I can last too long as well butwhat helps me is:
Hot fantasy in the head and lube..especially the new KY is and hers.
Still last long enough for he rto come bu noy as long as without.

FYI.. The hotter the fantasy the faster i cun and more too

 

Have had the same problem with different girls, durning sex, hand jobs and blow jobs.. i just cant ever get off to em. As far as thoughts, i focus on the hottest fantasy i can think of (if we're not already doing it) or something similar.. i dont mind lasting for 2-3 hours + but they got shit to do that leave me...unsatasfied. any ideas?

 

you've got a "good" problem there.. i'm sure a lot of guys would like to have it. maybe all you need to do is concentrate on the sex? focus on the sensations. if that doesn't work, then you can always just give your girlfriend a break and just jack off, or have her jack you off

 

OMG, I'm so god glad this thread popped up. Cause now I know I'm not the only one with this problem. I can wear my girl out before I blow. Sometimes I wear myself out! It aint like the sex isnt good, I mean we're fucking like german porn stars to no avail. YET, there are rare times when I can knock a quickie out in five minutes. I dunno. I was beginning to worry about myself.

 

Oh and on a side note to the OP dont take pain meds like lortab before sex. I CAN NOT cum on meds.

 

yay! i thought i was the only one with it too hahaha
anyways,
thanks for all your help guys.
i'm going to get some of that ky his and hers stuff cause i always thought that looked appealing
i'll keep all of you updated and let you know how my next little sextastic voyage goes :excited:

 

nothing wrong with that i take forever to blow and the women love it.

 

I finally had sex just a day or so ago for the first time, well we went at it for 8+ hours over the two days but thats besides the point........

I couldn't cum no matter what I did! Although I would feel myself get to the point of cumming it just wouldn't blow. She loved it and I had fun but it meft my balls bluer than fuck.

 

Dude I actually feel your fucking pain when I was young, or if I jack off first thing in the morning with cold sheets I can cum normal time.

But if its later I last a long time, have you tried anal stimulation
when you want to cum?

Its the one thing that helps me lose a load of cum, actually
meet this young dude today and he came quick, so I said I need anal stimulation, so I broke out the dildo and cummed like a mother fucker,
he was all good with it.

 

I'm not sure how willing she would be to doing that but it really starts aching after 2 days of marathon runs and no release. I've been reading up on it and am gonna try not masturbating for a week or so and see if that helps

 

you watch too much porno

 

I too am glad that I found this thread, I see that I am not alone in this problem. At first I thought it was because my last girlfriend and I always fought and I never felt "connected" to her during intercourse. Make up sex was never my thing. Sex is a major mental thing for me and I have to be in a loving relationship with someone before I have sex with them. I have gone an hour plus without reaching orgasm, not even close in some cases, she starts to dry up, and I get frustrated and loose interest. I feel I am a good lover and very giving in the bedroom. I have a "ladies first" mentality and always make sure that she comes first, if not several times before I do. I have tried thinking about porno scenes and things that arouse me but to no avail, even when receiving head she usually has to finish me off by hand or not at all. Yes there are times i wish I was a minute man.

I don't smoke, I am in good health and have a strong desire for sex, I wish I could just relax and let it go sooner.

 

i studied buddism then followed up with metaphysics study. Basically just keep control of your mind and enjoy the situation.

COmmon problems include the following
-Having sex in "not" your own house / fear of being cuaght by parents or others

-fear of condom breaking / anxiety

-sexual un attractivness.. " are you sure you really are a chubby chaser or are you lying to your even to your self "

-over focus of other partner " focus on ehr but don't forget to claim a little pleasure for your self )

-breaking and good stroke " when doing doggy go as one and ride her ass don't forcefully thrust unless YOU KNOW you got the physical energy ..exshaustion is always lame try to move in fluid don't both be having seperate movements...same when she rides you you both need to thrust and ride at the same pace.

-If you take medicine it may damage your mental state or down your sex drive....sucks

there is plenty of other things too buddy.... plenty i didn't discuss here. I wish you luck.