Just let this thread die seriously, he doesnt even come on anymore.

 

Find somebody older

 

at 14, i liked older guys, and was with some older guys when i was 16.

now that i am 25, i know how wrong it was, and i feel horrible about it almost daily. i wish i could castrate every guy i was with when i was younger. we might think we know what we like at 14, but we are NOT adults.

i know what guys want at 18. once u get it from her, and u dump her, she will never be the same, and that's how girls become bitter.

no one can forsee the future. but if u have to ASK strangers what they think, i think you know what the answer is. she is 14. she hasn't even fully developed yet. does she even have a period? let her be a kid, and if you're SOOO attracted in a few years, then go for it. what's the rush? seriously, that's a senior in highshool going for a middle schooler. i know it makes u hot and you like her so much, but know she's going to end up damanged. even if u guys get married right now, it won't last and she will still be damanged.

 

same here. my lil sister is 15 and no one better even look at her

and just one other thing. all my friends who were getting frisky in middle school ended up dropping out of highschool and if they didn't have kids right away, they had them shortly thereafter. and yes, i am saying kids don't need to be having kids. if you're a teen, you should NOT be having kids. i am happy to say i am 1 of FEW 25 year olds that don't have any kids. having illegitamte kids with no dads is not the life.

 

creep

she is 13, you are 18, yeah it's five years and if you were both 20/25 it would be different BUT, that 5 years 13-18 that's important, she needs to do that without you, sex crimes are extrajudicially prosecuted so even if you leave the country you will get fucked. don't its not moral, if you leave her to grow up without I don't want to say it but your basically grooming her, then when she's 18 if she turns up at your door and say's I love you then it's meant to be. just leave her, leave her, leave her, please, shes a child don't be selfish she needs to have her own life.

P.S. if you can say she's your gf and then put an ad up looking for sex then she isn't that important to you, you sound like an asshole, I don't know you, I can't say for sure but you definately sound like a creep, don't fuck her childhood up.

 

Sounds like you know about that bitterness.

I do agree that girls should keep their legs closed for as long as they can. But, they can't have it both ways. They can't dress like sluts and act like they're easy for attention, and then complain after they end up giving up their most prized possession.
BTW - this guy who started this tread is most likely not even 18 and probably has no girlfriend at all. But, it has been fun.

 

Is it worth it

is it worth it waiting for years before you can have sex with her and is it fair on either of you or her to remain loyal to each other whist abstaining?

 

She's a child, and that would be absolutely selfish of you to steal that time from her.

 

hmm. did anyone else besides me grow up in a neighborhood with a ton of kids that all hung out together? our ages ranged from 12-18. it was pretty much me, my sister, and a bunch of guys, and i was one of the older kids. when i was 16, this 12 year old liked me. whats funny about me remembering this is that i don't recall the 12 year old acting or looking much different than my 16 year old friends (no, i did not get with him..). so i guess what i'm getting at is both ages are still young, and not that big of a deal. if she doesn't look 13, then the 18 year old won't have to worry about embarrassment. and if you guys read, the parents approved, sex is not in this relationship, and they kept going back to each other. i don't see what the big issue is.

it would be weird if you were 20+. a teenager is a teenager. kissing is not sex.

 

You livin' in dreamland or something?

 

I'm not really big on the legal aspect of things, and I'm sure that you might have a genuine friendship with the girl, but I don't think it's a good idea that an 18 year old dates a 13 year old. Look at it this way....

If you were a 5th grader and you were hanging out with kindergarteners, like they were your friends that you had, you know what you would be? A fucking loser.

Why? Because 5th graders should have a whole world of different activities and abilities to engage in than a kindergartener would. And you know what? Same thing for a 13 year old and an 18 year old.

 

Well, you're not having sex, so I say wait for her. If it is meant to be then you will find out as time goes by. I just love it when some people get all high and mighty with other people's decisions. The guy asks a question and the holier-than-thou part of the congregation wakes up and blasts him for it. Way to go...I am new here and I have seen a lot of posts worse than this. Some of you read a whole story in the stories section and then blast the author if the story involved something that offended you...lol...really, really hypocritical to do this on a sex forum...especially this one. The guy is not having sex with an underage girl...get a grip!

 

i dunno about chicks not being able to make decisions at 13. when i was 17 i stayed with some of my parents friends and they had a 13 year old daughter and for the few days i was there, twice she came out of her room wearing her panties and wanted me to go into her room and kiss "and more" - luckily i was very naive and didn't act on it but these young girls are very advanced these days. But i concur with a lot of people - dont do it - it illegal and its not fair on her.

 

LET THIS THREAD FUCKING DIE.

 

GOOD LUCK to you both

Hi I'm Samantha, don't listen to them, My cousin and I fell in LOVE when I was 11 and he was 19, listened to everyone and he married someone else. When I was 13 the night of his 21st birthday we had full on sex for the first time and he came in me.. The day he got married I came from another state with my family to be his bridesmaid and we fucked the night before and the day he got married and we continued for a few yeras after too, WE SHOULD HAVE GOT MARRIED,, Just have fu you 2 good luck

 

mY DAD WAS 13 YEARS OLDER THAN MY MOTHER, THEY WERE MARRIED TILL THE DAY DAD DIED NEEARLY 70 YEARS ON,, sO GO FOR IT AND FUCK IF YOU WANT TO,, BE HAPPY

 

why???????????????????

Hey let the kids have FUN get a life

 

The internet is not the place to admit that you're sleeping with a 13 year old girl man!!! It does NOT have to be the girl or her parents that turn you in! It could be anyone that sees this post! Personally, you can't control who you fall in love with but she's jail bait and you're just asking for trouble!

 

YOU FUCKING MORONS HE DOESNT EVEN LOG ON ANYMORE, FUCKING STOP POSTING IN THIS FUCKING THREAD.