So. Just going 'back to the basics' what do you all think constitutes a good kisser? I've always liked the guys who are gentler and seem to take it more artfully, if you will. Some guys I've noticed are really aggressive and tend to kiss hard which is..ok, but I'm not sure it's as enjoyable...what are your favorite techniques, etc?

 

I agree that it depends on the situation and mood.....However, I don't like that hard, hard kissing, at least, not to the point that it hurts........

 

yeah to much tounge is really not good

 

owww dont get me wrong it is hot but to much of it down your throat isnt!!

 

Some people can kiss and some people CAN KISS.The best kiss I ever had was when we both pulled away together(no toungues) and I found that was quite enjojable and exiting.

 

I like to change it up, I like variety. Sometimes I like the hard kisses and sometimes the gentile ones.

 

I like to use different kisses for different situations, I think that's what makes a good kisser, somebody who can adapt skills to fit the situation

 

a lost art . . .

a good kisser starts out demurely - testing the waters by lightly placing the lips on the other persons lips and gently contracting and relaxing the muscles along the mouthline. Initially the lip surfaces should never move off of one another completely, and the pressure should vary. Then you should move your mouth off with just a hint of slight suction - look directly into the eyes of your lover - and begin to involve a hand in the kissing (on a shoulder, on the face, along that super-soft spot just below the ear on the neck) - either in rhythm to the movement of the lips - or as a seperate stimulus to keep your lover slightly off-balance about what is going to happen next. Letting your mouth open just slightly as you place off-center kisses indicates you are ready to begin being more aggressive, but let the woman make the first move of adding the tongue. In a random way, add some stronger sucking action into the mix, pulling her lower lip just inside your mouth and holding there for only a split-second. When she does open her mouth to yours more widely, and is obviously letting you know that the time for french kissing has arrived, slide your tongue to hers as two friends might meet in a public place . . . warmly, not too forcefully. Let the tip of your tongue trace the outline of her lips from time to time, even run your tongue along her gumline (not like a dental cleaning - softer than that), pay attention to her whole mouth. Tell her she is a great kisser - and that you love her mouth. Once she has indicated that she wants you to kiss her deeply, oblige her with reciprocal activity. Grip her more firmly with your hand as your mouth opens widely and your tongue counters her tongue movement actively. No need to juggle her tonsils, but by now there is no need to be shy about pressing your mouth onto hers with a passion that leaves no doubt about how much you are enjoying yourself. Always remember that kissing is a subtle art - and that even the slightest variations in touch, speed, change of position, etc. can accelerate your lovers passion - or put the brakes on. Try not to think about the kissing in a technical way either, or you may miss out on the full enjoyment of placing your mouth on another mouth and all the power that lies within that act . . .

happy smooching

 

yeah i know i cant spell fast typer is why Are u really pissing about that or that i wouldnt chat w/ ya?

 

Very, very nice OT, you can kiss me anytime!!! Good to see you!!!

 

Commando style kissing, see what I like to do is change my plans see? depends on whats goin down see? now if the girly is going all soft on me i like to swoop in and get my tongue in all sneakily like, like a squirrel sneakin into the attic see? but now if i picked this girl up on the bar, and shes got a 2 lb magnet in her pants attracting my cock of steel then I like to get that shit done!! GET THAT SHIT DONE! YEAHH

(sorry I just saw Joe on family guy flip out again)


ahhh but no really after that joke that no one will laugh at im with baller on this, it depends..

 

No shit

 

I LOVE a good kiss! Deep, wet, loving. I love when he sucks my lower lip in his mouth gently, runs his tongue across my teeth, speaks so softly through his breath - telling me how beautiful I am, how much he wants me. All the while, I feel his warm hands on me. That's just pretty damn hot! There's a kiss, then there is a KISS.

 

*fanning my face, glad that I'm sitting on a towel*

 

all of the above..!! Good comments and lengthy technique advice!

Will just add that I think a guy who is good at going down town...will probably be a good kisser...and vice versa! Hint for the ladies...but you knew that already..

 

good advice ot!

 

I use tons of different techniques depends on the situation.but one of my favorite things to do is softly press my lips against hers..pull away and softly trace her lips with my tongue as I stare my blue eyes into hers

 

Ok than,,,,,,,,,plz, do stare,,,,,,,,,,,,