Not longer but with a different guy.
I just wanted to not be thought of as a kid and he knew it and took advantage of my need to be accepted
I didn't realize it until I became older and wiser.
I'm not going to say that I didn't enjoy it while it was happening but he had nothing to do with that.
I was just a collection of orafices for him to stick his dick in. What I felt meant nothing to him.

 

You were born ready, I see your posts all the time. Wink..

 

Absolotely Not !!!

 

Hard one to answer.
I lost it at 21 and I was desperate to lose it because I was the only one of my friends who was still a virgin and I felt like a loser. The guy was a decent person at least but I didn't (and still don't) know him. I only say he was decent because we ran into each other two other times and he was polite and apologized later if he hurt my feelings. *shrugs*

 

Hindsight... Wish it had been sooner lost out on some good sex!

 

I wish I would have sooner. Though I was waiting on the one but she didn't wait on me. There were definitely some sluts to fuck.

 

Considering that I still yet to have sex yet, I would say that I'm content with the fact that I haven't had sex yet. I'm still young, just turned 21 so I'm content that I haven't had sex, yet. I do like the idea of just waiting for that right person or even, just waiting for the right time to do it. Some people want to lose it as soon as they can. Others are patient. I'm just one of those people and I'm not sad that I'm missing out. To me, I would even say that once it does happen for me, I would say that it was worth it, hopefully.

 

Would you agree that the first time being less then amazing might have to do with the fact we're so caught up in enjoying and a lack of our own experience to contribute?

 

Hell no.

Sooner would have been better.

 

This is both a thought and memory provoking thread. What I'm seeing now is no longer the 'sooner, later or right time conundrum', it's the terms in which we lost our virginity that matter and in hindsight it's nothing but the terms that we could of wished were different.

 

I don't believe the right moment exist waiting for the perfect out come in order for you to ' give it up' its all about you yourself being willing and best advise is make sure its really good D coz a go below for your first time is definitely something that will haunt you and possibly make you hate sex

 

Exactly the terms good, bad or indifferent if anything hopefully it's made us better at choosing just what we need over the needs of others even if what we need is motivated by the needs of others. Sex is at the end of the day individual in nature and anything we do that's not us will be resolved by doing something that may not coincide with monogamy or as far as polygamy?

 

Put me in the "Hell no" camp.

It was the right time for us, but for me I would have preferred to have lost it sooner. That would have been with someone else.

 

Oh, I would have loved to have lost it sooner...but it took time to learn to think of girls as people, and I said ALL the wrong things to girls, so it was a learning process. Then again, my first experience was either revenge sex or pity sex; when I broke up with a girlfriend, her younger sister gave me a handjob. Hey, I count it as having sex, even if her pussy was not involved.

 

I would of loved to of kept it longer but that descion was taken out of my hands.

 

if i would've known then what i know now, i definitely would've waited, years maybe. then maybe i would've avoided a miscarriage and a very unhappy and abusive marriage.

 

She and I were 16... 1st time for both of us... back seat of a 69 camero... never had regrets.

 

Longer, but At the time I felt I didn't have much choice in the matter.

 

Exactly what I put.

 

I lost my virginity rather late, when I was 24. I felt very much sufferings because I was alone and living too long without sex.