Hey guys, theres this girl i've known now for about 4 months. We've been dating for probably the last 2. She even took my virginity . ( i read and kind of studied a post by ZYZX which was very helpful and she told me i seemed experienced afterwards, so thanks zyzx!!!) Theres just one problem, she refuses to let me perform oral on her, oral with my mouth that is, fingers are allowed. She says it makes her feel weird with someone down there face first in her. She's only let someone try it once before and she made them stop after a few seconds. I personally love giving oral pleasure to a woman with my lips and tongue and have been told im quite good by others in the past. I just don't know how to get this girl to let me try it on her. I don't want to just force it, so any suggestions on how to talk to her about it? Is there any women who actually do not like this stuff?

 

really the only way is to talk to her. If you get down there and shes not into it she's not going to enjoy it.
if you really cant live without that delicious vagine taste,lick your fingers

i would

 

Patience


Enjoy kissing her close, but not to close. Wait for her to come around, asking for you to get closer.
:rose:

 

Get her drunk...

 

She's probably just a little bit repressed, and maybe concerned about hygeinic matters.

I'm curious, though...if she took your virginity, where did you gain all of the experience you claim to have?

 

My G.f was the same way.. we had been having sex for a while.. but she refused to give me a taste. finally I had to blind fold her and tie her down... spread her legs and and go at it... after a while I took the blind fold off.. but she refused to watch so I got her to almost climax.. then stopped.. and told her I would only continue if she looked into my eyes... so she did and I went back at it... again bringing her almost to climax.. before stopping.. she was getting frustated now... and I told her she said to keep saying "eat my dirty cunt" while I did it.. so thats how my g.f learned to like it.. tied down screaming eat my dirty cunt... umm no... lol... really.. it just took alot of kissing... to make her hot and heavy.. then fondling.. then.. kissing her belly.. coming back up.. blah blah blah.. lower and lower.. ect ect.. just go slow.. make sure shes to horny to care about her body... I still have trouble getting her to want it.. but I can tell ... which days she wants me to make her want it..

Xgamer

 

does she give you blow jobs or doesn't she like that either? Could be like Kimiko suggests also a hygiene and confidence problem....have a shower together and soap her up real good..get it nice and clean for her...perhaps she will be more willing...?

 

I have had plenty of previous experience with oral sex and whatnot, but never actual intercourse. And when i said she told me i seemed experienced afterwards she was either being really nice or i was just good the first time.


Roox: she actually enjoys giving me blowjobs. this is what confuses me.

thanks for suggestions guys (and girls)

 

Some girls are self consious about it. Perhaps in time she will give it another try. You can always sneak down and give her a few licks when things are going hot and heavy.

 

I like your first way!

 

My guess is echoed with others - she's concerned about hygiene and/or odor.

Tease her - I like the idea of being tied very loosely down - as in a game. Teasing is a blast - makes her want you to kiss her...

 

your first way sounds much more fun to me forget the kissing and fondling...blindfolds and rope

 

wow, You could write a story based on that...

 

Me to! ... one day I'll be brave enough to act out.. these ... er.. ideas I get.. but.. other then being a coward... I don't think my g.f would be confortable.. with being tied down... we'll see..

hehe... but I like those bag's of fun...

Yeah.. The Xgamer should really pitter patter on the whole story thing... but The Xgamer wastes to much time writing half stories on the forums/pms.. er... Xgamer happy you three, enjoy'd his thoughts on the matter

Xgamer

 

My fiance is the same way, I had a similar thread awhile back. Just use a bit of innuendo now and then about oral sex, kind of ease yourselves into it. I'm still working my way up to it, and now she'd starting to do it every now and then as well. Hopefully it'll help loosen things up. But Marco Ten is right, make sure she's fully willing first. If she doesn't want to, then she won't enjoy it, and it'll damage any further progress. Good luck.

 

My wife

Before I was married I did 69 a lot with my GF's. For why I don't know, I didn't with my wife, until on vacation after 5 years, I finally went down on her, and from then on it was fairly frequent part of lovemaking. The other thing was that she never have me a blowjob until after we had been married about a year, she had never done it before, and was a little reluctant, but never objected after that. She used to scream MORE,MORE,MORE while I was eating her, and the kids later told me they listened in the closet next to our bedrm.
Didn't know we had an audience till years later.