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  1. con e lingus

    con e lingus Sex Machine

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    Absolutely is..I've felt worse losing friends than losing wives
     
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  2. bigbird

    bigbird Dirty English Gent

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    Absolutely - its great to have a sounding board to rant at..... nice knowing they wont laugh or insult you too :)
     
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      i'd hope it's mostly with me - rather than at me - but who knows :)
       
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      I expect my friends to laugh and insult me, teaches a little humility.
       
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  3. berenika

    berenika Sex Lover

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    I don't know if I'm a good friend. I try to abstract myself from people as much as possible, because I quickly get tired of them. I'm too self-sufficient
     
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  4. Ed Itor

    Ed Itor dusted

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    Yes, without them you die alone as most outlive their family.
     
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  5. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    What constitutes a friend? Do u have friends here?

    To me a friend is someone you trust. I have friends here who know my name, face, address, and I talk to them multiple times a day. I know their lives and they know mine. They have even talked to my kid. Someone I’d meet in a second if my borders weren’t closed lol.
     
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    1. hornybigguy68
      Friend is someone you can talk to when times are tough and someone you can trust.

      Friends are not a matter of quantity but instead quality to me.
       
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  6. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    True friends are not merely acquaintances. A true friend can tell you the truth about yourself, without you becoming offended, and vice versa.
     
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  7. Bron Zeage

    Bron Zeage I am a river to my people

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    A friend is someone you can call at 3 am and say you need help. All he asks is, "Where are you?"
     
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  8. HotErika

    HotErika Sex Machine

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    I have friends (in 'real' life, not here) who are as close to me as my family, and I know them for decades. I didn't choose them, it just happened, we kinda naturally nurtured our bond and it is even stronger as time goes by. Trust, support, mutual understanding, kindness,.. oh, and their ability to make me laugh a lot (!) are some of the fundamental things that kept us together for all of these years.
     
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  9. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    My best friend who lives here would drop everything to help me, and has. When I was a mess at the hospital she left work early to go pick up my ex’s family from the airport for me. She brought me food because she knew I wasn’t eating. I’m a lucky girl
     
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  10. bigbird

    bigbird Dirty English Gent

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    i have a few good friends - that i would do anything for - then i have lots of aquaintance friends - people who i'll go out with, play sports with and who will come and go in importance to me - but those few good friends are what makes the world a better place - i'd never take them for granted
     
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  11. deleted user 555 768

    deleted user 555 768 Porn Star Banned!

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    My circle is small, dont know where I'd be if it werent for the 3 guys I call dear friends, to say we would do anything for each other is an understatement...we have buried bodies, a cat and dog but still
     
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  12. coastguy53

    coastguy53 Porn Star

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    Friendship is extremely important. As I have gotten older I've realized eliminating the negative in life makes it better. I have just a few friends, they have been the ones that are supportive, positive outlooks, nonjudgemental. Quality and not quantify has made me so much happier.
     
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  13. Dearelliot

    Dearelliot Porn Star

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    Coming from a very very close knit clan like family we were not much into outside friends when it came down to depending on someone...and speaking for myself, I dont trust people that much nor would I ask for or expect help.
     
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  14. bigbird

    bigbird Dirty English Gent

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    Sometimes a friend almost makes it up a grade to good friend - but that’s not an easy thing to achieve
     
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  15. Braxton.B

    Braxton.B Poontang Connoisseur

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    My best friend is someone I grew up with, we're the same age, went through school together, best man at my wedding and I at his. I haven't talked to him in over 20 years so that makes him an even better than best friend.
    I'm not certain because for one I don't care and two it's none of my business but I think my eldest son was tapping his eldest daughter at one time. No grandkids came from it so it's all good.
     
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  16. kane66

    kane66 Porno Junky

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    Friends are Important Good Close Friends Family is to.
     
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  17. erotic_man

    erotic_man Sex Machine

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    I don't have friends in real life, but i chat with some ladies frequently on internet. My family aren't my friends at all, though i live with mom and dad, but they are kinda communist and conservative, so i hate them.
     
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  18. Luv2LiqU

    Luv2LiqU Devilishly Wicked Lix

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    My absolute closest friend is someone I met just over a year ago. Covid and a ton of miles separate us but thanks to technology we talk freely and openly about anything, confidently... without judgement, jealousy, or expectations. To say I "trust" them is a bit of an understatement. Sometimes you just get damn lucky (far beyond the sense of bar or pub "lucky"). I dunno... with that kind of luck maybe I should take it to Vegas!
     
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      ♥️
       
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  19. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    Had anyone ever lost a friend? I’ve lost a few over the years, but it’s rare. I tend to hold onto people pretty tightly (not in a creepy way lol). And I forgive a lot. But it has happened. Usually they do something multiple times until finally I can’t forgive them.
     
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    1. hornybigguy68
      While was still enlisted in military, knew a guy and felt were close friends since I knew his family. Prior to me leaving active duty found out he cheated on his wife. I made the decision to tell his wife and I never talked again. Crazy thing the same scenario happened to a close friend locally but everything is fine. Each person shared the same name as me.
       
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      That’s a tough one and worthy of its own thread. Do you tell the spouse of your friend that your friend is cheating? Especially if your friends with the spouse too?
       
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      I did for both spouses. Never felt it was a hard decision to tell them. I really dont care for men that act that way.

      Friend locally his marriage couldnt be any better and relationship is now closer. He is moving to California with wife. He works for my prior company and we are still friends.
       
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    4. Luv2LiqU
      I've not "lost" friends. Over time tho' some friendships have grown distant. We're still friends... but our respective lives just got busy with family and other things. The only friend I can say I really "lost" was years ago. We did a lot together and were best friends when we were young. I was the best man at his wedding then two week later to the day I was a pall bearer at his funeral. That one hurt... It hurt a lot! Still does.
       
      Luv2LiqU, May 25, 2021
    5. Cherrypop
      I won’t “like” that because it sucks. I’ve been to two funerals for friends and it’s terrible
       
      Cherrypop, May 25, 2021
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  20. Wildside14

    Wildside14 Porn Star

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    Most of my friends are sadly in my computer and cell phone..Cause I'm the sole care provider and care giver for my elderly mom..whom has bad eyesight and dementia.. She did for me now it's my turn..Sure I have a few But I can't get out much or for too long
     
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