I'd say ANY frequent sexual contact between two males makes them both at a minimum bisexual to some degree.

I think you're abstracting away the fact that there is a man sucking your dick, pretending it doesn't matter somehow while you passively orgasm in his mouth.

But I won't say that is conclusive. I had a bi-curious phase that culminated in a homosexual encounter ( mutual masturbation ), but I don't consider myself bisexual now because it was exploratory. At the end of the day I gained nothing from it, was not aroused by my partner, and only managed to cum because I imagined myself with a woman. Shrugs.

I think the problem is you are concerned that if you are bisexual then you are less able to conform to the western concept of masculinity. You want to get your dick sucked by a guy AND be a man, and you can't reconcile the two concepts entirely. That's my theory.

 

Yep. You arent gay or even bi if you just wanted to get off. If you did it because he was a guy, that was a willingly gay experience. But hey, whatever. If you decided it wasnt your thing, fine. Or if you just had an easy chance for a hj, whatever. Touching another guys dick, or jerking it off is definitely in the real of homosexual behavior.

But like I said, for me, getting off is getting off. If Im really horny, my wanting to get sucked or jerked off is stronger than my ability to care what sex is doing it to me. Its kind of gross when its a guy, but getting my dick sucked feels fucking good. So who cares?

 

I agreed with so many thing posted. And I have had many kinds of thinking about it.

The first time I had a bj from a man I did feel a little grossed out. I then began imagining it was a girl sucking me. I then got curious to touch then suck. I mostly used to like getting sucked off but I also tried sucking. I enjoyed some more then others but would all be one time mostly.

I really enjoyed many types of role playing. I would be father uncle son nephew brother Dom or sub that was humiliated. I had a few guy that even liked and enjoy but most were just sex.

I also like play with trannies. They have best of two worlds, a cock and tits.

One should just do what one enjoys.

 

I agree 100% I too suck on str8 cock. There is no touching and a semi dark room. Seems str8 men don't want to see a faggot sucking their cock. Just fine with me. I love sucking str8 mens cocks.

 

Here's a ( slightly self-serving) suggestion: find a guy who looks good in a miniskirt and heels to experiment with first.

 

I don't know if it's "gay", but it certainly isn't "straight".

Who gives a damn and why are you asking us? Do what you want to do and don't try to convince yourself that you are something that you aren't.

 

If you a man and suck cock. You gay or bi. What make you happy is up you.

 

If you and another guy are having sex, you're not 100% straight.

Sorry Nancy.

 

Come on dude

OMG, I will NEVER understand why some guys think its ok to say or think they are "straight" if or when they have ANYTHING sexual to do with another male. Come on dude, what the hell?

 

im black from an urban area and love pussy but i have this fantasy of being bent over a couch and fucked doggystyle by a white man while he calls me a nigger.i have this thought alot but dont consider my self gay.

 

Is it that big a deal. If you don't want to be gay then be bi-curious or bi. If you want to experiment, experiment. Unless you post a front page pic in the paper no one is going to know anyway.

 

Who cares what it's considered as long as it feels good. I consider myself straight. I never think about guys, nor do I check them out when I'm out and about. But lately, I've been wanting to see my girl suck a guy off while I'm doing her. If it's nice looking, I might try sucking it with her. And of course I'd love the guy to suck me off too. But this would only happen when I'm with my girl (if it ever happens). Whether it makes me gay or not, who cares.

 

being turned on by the same sex is at least bi.but so what?

 

I would not mind gettin a blowjob from a guy as long as he understands that he might not get one from me. Go for it , let him suck Ur cock hard and if he likes it , cum in his mouth as well , then thank him for it...

 

Not sure but one thing I can say for certain is that you are frikin moron

 

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Hey, it just doesn't matter! No matter whether you like it or not, it's just something you tried. Young people are so much cooler about this stuff these days. Experiment, find what really gets you off, and ENJOY LIFE!!!