two women have sex. I don't consider her gay or bi. (nor does she) she is simply performing an act. An act that if it wasn't for someone else's enjoyment, she probably would never do on her own initiative.
Is being penetrated anally with a dildo held by a woman any different than if her husband takes over and suddenly you're being dildo fucked by a man?

That's really putting too much thought into something that is really no one's business.
If you like having sex with people of your own gender but you are afraid of what people will think, then don't broadcast your private, personal life to the general public.

 

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Gay would be basically someone that only dates someone that is of the same sex/ gender/ sexual assignment as themselves, dating as defined as dating in general, sex of any form, or committed relationships.
Straight would be just the opposite.
Bi-sexual is everyone that lies in the middle.

I have dated mainly males as they were defined at birth yet most were more effeminate than many women and I define as human, yes I am bi-sexual but I am overall human and I refuse the labels.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

 

I think it became official when other people's penises started entering me.

 

Ya who cares what you’re called as long as you enjoy what you are doing with who ever you are doing it with.

 

u bet a.

 

Sounds like you are questioning your own behavior or lack of esteem... look inward, the truth is there. Dont ask for reformation

 

Gay... only does the same sex.... bi does both

 

why does it even matter ?