I need tips, suggestions, ideas...i cant do it myself and no one can do it for me...help!

 

hmm..wait r saying u jerk it then nuthing cumms out?

 

Dude, she's female. Read the fucking sidebar next to her post, idiot.

 

I actually saw a show about people who can't orgasm. For 99% it's mental but for some it's physical. So the odds are pretty good that you can orgasm, you just haven't yet A lot of factors play into this like how old you are (or aren't), what you've tried, and what you're willing to try. I'm making a best guess here but for most of my friends who had trouble orgasm-ing (is that a word?) they just weren't comfortable with their body and maybe you aren't either. They thought masturbation was dirty somehow. Once they get past that they orgasms for them started to arrive. That being said, what turns you on? There is free porn EVERYWHERE so by all means use it. And I say it is your body and you get to do what you want so by all means experiment. Try toys, try lube, try reading a story, try anal, try oral, try being tied up and then try tying someone up. Play with every part of your body inside and out! It's yours and no one elses!! If that doesn't help, ask your doctor - that's what they're there for. It could be a hormonal imbalance, there's female viagra, and so on. Modern medicine can provide lots of options too.

Good luck!!

Love Always,
ixi

 

Find a guy that is willing to do whatever it takes
Someone that will take the time and put in the effort required
or maybe you need a chick, someone that already has a good idea of the female body

 

clitoris stimulation. most woman cant have an orgasm without touching her clit. there is a spot inside your vagina (doggy style hits this spot almost always) and if your lucky, your guy will penitrate it when hes fucking you. (sometimes guys cant see how we don't feel the exact same pleasure they do) othewise, have him rub your clit while he's in you.

 

Just curious, did you have something traumatic happen to you at some time in your life?
Or perhaps is it in your upbringing?

This could also be a factor, and if found to be true, time and work will free you from that.

 

Did you know that scientists have found

that a large percentage of women under 25 can not orgasm? It seems that the little receptors in your brain are not connected to your nerves in your spinal cord or something like that until you hit 25 or so. Some scientist say that until some women have children all the things that need to align to have orgasm don't come into play. So you are not alone or weird or anything. You just have a little more growing to do.

Also, orgasm and sexual fulfilled are LEARNED (for women anyway). The more orgasms they have, the easier it is. Think of it as your body hasn't experienced it yet, because it just doesn't understand the process. Once you get ONE, it will go better from there. But until you body gets ready for it . . . your connectors to your brain grow and connect to the right places . . . it will be difficult for you.

So, relax. I'm sure you feel pleasure (enjoy the pleasure and don't stress over it). As you experience more and more pleasure you may be "pleasantly" surprised one day in the near future.

 

Word i am right there with ya girl.lol Frustrating as hell huh?!? Sorry for your problem though i know how you feel. Then again, it just makes me seem to be a stud to girls because i never orgasm or go down until we completely stop all together. Just must suck to a be a girl w/o orgasm bc of the lack of perks that come with it. sorry and i hope it all works out for you.

 

oh alright....... i accept the challenge

 

pm me immediately and we'll get right to work!

 

once you experience orgasm you would like to have it more & more. Many try with vibrators/dildos with success. Best is to find a guy who can give you natural orgasm,nothing like that. Last resort, consult a Doctor.

 

Buy yourseld a G-Spot Vibrator

You can achive an orgasm a few ways. I can use my fingers on my wife and a couple of min later she will have an orgasm. Try masturbating to porn and practice. You can also use a G-Spot Vibrator. Once you find the spot, look-out! The other way is to have anal sex. My wife explodes when I stick it in her ass!

Have fun,

Doliverf