One friend, who I am very close to, often gets drunk. Is it wrong to have her suck my dick when she is drunk? If it isn't how do I go about asking her for a blowjob?

 

id try to see how much i could break the touch barrier without being creepy. Then in a humourous way expose yourself. If you do it in a funny, way even if she is freaked out you can always play it off as no harm done. I wouldn't expect her to suck it on the spot but gauging her reactions you can know how far you can push from there.

 

Well said,

 

i wouldnt do it when she's drunk...because thats taking advantage of her. and do u want her to do something she doesnt really want to do sober? i agree with perv joke around with her, a little bit of flirting...see how far she'll let you take it

 

i do understand your concerns but I'd say 90% of the girls i've messed around with in the last year were while we were drunk. After a certain point you accept that way of life and vurnerability isn't really a decent defense. If the girl isn't a drinker, I'll admit this is pretty shady.

 

I'd say, if you're very close to her, you shouldn't attempt this. Worst case, you've lost a friend and any chances of hooking up with her in the future without even a blowjob! Regardless of whether she's an alcoholic and whether she's "accepted that way of life", you're taking advantage of her.

That said, I'd go with "Hey baby, why don't you suck my dick?" (confidently!) If she takes you seriously, then score. Otherwise, "I'm kidding, I just love that face you make when you're mad"

I don't think there's really a way to ask.. You won't get far by asking, you've got to tell. And even then, you can't just do it all at once, you need to ease into it. Just play your game and things will happen.

 

I’m of the opinion guy girl friendships are insincere anyway. At least one will always want to fuck the other, or use the other to fuck their friends. I’ve never been one for the charade that many people are content to carry on until they sense a point of weakness. I’ve often thought that I’m honest to a fault.

 

ditto ditto and ditto! Talk about a recipe for disaster!

 

Very true. To get more specific, I think that girls can be friends with guys, but are generally oblivious to the fact that the guys just want to fuck them... with a few exceptions of course (they have someone they'd rather fuck, they're gay, or they're one of your friend's SOs)

"Yes Olivia, they all want to fuck you"

 

Blowjobs

About the drunk comment: I'm one of those girls who tends to loosen up when I'm drunk and allow myself to do what I want when I'm sober without feeling embarassed or self concious. One of my male friends and I talked about sex alot and he expressed that he'd never had a blowjob and asked me a few times if I'd do it. I kept saying no that I'd be too shy to do it but when I got drunk that week I called him up and he ended up getting the blowjob he desired. If the girl has told you sober she wants to and drunk it occurs thats fine, but if you're sober and shes drunk, thats a tad shady.

Really I think it comes down to your relationship, if you're open talking about sex with eachother thats a good start, also it doesn't hurt to make out with a girl and see how she gets little hints...she might even head down there on her own accord!

 

" Uh,,,,,excuse me , would you happen to have a spare blowjob i could get from you ?.......It's kinda lkie bummin a smoke

 

dont hit on a defenceless girl.. well go ahead n b a gentleman and juz confess ur feelings.. and wait for another day when shes sober.. its more fun without booze n drugs trust me..

 

You mean all this time I could have got away with giving guys a cigarette instead?

 

Another one of your classics, Kimi!

 

Walk up to her, grab her head and slam your meat into her mouth - if she tries to bite your cock off you know it was not a good idea ! If she smiles and starts licking sucking etc you know she wanted it !

 

Make sure you accompany this move with an appropriate comment, like:

"I said SUCK IT, you fucking WHORE!"

 

I disagree. I definately want to fuck at least 4/5 of my female friends, but my reason for being friends with them is because I like them as a friend. Them being hot and fun to look at picturing them naked, that's just secondary. But then again, I'm one of the few guys my age who actually analyzes all of his female friends, and accepts that most of them don't/won't want to be any more than friends. And of those girls, I reserve any sexual thoughts about them for when I'm beating off, or for sexually suggestive jokes.

 

But don't do it if she's drunk and your not. That's totally taking advantage. However, IMO if you're both drunk, you're in the green. But you have to be AT LEAST as drunk as her, if not more drunk. So if she's totally hammered, and you're just buzzed, you're still taking advantage. Besides, the drunker you are, the more you can get away with the next day. And really, you don't go straight to BJ. Start by putting your arm around her or something, and then just work upwards from there.

 

Ummm....how about, you're responsible for everything you do, whether drunk or sober, and so is she.

Do people really think this way?

 

Dude, i've had several female friends that i found attractive, but never tried to be anymore than friends with them..... and i regret it. Look this girl probably isnt going to be your friend forever anyway, if you try and fail, whatever, if she doesnt stay your friend then she wasnt that good of a friend anyway. If she is getting boozed around you,and have the inclination, give it a try, booze makes women slutty. Just be prepaired to deal with any weirdness that may arise wfterward. And hey if you are a real sexy "teen" thats what those years are for, getting drunken head from your friends.