When I was in middle school a friend and I experimented some. We'd play with each other but I was the only one willing to go further. It was my first sexual experience and at that age I was so inexperienced that the first time I tried giving him a blowjob I thought it involved actual blowing. We didn't experiment very long but the experience stuck with me. Now as an adult I want to try all this again but never knew who I would try with, so I kept quiet about the curiosity. I got married, had two kids, and am going through a divorce, which I am taking as an opportunity to stop suppressing it and try it. Thanks to this forum I might have a shot.
The strange part is that I have never had any predilection for bi or gay porn. I just know I really want to give a blowjob to completion and have a cock cumming in my ass at least once.

 

Same here, except a couple of very trusted friends. I've been upping the number of guys I've fucked a lot lately. I've already had 5 guys this month alone. Love smooth twinks who love dick

 

Ok...The hard truth...NO ONE can tell you the right thing to do to keep your relationship with your girl when comming out....You have to conceider how open she is...How much she loves you trust you etc...
Trust maybe a issue since your already having sex with guys....

I know my current GF would slam the door in my face and we would be NO MORE....Where as my ex wife did embrace it for the most part...

Shortly after we were married she found some old swinger mags "Before I had a computer and the internet was so big" and some dildos that I thought were long gone...She inquired and I tried brushing it off but only made her mad and suspicious...I came clean...She stewed for a week or so...asking questions thinking them thru then asking more...

Long story short she had 2 favorite strap-ons and LOVED to fuck me senseless with them....We were together almost 14yrs....

So you never know....

 

for me watch videos n start talking bout what you see...you like /could you....this is how we did a 3 sum....it opens up a way to ask....... ./.

 

You don't have to tell her anything.

 

tell her or not

There are two chains on thought on telling her or not.

After years of experience, I feel that cumdumpers response might be the best.

I think that after you start a relationship, that telling her is going to hurt her, so telling her up front you won't eliminates that.

 

I would break up with my bf right away if he told me he liked to have sex with guys

 

I have three Ex wives and neither of them knew or now know that I am Bisexual!

 

My wife loves watching me play with other guys!!!

 

try asking if she ever though about a mmf treesome if yes try to talk about your desire of getting fucked and try making the suggestion, by the way, good for you, having such moral consciousness!!

 

you shoudl tell her... if she leaves you then you know she really doesnt love you, you shouldnt have to pretend to be anything your not, thats not true love then.