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  1. EroticErina

    EroticErina Porn Surfer

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    It is possible to fall in love online, but one should expect to be sorely disappointed if they actively seek it out.
     
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  2. dominatemeplease

    dominatemeplease Saucy Submissive

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    I agree, but is that not true in real life as well? The most successful love affairs are those that were unintended and serendipitous.
     
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  3. christina2706

    christina2706 Dark Haired Beauty

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    I never thought about it like that and it's so true. Thank you!:)
     
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  4. hotjohn4321

    hotjohn4321 Porn Star

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    YES

    You can certainly form a very strong attachment to someone online. You will not know what will become of it unless you meet face to face. I have been there done that and meet some wonderful women and had some wonderful time.

    Have been in love got heart broken and probably broke a heart of two. That is life.

    If you don't go for it you will never know if you missed the best one.

    Hey I have meet some really wonderful women here and if i was looking for a permanet mate this would not be a bad place to search. I will not go into why;)

    Good luck and best wishes on your search.
     
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  5. benwackin

    benwackin Sex Machine

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    carefull

    Chris,

    I'm a guy and I'm overly cautious.

    Even tho you've skyped and talked on the phone, there is that certain amount of stuff you just can't tell until you meet.

    Make sure it's a public place and even think about a way to escape.

    Have some fun if it feels right.

    Is there a big distance between you?
    That could pose some logistical issues.

    Be careful
     
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  6. Carrie_J

    Carrie_J Porn Star Suspended!

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    Oh, it's definitely possible... The question is: who is the real person behind the avatar? Most of the time I judge posters by their posts and could really care less who the real person is behind the avatar. In this case, however, I would definitely care who the real person behind the avatar was and would want to at the very least Skype with the person before things went too far.
     
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  7. richief

    richief The Curly Wurly Man In XNXX Heaven

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    So let's just have a deep and intense fuck, just for one night and then go our separate ways.;)
     
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  8. Lookn4awillin1

    Lookn4awillin1 Porn Star

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    Sure, why not? I believe someone online may be more open as opposed to meeting them in person. I've had some awkward first dates that never materialized because there wasn't a second date. I find people far less nervous/anxious in online conversation. If it gets to the point that you want to meet them in person, any lies will become evident soon enough. Besides, not like people haven't been hurt after getting to know someone in person. I say go for it girl. Regrets of what might have been can suck more than regrets of what something turned out to be.
     
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  9. Carrie_J

    Carrie_J Porn Star Suspended!

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    Kimi invited me to get naked with her and then lick each other... Oh well, guess you'll have to wait he he :excited:
     
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  10. itiswhatitis

    itiswhatitis Porn Star

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    I know of a man and a woman ..she from B.C ....he from California ...who have been happily married for over a decade ..they met on line ..

    my only reference ...
     
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  11. Carrie_J

    Carrie_J Porn Star Suspended!

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    It does happen... Love to hear things like this too :)
     
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  12. christina2706

    christina2706 Dark Haired Beauty

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    Yeah, my mom and her husband have been together for years and finally decided to get married about a year and a half ago. He's from Wyoming and moved to Texas to be with her.
     
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  13. curiousgirl

    curiousgirl No straight lines. Insistently curious.

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    Yep, it's possible, speaking from personal intense experience. Step into the unknown, Christina. Embrace the adventure. And good luck.
     
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  14. HardHead

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    Well ultimately it ends badly unless you meet or want to meet.

    If one does not - it goes no where.

    If you do meet - love is possible.
     
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  15. SteadyBoy

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    It is absolutely possible, what usually does not happen though is having the relationship work out. The distance and if the people can travel to see them is what it comes down to, and if they are willing to put up with seeing eachother only a few times a year until they both have a career where they can live together, and move on from there, it usually won't work out.
     
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  16. Lady Fox

    Lady Fox Queen of Fantasy

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    :rose:It is possible to fall in love on-line.....I did and we started out as very close friends 4 years ago. We talk on the phone 3 and 4 times a day....we see each other on cam daily and in Dec. , I will be moving to TX to be with him, the love of my life and my soul mate. So to the lucky ones, it can happen.
     
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  17. Carrie_J

    Carrie_J Porn Star Suspended!

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    Wow, that's really awesome... I am happy for you and wish you well. :rose::)
     
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  18. HardHead

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    I hear an XNXX house warming party! lol but seriously, congratulations!
     
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  19. SteadyBoy

    SteadyBoy Sex Machine

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    That's so adorable :)
     
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  20. matt25uk

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    I met my wife of nearly 5 years online and my mom met her husband online and they first met 10 years ago.

    It is possible but i have also met some total liars who were great in theory until actually meeting them and then it was a massive upset... Like real life dates going badly except the first date meeting someone from online in person means that feelings and expectations are built up.

    If your going to meet up then just do it early because i was kind of with someone online once and when someone asked me out in person at work i went for it because the online girl was always reluctant to meet up... Then i had the reprocussion of it all when i had to explain to her what happened.

    Some people build different personai online and run them thoroughly for a long time so just be carful.

    Meet in a public place for a coffee in town or something to be safe. Take a friend with you and have them wait around the corner incase in person the guy turns out to be a nut job because there is always that chance, if things go well just text your friend.

    I wish you luck but just know that it can work... I don't believe you can truely know if you love someone until you have met but like you have said and many others have too, the feelings can become quite intense.
     
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