Can i just add something to think about...

Prepare yourself for this guy to have other people online who he will still want to talk to if you do get together. It has spung alot of arguments within my marriage because things can come to light which you didn't know about.

People who do look for relationships online and even some people who aren't actually looking for anything too serious can have a few people they talk to in the same way at the same time hoping for something to happen with one.

Infactuations with people online seem to linger even after getting into a relationship probably because of the 'what could have happened' type feelings.

 

Happens a lot, online there is no laundry, no bills to pay, no daily mundane stuff that has to be done!! It can be just horny fun!!!! :excited:

 

I think people who "fall in love" online without actualy meeting the other person are in effect falling in love with the idea of falling in love more than ther are actualy developing the emotion based on the other persons actual attributes. Once you meet someone things can quickly turn in other directions. As for "being totaly honest" about themselves because it anonymous...I dont buy that either. I think you are more likely to find out who a person wishes they could be rather than who they actualy are. There are many people who have met online and then after going the next step and meeting actualy fell in love...but it realy does require a face to face meeting to sort out the reality of the feelings you may have versus the wishfull thinking.

 

Yes, I can add another success story - a couple who met onlone and despite one living in Wales and the other in Hong Kong, they met, got married and are expecting thier first child very soon - all in the space of two years.

I also had a very intense relationship and although we are both married and knew we would never meet, the feelings were very strong and when he cut me off it hurt like hell.

 

lol meeting the person after u'v talked online isnt technically falling in love over the net. u meet online maybe through xnxx (lol) then hang out a bit for few months or years then finally kick it out to marriage and boom married

 

I think you can definitely fall in love online, the problem is whether the person you love online actually exists in the real world.

Just don't expect everything to be the same when you meet that person face to face. Sometimes the internet can lead to a big let down.

My suggestion is to not be desperate, and to take everything with a grain of salt.

 

Absolutely - I've seen it happen many times.

 

Well can I wait and watch or do I have to sit in the bar?.

Chris you ask the question can you fall in love on line, well of course you can. I love you, Cija, Ejls, Kimi and a lot of other ladies on this forum, you might say it is only lust but I say love.
Peace out.

 

yes you can
but with what???

until you meet in the flesh who knows who is there


the INTERNET can be easily manipulated and you don't know who is on the other end

 

And you are one of the very special ones here, Rich. :rose: Said with love, not lust.:rose:

 

Aww shucks Rich.... :rose::rose:

However, it has made me think if there is a difference between loving and being in love. There are many different types of love - I love my children for instance, unconditionally. I love my husband almost unconditionally - there may come a time when he does something irredeemable, but I hope not. I'm not sure if I love anyone on xnxx, but I certainly feel affection for many, care deeply about a few and lust for some (no names!!)

Being in love I think is different, a fleeting romantic feeling, more of the butterflies in the stomach, not wanting to be apart sort of feeling. Some lucky people claim to feel this for longer.

What do you think??

 

yes
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There are six people who get my unconditional love, my three children and my three grandchildren, there was one lady who I think I loved with all my heart, but alas no longer. I feel affection for quite a few of the ladies on here, which rather surprised me as I am usually more pragmatic in my approach to friendship but maybe it is because of the anonymity that makes it easier to be open.

To say I loved any on here with that heart rendering feeling that time and distance gives you from the one you love would be wrong, to say I loved a lot because of friendship would be right, would I fall into bed with you ladies, yes in a heartbeat, would it be right, I doubt it but then I never follow the easy path if there is a harder route available, it might be troublesome but it's always fun.

Love is in many categories, from friendship through to heart pounding, mouth drying, stomach flipping, I never want to be apart from you love. Just pick the one that suits the relationship.

But then again what do I know, I'm divorced.

 

Is it possible, yes

I met my wife online and married her 3 years later and we have been married for many years.

I will caution you that just because you click with someone online doesn't mean you will in person.

 

Yes, definitely!! I fall over all the damn time!!

*reads thread*

Oh. Umm. Ahh. Yeah. Right. Well, *shrugs shoulders* I dunno *confused*

*leaves thread*

<----< exit thisaway?

 

just follow you heart.. simple or what?

i got your back until death

 

No.

 

I think I could fall in love with you here online :rose:

 

yes, you most definitely can. But it's not enough. you shouldn't just go from knowing someone online to moving in with a person. while you can fall in love with someones ideals and personality they have mannerisms in real life that, despite your love for them, you might not be able to get over.



or they can be ugleh.

 

Yes, go for it. Falling in love can happen online even on a porn site. Just heed the advise given by others but have fun. Life is too short...