I think she knows, and I think that she knows I love her. But when I hug her she doesn't hug back like even a friend should. She being 20 years younger is the main problem, and I couldn't give her the life she wants. She is moody and never flirts with me. But we have fun together at times.

I just wish she could love me as a friend like I love her.

 

Just read your post and I strongly agree.

 

I've had it happen to me at least three times but the last time was the worse. I really love him and he was my best friend. I hate that it's over.

 

I do

I still dream about this girl I went to school with... she n i where young and dint know what we wanted.. she is married now so am I... but I still have feeling for her.. is been 17 years now but i would take her back in a second if she ever contacted me.. she knows how.

 

Yeah, a few times. I usually get rejected.

It hardens you after a while.

 

It happens to everyone I dated a girl for 6months we fought broke up the next thing I know I'm hearing about her sex life with dozens of guys and she hides it all by saying we're still friends pain in the ass is what it was but I still loved her because she was my first girlfriend, well after nearly losing my best friend I had enough of her even today I think of her but it's the pain she caused the trick for some is to remember why they aren't worth it others it's diffrent but pain like lost love never goes away you just learn to deal with it an accept it for what it is then again. That my opinion other people may disagree but to each their own

 

It's too bad its not easier for two people who have both been done wrong to get together and have some serious rehabilitative sex haha. It might be cathartic. That's why I need to meet an unhappily married woman; need someone in the same boat as me.

 

You'll recover hun.. Trust me.. Just gotta try to keep your mind occupied and not think of this deuchbag. You're probably better off without him

 

Ah man.. Fuck her! Sounds like she isnt worth your time! How much can you have in common with someone who is 20 years younger than you too? Be strong

I know its easier said than done though.

 

I agree with this. There are many different kinds of relationships you can have with someone. any one person could be: someone you have good sex with, someone you talk and joke with, someone you work with on your hobbies or your work, someone you raise your kids with, someone you hang out with and look out for, people who rely on you, people you depend on, etc.

The idea that you can organize people into your life into 2 categories: Family and friends, and only ever have sex with, or kiss and cuddle one person, is backwards. If you want to have sex with more than one person then you should be able to, but so should any you have sex with.

 

Yes, a colleague, and it made me realize that I'd never fallen in love before. That my marriage was based on my fear to be left alone and my surprise that there was actually someone who could care for me (I was bullied at school, those are the scars that you get from that).

My love for that colleague was unanswered but I decided to divorce and find me someone I could love. Which I did now for 22 years ago and still happily married to my great love. All well ends well.

 

I found out I was in love with this bitch that was incapable of returning the love. I keep her around for the sex, because I know she is disease free. Now, I just have sex and go to sleep. When I get up, I have another one to handle. Cold on inside now!

 

I have fallen quite a few times to this dreaded thing called love from afar...:wall:

My best advice is to realize that you'll find another, time wasn't right and go find something to occupy your time with. Also getting out and meeting people might help.

Sorry to hear about it.

 

You eventually learn to move on, or to find somebody new. occasionally you may meet that person again and things will be different but if not there are plenty of other people to meet.

 

If you\re anything like me, you'll get used to it. Or at least, see it coming. Was really into this girl recently. She need some money for something, I gave it to her, knowing full well, that killed any chance of ever moving on. Before, it was a question mark, maybe it could happen, everyone else seemed to think she liked me, once I helped her I knew it was done. I helped her a few more times with cash situations in the proceeding months.

At the end of the day, making sure she was safe and had what she needed was more important than maybe a chance to stick my cock in her.

I dunno. I guess you got to decide. I'm fucking bummed now.

 

My story isn't so grand. Basically it came down to me not keeping in contact with her. And when I finally did again, we talked for a little bit and then she disappeared from my life just like that. It was a girl I grew up with when I was young. She and I made out as kids, and probably would have been each others' firsts if we hung out with each other long enough. But alas, she left when I was like 11, and I didn't talk to her for 8 years. Things had definitely changed and I wasn't a part of her life like she was in mine, so I had to let it go and move on. Sucks though. She was an awesome girl. I have the best nostalgic memories of her.