Can a married woman, who sleep with husband every night stop doing sex with husband? Need your say.

 

It happens all too often, I am afraid. And it goes both ways, of course.

 

I voted "can comment".
Not sure what it means though.
Maybe I should just keep my comments to myself.

 

I have had enough women, including my ex-wife, that would withhold sex to get their way on something. Bad move. With me, I don't ask anymore, start refusing it when it's offered and begin looking at different living arrangements - and we eventually split up or divorce. Fine.

I'm so over any woman with a 'My pussy is so precious that you'd better do what I say' attitude.

 

There are many reasons why a woman (or man) may not be interested in sex. Have you asked your SO about this?

 

She read a book and decided humdrum sex Is not for her and wants something a little more

 

Yep, so can you. When you entered into the contract with you wife you should have read it first because there’s nothing in there about getting laid on a regular basis. Live and learn like the rest of us.

 

Absolutely. Ever hear of spousal rape? That's when she says no, and hubby forces her.

 

In order for your wife to cut you off she has to know who you’re fucking.

 

Women or men can do whatever they want as long as they give me cheese.

 

No that isn't allowed! If a woman does that the husband has a right to call the police.. They will then come there and hold her down. I do it all the time, I kinda think my wife likes it.

 

I don't have any say in the matter.

No one owes sex to anyone else, with the exception of a prostitute who has already taken your money. Either the husband or the wife can decide they don't want to fuck the other.

The most difficult part of sex is finding a willing partner. The second most difficult part is keeping a willing partner.

Unless there are costumes or hardware involved, sex doesn't take that long and it's not a lot of work. There's no damage that can't be repaired by a hot shower. If a long term sex partner doesn't want to fuck anyone, something went wrong.

 

Sometimes I feel if I didn’t initiate sex my wife would okay not doing it. I never tested the theory nor do I want to.
But I know it’s more b/c she’s always exhausted and I understand a mom and works full time plus.

So it’s challenging getting her started but once she is, she’s very much into it, I love her moans, and the sex is great.
I just wish once I was perused.

 

can a married woman stop having sex with husband without any reason? Yes she can and there's never NOT a reason. She might not realize what it is but there's a reason. Could be physical, emotional, psychological or any combination but people don't just suddenly change for no reason.

You don't need our say, you need her say. What are you going to do? "You have to have sex with me because some strangers on a porn site forum said so."

 

There’s always a reason

 

Agree with you, but the lady is not having any issue with husband, live together, but says no sex.

 

Remember the 9 words almost every man hears on his wedding night: "You know, I never really did like doing that."

 

you sounds good . But what i dont understand is at least once in a way the husband need sex. if you are married for a long time, share everything in life , how can you stop sex? i feel the lady is lying.

 

It's not complicated.

There is a legend that may or may not be true, which says there is a US military manual that states, "The Army has determined that sexual intercourse is not necessary for your health".

So forget about appealing to her concern for your health. It won't work.

It seems like I give this sermon once a month. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with the man who sees her naked on a regular basis, something has gone wrong. We'll assume she hasn't discovered you've been seeing another woman. If we eliminate health issues that make sex painful, we're left with the number 1 reason a woman's sex drive diminishes. She's tired.

Exhaustion is a sex killer. Number 2 is feeling unappreciated for all the stuff she does when not asleep or having sex. In this situation, neither a man or a woman wants to fuck.

Take any man and work him 14 hours a day, 7 days a week. When he gets home, all he wants is supper, a shower, and to go to sleep. The mystery is why he would think a woman in the same situation would be different.

 

Tom Leykis used to say (and there is a lot of truth in it) that women want to get married because they are tired of having sex. They like everything else about their relationship, but they are tired of having sex. They know that if they cut off their boyfriend, they will get dumped and they'll have to start over training a new boyfriend. The path of least resistance is to get married, then cut him off. She gets to keep her life and he'll eventually give up trying to get some from her. Worst case in her mind is that they get divorced and she gets at least half of everything.