I was prompted to bring this discussion up and frankly, it’s not one I see often or may not be often understood. It’s all still new to me too but it’s but a fun journey so far.

Guys, have you ever had your cock locked in a cage? If so, for how long and how was your experience? Same question for the ladies if you’ve been locked up too.

Let me start with a few of my experiences in the short time I’ve been experimenting with cock cages. The first morning I got one, I put it on and wanted to see how comfortable it was. It was quite difficult because I was excited to experience being locked up and my cock was refusing to go soft. Alas, I was able to get it in and lock the lock. I then handed my wife the key and we went about our morning as usual. I loved the weight of the metal cage as it seemed to just be constantly squeezing my cock and pulling on my balls. I went out back to have a smoke and I was looking at some caged cock pics and got my first experience of feeling like my cock was getting hard but it couldn’t. I could feel the cage refusing to budge as my cock began getting harder. It really left no room to grow. I couldn’t even manage a proper chubby.

I stood up to walk inside and precum gushed our of my cock and into my pants. So to the bathroom I went to dry off. I sat back down next to my wife on the couch and kept grabbing at my cage every so often. The torture was beginning to build but there was nothing I could to about it. It was at that moment I realized I had to be extra good in order to get out. This suddenly weakened me and I remember a feeling of gratitude and pleasure of being in the company of my beautiful wife. Every time she touched me it was like my skin was hyper sensitive and everything just shot right to my groin. Yet, I could get no relief. My cock was hers now.

 

After some hours I had to get ready to go to work. I was crazy horny and begging for a release. I hoped in the shower, washed my hair and body, trying to postpone my orgasm as long as possible. When I was finally ready to take the cage off, I had completely forgotten my wife had the key!
I attempted to try and get off while still being locked away. I tried squeezing my fingers into the empty spaces of the cage to rub the tip of my cock but that wasn’t working. Next I tried anal penetration and holy fuck has it never felt so amazing. It didn’t get me off but If my wife was there i would be practically begging to get my ass fucked after that. So in my weakened and desperate state, I grabbed my phone to text my wife to unlock me. She eventually did but not before teasing me a bit more

 

I guess what I most enjoyed about the experiences thus far, is the total loss of control and power. It’s like edging on another level. It makes any form of stimulation just that much better

 

Ever been spanked while you are wearing the cage?

I can help you with that!

thinskin

 

I know several males that freaking love chastity. They get all giggly and wriggly just talking about it, and finding a key holder they trust is a very big deal.

 

@submissivelyspeaking

It is like advanced T&D I suppose sub?

thinskin

PS that was supposed to be a comment but I have smoked a few and am on the phone!

 

I'm honored to be your key holder, Adagio.

 

I have a cage that I used several years ago with an old boyfriend, haven't used it since him but have thought about it with my wife, I would have to get a new one because that one has bad memories tied to it. It was fun being locked up while he fucked me, too bad he had to get abusive.

 

That does suck and I can understand wanting to trash the old one. What did you enjoy/not enjoy about it?

 

Since I really didn’t get to finish my OP since I had to go to work, there are a few more points I wished to talk about:

While in my time locked up, i truly felt more emotional and almost “softer”. I remember just wanting to cuddle and just be near her. Her touch drove me wild. I didn’t realize my arms could be an erroneous zone but they were. There are a lot of subtopics that seem to go hand-in-hand with being locked up and that is a sense of being emasculated. It is true to some degree. The shift in power is what makes me enjoy it. For one, I have to pee sitting down. So for those couples that argue about the toilet seat, well lock your man up and that’ll be the end of that.

 

I’ve edged myself more times than I can count and it’s fun denying yourself the big O for a bit until you can’t take it any longer. Imagine that but without penile stimulation and not being able to have that release. It just compounds until it’s nearly unbearable and you get to the point of begging for the release. Being in that state heightened every touch and stimulation in any form is very much welcomed and adds just a touch of relief.

The only thing I didn’t really enjoy was my denial of any stimulation and pleasure meant she wasn’t able to have sex while I was locked up. I love the idea of her rubbing her pussy and ass on my cage or giving me a blowjob while locked up but she can’t use my dick when I’m wearing it.

 

Well, I discovered the chastity strapon harness.

Problem solved. I could torture myself for hours and still fuck her!

So with that said, I’m into it for the denial and the whole “pleasure is all for her” setting. The loss of control, the heightened sensitivity...Im not really into the cuckold side or made to feel insignificant or useless like many others may be. I find it a sort of extremely prolonged foreplay. To be put in a position of begging and grateful for any pleasure I may receive.

 

While I admire and appreciate the need of a kink such as this, hearing NO as much as I do is enough "chastity" for me!

 

@BigDDSub48 I haven’t been able to last too long, but each time gets longer and longer. Right now, about 8-9 hours. Do keep in mind, I do it on purpose, meaning I purposely watch porn just to drive myself crazy while I’m taking a break from other daily activities. I only do it in my off days and have yet to wear it in public. There are guys that go weeks, even months...I can’t nor do I want to go that long. I’m thinking maybe a day or two tops. I masturbate every day, often more than once on top of having regular sex, so 8-9 hours seems like an eternity.

 

@alla Adagio, Be care not to desensitize yourself. For selfish reason, I would watch porn and edge a lot in my youth. I also have DEEP concerns about being selfish so I always waited to orgasm until my significant other cums. Two things: 1) it now takes me hours to find porn arousing (no a big thing) and 2) often I need to be masturbated after sex and it takes time. I am also, 53!

 

Menopause ...Chastity is there a difference??

 

Glad you started this thread. You're doing a great job explaining some things I'd never really even considered when it comes to the topic.