At my school, high school and middle school kids rode the same bus. Conversations carried down the line from the back to the front. But despite that... I was a pervert VERY early. I was drawing naked people in third grade haha. I think it's a totally normal thing for kids to be curious, and there's no avoiding exposure to it. Older siblings, walking in on parents, etc.. and it's better to be honest than tell stupid lies to scare them. It shouldn't be glorified, but they should know the facts, the risks, the benefits, and answers to whatever questions they come up with. However, I don't think it's the friend's dad's jurisdiction to have these conversations, unless with permission granted from their own parents. Maybe OP should teach sex ed. :] Then again, if he's getting all the girls flashing him.. might not be a good idea haha. There was something on the news a while ago about a school beginning to teach kindergarteners about sex. Yes, they start that young. Obviously, laws are set in place to protect minors who don't know how to protect themselves, and don't even realize what they are attempting to do. It's the adult's job to obey the laws and protect children from what they do not understand. If they are trying to seduce you, explain to them what they are doing and why it's wrong.

 

Er, when I was 11 I did. It seemed like a pretty common place thing among my peers too.

Either way, just never be alone with them. When your daughter has sleep over, stay at your brother's house or a friend's place. Or just stick around you Wife the whole night. Don't let them get you alone, don't let them sit on your lap. Limit your time around them. Period.

Also, as some one else said, send them to their parents when they have questions.

 

My step daughter is like that. She'll leave the bathroom door open while taking a shower & ask me to bring her the soap she "forgot". This morning before school she came out of her room with just her bra & panties on. She asked me how the bra made her breasts look.

 

That is bullshit. Don't fucking revive stupid dead threads with a idiotic comment like that.

 

hmm

the thing is girls during that time are just hitting puberty..its normal for them to be more curios at that age....the same can be said for guys it just happens a lil later...you should be honest that is true but you never said once your daughter is asking its her friends according to you ....that my friend is wrong .....you shouldnt let an 11 year old girl that you have no relation to sit on ur lap .... its wrong what you are doing is taking advantage of a lil girls confusing thoughts.....you are being a negtive influence on a girls life.... im not trying to attack you im just honest ....it is not your place to "talk sex" with a hormone crazed young girl at anytime that is not family ....ive been in that situation ...i was 18 and had my friends 12 year old sister always askin sexual questions and flirtin...and yes i was honest but never did i let her sit in my lap and i would try to change the subject as quick as possible because it was not my place to give advice i even referred her to the health department witch is something u might need to do if confronted again with a question like that

 

I swear, none of these fucking stupid noobs ever read one post. They just feel that people care about what they think.

 

I think they read the first post, ignore everything else and just post in the mistaken belief (as you said) that people care...

What often amuses me on the internet is always the amount of people that continue to post on threads that are already answered and/or dead. When I say amuses in the kind of way clowns are funny but should be strung up funny.

 

Okay so at 11 years old you are usually in 6th grade. I started puberty very early I think I was 10 because it was before middle school. I believe that it was in 5th grade. I kid you not and I wish I hadn't cause I developed at a young and grew up sexually way to fast. You can blame it on my parents but they did try and were very religious. Since the age of 11 / 5th grade I learned about the great internet and what it has to offer. I learned about cyber sex, masturbation, roleplaying, Sex Chat rooms and porn.

To answer the question about do girls really think about sex at 11 hell yes if they have hit puberty and most of there friends are probally talking about sex and what they see on tv or in movies. today most parents allow there young teens to watch PG 13 movies where sex is invovled or even R where sex is majorly involved most of the times.

The other question, I do not believe that they are actually exposing themselves to you nor do I think they are wiggling on you. I feel you are either watching them expose themselves to each other and you somehow see them and that you enjoy them giving you attention. Girls at 11 are not this foreward no matter what people say.

Just my opinion

 

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"I swear, none of these fucking stupid noobs ever read one post. They just feel that people care about what they think."





1st off i did read the fucking post
youre just being a dick
he asked for advice and opinions
i gave "him" advice and opinions...... not advice for you or anyone else who doesnt need it of course most people dont give a damn wat i think
but its not for most people .....most people didnt ask the question

 

Yeah, you read the first one and probably only that one. Just do me a favor and look when the first post was posted then ask yourself 'would he really need my advice now?'

 

he's probably in prison now, lol

 

I read all the posts and still commented who cares its a forum where people talk about things just because this guy started the thread doesnt mean someone else wont get something out of it or want to start it back up.

 

If the guy hadn't of bumped it, would you have gone looking for it?

Answers would have been gotten from the thread, sure. What good would bumping this thing back up for debate do? It's just turned into a shit storm for the OP and his supporters. If you support the OP in this thread then you're fucked. If you don't support him, then you're just agreeing with the rest of the people in here.

 

I had a couple of little girls around that age confess their love to me when I was in high school. It was quite awkward. I just kinda walked away.

 

I think it would be better to steer the conversation away from,but it is better to answer with honesty then anything else.

 

I dont care what anyone else does. He posted and I read and reposted. I dont support anyone on this forum. its a forum at that and i dont care what you say nor do i bet you care what I say

 

Oh yeah? Well I'll have to inform YOU that Santa isn't real!

 

Well, who ate my cookies?

 

I did, bitch.