Have you considered that your high demands on him may be actually putting him off? Perhaps he feels like he has to perform to keep you happy and perhaps fear of not being able to live up to your expectations is making him anxious. Turning down sex might in that situation seem like a better option for him than risk failure

Talk to him about your mutual desires and how you can have a fulfilling sex life together rather than 'Always Asking For It'

 

Have sex multiple times a day... masterbation gets old!

 

I love when my gf invites her friends over to watch her jack me off.

 

Me and my gf are in a long distance relationship,so masturbation is mandatory for our sexual desire. We are seriously considering acquiring some fuck buddies to ease our need for physical contact. We're a little anxious for the after affect, but are also excited for the adventure.
She's hot and has big tits, so it'll be easy for her to get fucked. I suggested she pick a friend who has been in need of some cock and set me up. I told her it'll be like watching porn but actually getting wet.

 

Masturbation is for losers who cannot achieve the real thing.

 

Actual sex.

 

I think Stickytom nailed it. You say you have a high sex drive and I dont doubt it. However if it’s the same routine over and over, he has grown tired of it. He obviously has a high sex drive as well, but with jerking off, he may be getting the variety through porn he’s not getting from you. Or I may just be full of it because I don’t know the whole story.

 

Wow, that's a lot of advice. You seem to be asking our opinion so, here's mine.
With every relationship there is a lull... A plateau. It's not that he is tired of fucking you. He is used to the routine of it. Even if you try to spice it up and try new things... eventually one of you will plateau. Sex and masturbation are two different things... especially if you throw in PORN. The person in the lull sees porn as something different. He or she can watch different vids or read different stories each time. They can tailor them to their perversion... Girl on Girl, MILF, Mature, Incest, bestiality...etc. Plus, masturbation is personal, they have been doing it alone for years, so they are comfortable with it... probably have a need for it. My advice is to see if they will let you masturbate with them. See what they are into. Maybe find your own kink. Which by the way, can shift week to week. If they want to do it alone, respect it, and find your own alone time to do the same. Most of all open lines of communication.

 

I would definitely prefer sex but would still be turned on being watched or talking to you while masterbaiting. It could be on my way to you building up to sex. Woo, hot in here

 

Definitely not passing up booty for my hand… haha. That’s very strange if you ask me!

 

Sometimes I do know how to please me best, can't be denied. However on the whole, fucking any day. It's also very good exercise!

 

Fucking of course.

 

Thank you all for your intell!

 

Been there.
Do yourself a favor and stop wasting your time. If he can't fulfill things now, it'll never happen. He is who he is and you can't change that. If you can't live without him, build up your own toy collection and be into yourself

 

He's jerking because it takes zero effort and he doesn't have to reciprocate

 

Maybe try masturbating together if he enjoys his hand so much.

 

my opinion if that's a pic of you in your avatar, is maybe you intimidate him, ie can he ask you for sex at any time? is he maybe inhibited, like I was when I first got with my wife, maybe you for a while need to instigate sex, I was always a little intimidated by my wife casual attitude to sex, and even if he has had a wank then if he shags you he will last longer, just a thought , I would often beat one out before I shagged my wife that way I didnt get premature x

equally my wife never put our sex life into a score out of ten, but I would always make her cum, before I did, as she did say if she didnt cum she would feel frustrated, hope this helps,

 

can't you bring watching porn and fucking him together? use you instead of his hands