1. Hello,


    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

    One more important message - Do not answer to people pretending to be from xnxx team or a member of the staff. If the email is not from forum@xnxx.com or the message on the forum is not from StanleyOG it's not an admin or member of the staff. Please be carefull who you give your information to.


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    StanleyOG.

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  2. Hello,


    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

    The pictures that you will send me for verification won't be public


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  1. cirdellin

    cirdellin Porn Star Banned!

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    If what you said is verbal and not legally slander or libel then if they are hurt then it is their own problem. Thinskins are not to be encouraged.
     
    1. Cherrypop
      This isn’t about the forum. It’s about a partner. If she says you hurt her, then you did. You don’t get to decide you didn’t. Even if it wasn’t your intention, you did.
      This is true about anything. It may not be your intention but that doesn’t mean it didn’t happen.
       
      Cherrypop, May 4, 2020
    2. cirdellin
      The post said a person. It did not say an SO. If we are talking about an SO then I agree. It is a singular relationship built on trust and communication rather than a random engagement on a porn forum especially.
       
      cirdellin, May 4, 2020
    3. Cherrypop
      Also it’s nice to just be nice to people and not hurt anyone. You know? Why does everyone need elephant hide skin to get through life?
       
      Cherrypop, May 4, 2020
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    4. cirdellin
      Because life is tough. You conquer it or it conquers you.
       
      cirdellin, May 4, 2020
  2. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    1. cirdellin
      They are mutually exclusive is why?
       
      cirdellin, May 4, 2020
    2. Cherrypop
      They are not mutually exclusive. Soft doesn’t mean weak.
       
      Cherrypop, May 4, 2020
  3. cirdellin

    cirdellin Porn Star Banned!

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    Yeah it does as anyone who is sensitive can attest as they have been used by others too many times.
     
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    1. Cherrypop
      The only time hard is good is when we are talking dicks.
       
      Cherrypop, May 4, 2020
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    2. cirdellin
      No, strength is always good because the world reviles weakness. Has your sensitivity ever helped you at any time or has your strength been your better friend?
       
      cirdellin, May 4, 2020
  4. deegenerate

    deegenerate Goddess of Desire

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    1. cirdellin
      Agreed
       
      cirdellin, May 4, 2020
    2. deegenerate
      I am working on getting better at this. :)
       
      deegenerate, May 4, 2020
    3. cirdellin
      Me too :)
       
      cirdellin, May 4, 2020
  5. Rexxracerr

    Rexxracerr i'm just saying

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    Long you live and high you'll fly,
    and smiles you'll give, tears you'll cry
    and all you touch and all you see
    is all your life will ever be.
    Pink Floyd
     
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  6. cirdellin

    cirdellin Porn Star Banned!

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    It’s difficult to find the line between being understanding about the differences of opinion and being passionate about things you know are wrong. I’m trying very hard!
     
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    1. deegenerate
      It is, but I believe in constant self improvement, so if I can improve even a little bit, I m making progress.
       
      deegenerate, May 4, 2020
    2. cirdellin
      That is a very Ancient Greek view of self improvement and one I try to follow. I’m impressed so thank you! :)
       
      cirdellin, May 4, 2020
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  7. cirdellin

    cirdellin Porn Star Banned!

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    Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.

    Eleanor Roosevelt
     
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      And smaller minds call names and accuse
       
    2. cirdellin
      I’ve never noticed that in this site fortunately :)
       
      cirdellin, May 5, 2020
    3. deleted user 555 768
      I'm guilty at times :(
       
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  8. submissively speaking

    submissively speaking Sassochist

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    “He uses me – uses all of me so I am lit and glowing with love like a fire, and this is all I looked for all my life – to be able to give of my love, my spontaneous joy, unreservedly, with no holding back for fear of his misuse, betrayal.”

    ~ Sylvia Plath
     
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      I swear I must be a girl. :(
      That hit me right in the heart. ♥️
       
      Rexxracerr, May 5, 2020
  9. PurpleMistress

    PurpleMistress Mysteriously Seductive

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  10. FuntimeFla

    FuntimeFla Porn Star

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    " At 58 years old, I have retired from "Physical Confrontations", and have moved on to the art of "Verbal Confrontations !
    Some however, apparently didn't get the Memo !"

    FuntimeFla
     
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  11. PurpleMistress

    PurpleMistress Mysteriously Seductive

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  12. gammaXray

    gammaXray Porn Star

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    Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”
    ― Bernard M. Baruch

    “You’ve gotta dance like there’s nobody watching, Love like you’ll never be hurt, Sing like there’s nobody listening, And live like it’s heaven on earth.”
    ― William W. Purkey

    “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”
    ― Mae West

    “In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.”
    ― Robert Frost

    “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.”
    ― Bil Keane

    “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”
    ― Friedrich Nietzsche { this is not always true when it involves stuff like hand grenades, mortars, cluster bombs napalm ect. ect. ect. }

    “Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
    ― Albert Camus

    “Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.”
    ― Neil Gaiman

    “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.”
    ― Helen Keller
     
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  13. Rexxracerr

    Rexxracerr i'm just saying

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    Walt Kowalski:
    Ever notice how you come across somebody once in a while you shouldn't have fucked with? That's me.
    Gran Torino
     
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  14. Rexxracerr

    Rexxracerr i'm just saying

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    "You have to develop a style that suits you and pursue it, not just develop a bag of tricks. Always be yourself."-- James Stewart
     
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  15. cirdellin

    cirdellin Porn Star Banned!

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    “A noble spirit embiggens the smallest man.”
     
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    Rexxracerr i'm just saying

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  17. Sweetpassion

    Sweetpassion Pink gum drops.

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    Say you’ll share with me one love, one lifetime. Lead me, save me from my solitude. Say you want me with you, here beside you. Anywhere you go, let me go, too. Love me, that’s all I ask of you. – The Phantom Of The Opera
     
  18. Sweetpassion

    Sweetpassion Pink gum drops.

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    You have bewitched me, body and soul, and I love… I love… I love you. – Pride & Prejudice
     
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  19. StrawberryCupcake

    StrawberryCupcake ⭐️Cheese Tease⭐️

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    Byte me.

    -Computer
     
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