My wife hates oral sex, both giving and receiving. She loathes me kissing and kicking her pussy. During the many arguements we have in the subject, she maintains a lot of women hate cunnilingus. Is she right? Popular porn seems to indicate women adore being eaten out. Maybe it is me, maybe I am crap at it.

 

and porn is always right, lol

Seriously, I dated a woman once who loved to give blowjobs but hated for me to return the favor. She is the only woman that I experienced this with, most of the time it was the other way around.

 

Your not alone, my wife doesn't like to receive. Maybe I'm not very good at the giving..

 

First off: Don't use anything you see in porn as your measuring stick for what women like or don't like.
I know a few women who don't like receiving oral sex from men or women. In some cases it's physical (just not their thing) and sometimes it's psychological. ( they might believe its nasty or unsanitary . Maybe their upbringing taught them that it's only something "whores" do.
Who knows? Just focus on the things that they do enjoy.
I also know men who can't ejaculate when receiving oral sex from men or women. Maybe they had a bad experience or maybe believe it's not something you should do to a "lady".

No two people are alike. Just because you like something doesn't mean everyone else does too.
Don't argue with your wife because she doesn't like cunnilingus. She doesn't. It doesn't make her right or wrong.

 

Every single women in the world is different,, it would be a very boring place if they weren't

 

Its not? My world collapses. And I thought my hot step mom would take my virginity tonight. Damn it!

 

I love oral sex. The tongue is the strongest muscle in the body.

 

I couldn't be with anyone that don't like oral sexy I love eating pussy love pleasing a woman

 

i dated a few girls that didn't like me eating them out. i could finger them and play with there clit to get them off,but not licking them. one girl said it was dirty even tho her pussy was clean. another said she didn't like that done to her. so yeah some girls love it and some don't. it's not like porn lol.

 

To be honest I think most women love it. I notice in various threads there are some that do not.
Almost every one that I have chatted with on adult sites seem to like it or love it all the time.
Now I also did notice there are some who claim that there are guys who do not do a good of it and therefore they do not like it form a particular man.
You have to keep in mind that not every woman likes the same thing or always the same way.
You have to pay attention to their body language and communication.

I hope some of the women will chime in and confirm or further generalize.

 

I am not used to it I feel weird and tense when a guy tries to give me oral, I thought maybe it was hair that made me uncomfortable but it was more of me not being used to it. I want to get used to it and work on it.

 

Most porn is produced by men who bring in an awful lot of rubbish. Not all women enjoy oral sex. I know one girl who hates it because her clit is so sensitive any contact is actually painful. There is a lot of myth in porn, don't believe it or base your own desires on it. If a woman doesn't like oral then respect her wishes.

 

not sure i could ever maintain a non oral relationship! love to serve a woman's pussy with the respect it deserves as well as sucking cock. i have been told that my skills are some of the best by many women i have been with and that my tongue is a deadly weapon!

 

*She loathes me kissing and kicking her pussy*
Maybe she doesn't like it when you kick her in the pussy!
I realize this was a typo on the OP's part but it made me laugh.

 

I’ve had partners that were terrible at it, and so just in simple self-defence ended up saying I would prefer to skip it.

If they’d asked why, I’d have told them why, but to just outright tell someone they’re unskilled at oral sex just isn’t my style. They didn’t ask.

I wasn’t miserable, but I will say I carried a little resentment about it.

In future, I might attempt to handle it differently, but being subby really gets in the way of offering that feedback if it isn’t asked for.

 

https://www.scientificamerican.com/...e-tongue-is-the-strongest-muscle-in-the-body/

 

I HATE receiving oral sex with the burning passion of a thousand suns.

I love blowjobs and giving cunnilingus. I could do that all day. On occasion I have.

 

Ive only been with a few who wouldn't give or receive, I've had some that were a no at first but gave it a try and realized they enjoyed it, when asked why they weren't into it at first they all had similar explanations, poor past experiences. But in my experience, majority enjoy giving and receiving.

 

Why argue about it now? You should of already known how she felt about it, before you married her? I can understand accepting it, because of loving her so much. But I can't understand why you're bitching about it now? Don't you try on a pair of shoes before you buy them?

It doesn't matter if she's right or wrong. It's her feelings about it, and that's what should matter. You should have known your wife a little better, before saying I do

 

80% of Guys who say they like giving cunnilingus are lieing and only 10% of them actually do it.

"The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality collated data from 900 undergrads by
carrying out a survey of their sexual habits.

Statistics showed that only a low percentage of couples regularly participated
in oral sex.

Around 26 per cent of women performed an oral sex act on their partners
compared to just ten per cent of men that returned the favour.

Even though a higher proportion of women provided their partners with oral
sex, only 28 per cent confessed that they actually enjoyed giving it.

Staggeringly, 52 per cent of male participants claimed to enjoy going down on
their partners, but only one-fifth actually delivered the goods."

Seriously, if your dick is hard use it and if it is not, why not?