In my mind it's easy money for a lady to not have to do anything but dress sexy... No sex even involved.

The hard part for me if actually making the call to find a girl.

 

Oh no, far from being disrespectful. Having to work in humiliating jobs for some time now I don't look down at anyone that does what they do to make it.

But in the case of prostitution I think it would be a waste of the girl's time to try to chat and connect with her. The way I see it she does not really want to "interact" with a man, but just get the work over with. If all the clients try to talk and "interacting" with her about what not... that sounds like too much headache for the girl.

Still I imagine that a short chat showing you, the client, as a nice person would be welcome.

As I said - these are my theoretical thoughts. Never even talked to a prostitute.

 

Hmmm.. Just remembered. I was with a lady once that told me she likes to fuck and has slept with about 100 men. Some of them she said gave her money so it was a prostitution type of situation, but not negotiated before hand.

I think that if the guy has enjoyed some casual time with a woman a payment does not show anything else but respect. How else can he show it if he flies out the same day or something.

The woman I'm talking about was about 40 and very sexual. She really liked me and said that it's a good thing I don't live close by because she'd probably fall in love. Also told me I was like a treat to her - usually she got older guys, nice, but older. Rated me #1 among her experiences. Don't know if it was because 13 hours of sex had blurred both of our minds. A few times she could not think of the words - the expression "fuck me silly" is true indeed. I have been fucked silly too a few times, so I know the feeling, hehe.

I wonder if sex with a prostitute, with very little of my precious "interaction" that I insist on, can actually make you get "fucked silly"?

 

I have never had sex with a prostitute, but not cos I don't approve of it (& I never would look down on anyone cos of their job), I just can't quite get my head around paying someone for a sexual act - I guess I want them to like me enough to want to do it.

I have been out with a couple of strippers though, who both did "blue turns" where they mixed with the audience & were fingered by them. I wasn't jealous at all as I know they were just doing a job

 

Speaking as a client - I agree.

 

Hope you don't mind a "newbie" chipping in here - I like to think that I interact with the woman I visit. I've become a regular client and we always chat about holidays etc during foreplay. It relaxes me and makes it more intimate.

I like to think that she doesn't heave a sigh of relief when I leave!

 

Never have used a prostitute and I hope not too, however I have no problem with prostitution provided that the lady is completely willing and free to choose. I do have a large problem with sex trafficking, pimping etc. i would make prostitution legal so that anyone being engaged in the trade is subject to health checks, regulated, safe and taxed, thereby being a valued contributor to the wealth of the nation

 

You are so right - trafficking is a huge blight on the profession.

btw we are taxed - at least I pay tax anyway!

 

I've never had a prostitute. I kind of want to try one, but it would have to be the right one. The one I can still lay the moves on and get some romantic fucking going.

 

Different types

I like to have a good chat because i dont just want to slide onto you then get off but it does happen and thats how some guys like so it depends can be gentle or bloody rough are all sorts x

 

I enjoy the search for a seemingly genuine happy prostitute as much as the meeting itself. It might just be me deluding myself, but I do like to see a smile upon my arrival. But I am a gentle soul and a sensual one, and I think this approach is appreciated rather than walk in trying to emulate a porn star type performance.
It is important but not always possible for you both to "click", and sometimes that may not happen until there is a little trust between you. A mutual show of respect.
We are only talking about self employed girls mind. Street girls and some parlours are a whole different ball game. Both with drugs pimps and basic slavery.
So if any of you willing fems live near Bristol in the U.K. come and have a giggle with me!! Just to let you know I look like quasimodo with a big grin!!!

 

I have slept with many professional girls..... I treat them with respect as they are giving me something I desire. Many feel that because you are paying for sex you can act like an ass. I think if you desire BDSM you should seek out someone that provides that service, I like women that provide the GFE and treat them as I would my gf. As for what I would like to do with you...... Slowly remove your clothes and make passionate love to you.

 

Well I don't consider myself professional by any means, I have sold my pussy before. Years and YEARS ago back when I was stripping, it was just too tempting not too.

 

man, you UK guys are waay too lucky. almost all the girls posting here are from there!

 

I'm with you there Amanda - a chat relaxes the guy too - they can be a bit nervous!

 

I still remember my first time.....took me 20 minutes to get it up!

(Oh the shame...)

 

Dont worry getting it up i once had a guy shoot his load into my handbag as i got a rubber out i looked at him and he was bright red and said he couldnt help it plastered my bag inside was bit miffed lol xx

 

God he must have been mortified!

Takes me ages to come - that's why I always book for the hour!

 

I might give it a go one day. I live in Geneva, Switzerland and there's quite a well known red light district here.

 

I think the laws here are far more relaxed than, say, the US which makes it easier