It's a power issue, similar to BD/SM.

 

9 out of 10 people enjoy gang rape.

 

It's obvious you can't be raped consentually. That isn't the point. What you said made it seem like a woman can't be raped if she has a rape fantasy, which is totally untrue. Any time it is unwanted, it's rape. It's very common, even with women who don't fantasize about it, for them to orgasm or feel good while they are raped, but this doesn't make it right, nor make it not rape. They're still victims, and tend to blame themselves or think they are dirty for feeling something while it happens.

 

I fantasize about my boyfriend raping me somewhat often... I get into elaborate story lines about how it came to him raping me, none of which make much sense and are highly improbable. He would never be violent towards me of course, it's just fun to fantasize about.

 

I'm a soft music, candle light and perfume kind of guy. I more or less need to be seduced. I need to know that I am loved. The presence of a woman who responds to me with fear, hate, rage, and revulsion would not arouse me. I could never rape a woman.

 

Na dude, definitely not. I can definitely get rough if I'm in the mood to but rape? no sir.

 

Lmao

I'm sort of at 2-minds about this. Rape-play is fun, a lot of fun actually...but I feel that actual rapists should be castrated/hung...hmmm....

 

yeah, I'd have to agree, there..

[DS]

 

I'm with Videri on this one, play-rape is sooooo much fun, but at the same time, I was nearly in jail because I put an actual rapist in hospital for 8 weeks.. yeah, fantasy = HOT!!!, reality = painful slow death.

 

no thanks, i dont need that fantasy

 

ive never had the desire to play this out. like i like it rough and all but to rape a girl? no thanks.

 

My wife and I have a very strong D/s relationship. She is a very submissive little slut who enjoys being taken control of and used. One of her fantasties had always been to be "Gang Raped" so to speak. So I set it up for her one night using a group of guys that we normally "play" with.

She loved it. It's not about the "rape" it's about losing the control for her and knowing she's helpless against what ever is going to happen.

You have to understand the BDSM, D/s life style to get the connection.

 

i would love to take you

 

I fantasize about being raped all the time.

I used to think that there was something wrong with me, but I don't anymore. (At least... not THAT.)

 

I do, but not rape as such, more the sort of thing that you don't expect, but you want to happen. I know, it's not rape if you want it, but like knowing someone and secretly liking them, and then they sneak up behind you in a park or on your way home from work and, well you know the rest

 

I have several scenarios that I often fantasize about.


1) Getting felt up and molested in my sleep and then taken without my consent.

2) Being groped and raped by a group of horny men in a public place.

3) Being kidnapped and held against my will and used repeatedly as a sex slave.

4) Being tied naked to a table and fucked silly by an unseen attacker.

To name a few.

 

i like numbers 1,3, and 4 quite a lot.

 

Every girl I've ever asked this has told me of a personal rape fantasy. Each one has a common thread: She is sexually ravaged against her will and is forced to orgasm. The details vary widely from her attacker being a guy she knows to a group of strangers and the sexual details vary even more widely, usually involving practices she would feel ashamed of consenting to but in her fantasy is forced into.

Real rape is entirely different and isn't about sex at all. It's about power, abuse and humiliation, where one person or several dominate and abuse one or more others. The acts performed are irrelevant as is the sexual orientation of the people involved. Forcing fear, pain and humiliation from the victim (s) is the only point.

 

The Fantasy of Rape

Please read my story about the fantasy of rape as it is quite interesting and true! It is posted on this site and is I think a fairly accurate account of what most women really want when they say they want to be raped! At least it has been my experience!

 

The key element in rape fantasies, at least for me, is that I either secretly or subconsciously want it to happen. Often, I start off resisting, but my own body betrays me...I can't fight the growing arousal I feel, my inner whore is finally unleashed, and I end up surrendering completely and begging to be fucked, hard.

As you say, real rape is another matter entirely. I don't think many women really want to be raped.