One Day, I found my wife's panties hanging on towel rack when I returned from work. She never did this before in 9 years of us being married. During this time my cousin was living with us for 3 months and I was at work all day while she was alone with him at home. Was she having sex with him and washed her panties afterwards? This has been on my mind for many years...

 

What is your consine's age

 

Why should you care now, if an issue is that important it's dealt with almost immediately after not down the line and if you've been thinking it all this time? Now would be the worst time considering (I assume) the cousin's gone and no more evidence can be ascertained other than falsely accusing someone based on a hunch. Women wash out their panties for a few reasons like slight accidents pee, blood, etc; why worry about it now?

 

Yup she had to wash them Because your cousin's man juice took longer to leak out her arse than her pussy. She thought it was all out so slapped her panties on and got a rude awakening when she later pulled and them down and found a shit stained cummy mess in them. Her arse had been gapping way longer than she expected from your cousin's dick being repeatedly jammed up there.

 

He was 25, she was 29

 

Then it is a right time for them to have sex when you are not at home . because everyday he stays at home so they have tried of having fun . Dint you cheek your wife's panties like does it smell

 

He's gone but returned after a few months for another short stay - again I was at work all day while my wife was alone with him at home all day. I did confront the matter to avoid falsely accusing anyone but It tears at me!

 

No one here can answer your suspicions.

Wife and cousin are the only people that can answer your questions. Do not be afraid of the truth, whatever it is. The answer will not hurt you. I see you are self-described as bisexual. Find out the truth. Ask.

Let us know the results, please, because now we are involved.

 

Time to put in some spy cameras

 

Sorry meant I didnt confront the matter

Thanks. I will try! I guess it will be easy for either party to deny this too.

 

Could always require them to take a lie detector test, Nah....I wouldn't.

 

Would it bother you if she did have a little fun during the day? After all, if she did, than perhaps a threesome is in order!

 

If you can handle the truth then ask her.
If you can't then leave it alone.
If it does not change how she behaves with you or treats you then don't obcsess.
Like hisnhers says maybe a threesome is in order.

 

@tosy Be aware of one of the oldest codes of men, a man never leaves or allows another man and that man knows it's forbidden by this code in the house with his wife alone unless he's family or a truly trusted friend of both! If she wanted him there then confronting the dude with a warning was warranted, but if you allowed it without resistance? You forfeit your right to be suspicious, here in lies the lesson!

My wife has a guy friend of whom she grew up with contact her via Facebook, he has a fiancee who's a real bitch to him and they've been out to lunch a few times in the last 2 - 3 years. They could be fucking and given she holds out on me maybe she's looking for a familiar dick that wouldn't rat her out! However she came to me transparent looking for approval (or P.C. equivalent) ie; with respect that if I worried about "it wouldn't have happened, why?" Out of respect.........I ask just this. Not do you not trust him with your woman, how much do you trust her decision even if it was offered? There's your answer!

 

Do you trust your wife?
Yes? then whats the problem?
No? then why marry her?

 

Thanks for the great insight - I guess what really tears me apart is that this has been simmering within me for so long.

 

I dont think I have ever washed my panties after sex. I mean they are usually off when I have sex so I cant see any reason to wash them and hang them up. I might put them back on again and chuck them in the laundry with all my other panties and bras at the end of the day .

A pair of washed panties is hardly evidence of anything other than she got sweaty, had her period or perhaps a little infection, spilt something on her lap or really liked that pair and wanted to wear them again the following day

 

yeah my ex wife and my gf all put there panties in the dirty hamper too. and when she did hand wash them they were delicate for the washer, and it could be like @RCummings said she might have spilled something on them,but yeah we can't answer the question for u.

 

Better question is ...
Do u trust or cousin?