I would rather have sex multiple times a day than masterbate any time.

 

So I can kind of relate to this. It was the same for me and my ex. I was always wanting it and he would turn me down a lot. When I asked why, he said because “sometimes I just want a quick cum.” So basically he was lazy lol. I’d even offer to get him off with my mouth or hands, but then he said he felt like he had to reciprocate. So maybe it’s the same with your partner. He just wants a fast cum with minimal effort.

 

if he watching those there doing something he likes that you are not doing. i love to have sex multiple times a day but not always same thing. i like to be teased sometimes and others i just like for women to take control and tell me what i’m bout to do to her. and he’ll if she does anal there 3 time for the day if not 4 th with me just saying we going to fuck when i show up

 

Ugh duh have sex multiple times a day

 

Maybe he bi sexual and you need to spice things up with maybe another guy threesome? Or maybe he’s into watching you be a naughty girl!

 

A guy doesn't have to worry about being considerate when he's jerking off. That said, if you're literally begging for it and he's sneaking off to whack to vids/pictures, then sounds like neither of you would be worried about the nitty gritty and there's a serious waste of opportunities going on.

 

When I was a young fellow (mid-to-late teens to mid-to-late 20s), I like sex (intercourse, bjs, handjobs) several times a day and still masturbated at least once or twice a day.

The problem you have is that he seems more into his own hand than into you. If I had a babe at hand, I would be giving it to her as often as I could and only masturbate if she wasn't available.

 

Of course I'd rather have sex. I've never found a woman that can keep up though.

 

Well maybe its me but i'd rather have a woman than my hand anyday!

 

SEX ! All You Can DISH OUT I'M ALWAYS READY !

 

Of course I would choose sex over jacking off any time but there is a thing of being addicted to porn.
Maybe next time you catch him watching porn, just tell him to keep watching it while you start jacking him off and then mix his porn addiction into your sex life. Just a thought.
Wish you the best of luck.

 

Personally I'd take the pussy someone else can fuck themselves

 

Sex all day for sure! I think most guys would opt for that. I'm not sure what your situation is, but as a general thought, most guys crave sex all day.

 

Why not both/and?

 

When I was married, my last husband started bringing around other guys to fuck me while he watched. He would have sex with me but would rather watch and sometimes make videos. Even tho he's an ex now, he still does.

 

Good Heavens!! Give me a hot woman anyday!! Masturbation is ok when alone watching porn and you need to get one off. However, mutual masturbation with her can be really hot too!

 

My ex just started getting fat and lazy, most of the time when he was home from work he just sat on the couch and drink beer.
I am not a playboy model but I think I still look good.
I did not marry a fat lazy man, he was fun and exciting.
The female friends I found made sex exciting again and I divorced.
We are still great friends at family gatherings, and I understand my bi-sexuality.

 

It faded away slowly until the last two years of marriage when he lost interest.
I have new friends now for that.