The thing that didnt get mentioned in that was lust or sexual desire. Love realy doesnt depend on sex as much as people would like to imagine...although it doesnt hurt if the sex is great too

 

Ok this I can pick apart. Are you saying having a great big cock shoved up your ass doesn't hurt?

 

in my philosophy class we read an article what makes sex great it isnt lust or sexual desire which i found interesting

 

lucky bastard.

why can't the 2 be conjoined. Love somebody and love to have sex with them too?

they are kinda 2 sides of the same coin. Speaking as a guy, the only way I know how to speak by the way, yes we love sex, but when you find a particular woman that you love having sex with...queue the fireworks.

It's kinda like loving cake. that's ok

Loving chocolate cake. also ok

Loving chocolate cake made by a specific pastry chef at a particular bakery? fucking awesome.

the best kinda sex is when both people are totally into it. when she closes her eyes and makes that sound and I can feel her pussy getting wetter and she rolls her head back and.....:shock:.......

as you were.

 

This I can believe. I have always had better sex with people I was in love with than people I just wanted to shtup.

Okay...I cant realy speak to that but I could imagine it might cause what doctors euphemistically call "discomfort."

 

How does love work when you are thousands of miles apart,you have never kissed,never touched,never felt their presence?

 

So is anal off your menu?

 

I beg to differ. I still have great memories of women I fucked just because I wanted to fuck the stuffing out of them. Love had nothing to do with it.


What I really don't get is how anyone can swallow sperm. Gotta commend the women who can stand doing that.

 

I'm curious what is it then?

 

The major components of great sex

1. Being Present, focused and embodied
2. Connection, alignment, merger, being in synch
3. Deep sexual and erotic intimacy
4. Extraordinary communication, heightened empathy
5. Authenticity, being genuine, uninhibited, transparency
6. Transcendence, bliss, peace, transformation, healing
7. Exploration, interpersonal risk - taking, fun
8. Vulnerability and surrender

 

+ 1 billion

 

it was a great article to read, i understood why i enjoy being with some people more then others

 

No I love anal, I am fortuniate that I can actually cum that way too.

 

I knew there was a reason I loved you Canadian girls so much

 

Sweet Jesus that's hot.

 

I'm not exactly sure, It does take longer to grow though.
I met my husband online, years ago, we knew each other for about 4 years. At first it was just casual, then we grew to be friends.
We even had disagreements, and patched up our friendship. He went offline for about a year, and when he came back, we had more time to visit. We'd talk for hours about everything, and anything.
After about 3 years of this, we started to realize we wanted more, we really wanted to meet eachother. Both of us worked for it, and made some hard decisions, and I hopped on the greyhound for a 7 day bus trip.
I've never regretted a moment, getting to know him from the inside before meeting him made the sex secondary, but muchly appreciated when it did finally happen.
It helps to think you truly know him, that we had that time to visit and share our thoughts before it got serious, that we always know how the other person would feel before making a decision, without always having to confer.
It sounds strange, but that's the first platonic friendship I ever had, due to my sex drive.
I've had other bf's that I thought I loved, I can safely say I didn't know them, especially not the way I know my husband.
Some people tell me it'll wear off, you'll realize that you don't love him all that deeply; To them I say that I know him better then anyone else in my life, much better then one of my EX's which it turns out was already married and had two children, which he kept secret from me for two years.

 

How long have you been married?

 

2 years now, so we've known eachother for 6. I married him 6 months after I met him in person. Wasn't letting him get away

 

So the honeymoon period is over and you are still going strong, cool.

 

That's something I miss when I don't get it often!