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    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

    One more important message - Do not answer to people pretending to be from xnxx team or a member of the staff. If the email is not from forum@xnxx.com or the message on the forum is not from StanleyOG it's not an admin or member of the staff. Please be carefull who you give your information to.


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  2. Hello,


    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

    The pictures that you will send me for verification won't be public


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  1. Lioness

    Lioness A Fun Flirty Frisky Friendly Felion

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    This is excellent advice.

    And if I had known you had autism, I would not have been a smart ass in my first response. I apologize.
     
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  2. zed71

    zed71 Sex Lover

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  3. ezcoms

    ezcoms Porn Surfer

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    Friends

    Friends are too expensive and they demand a lot. Fuck everyone.
     
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  4. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    No and don't plan to. Contrary to popular opinion, I'm too normal for them.
     
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  5. Prurient Purveyer

    Prurient Purveyer Porn Star

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    I'm glad you came out with what your problems are in terms of relating with people; it allows me to cut out all the usual things to do.

    You could call what you have Aspergers- its far less scary. We (my wife and I) are friends with a family where the father has Aspergers as do two of the boys. The oldest son is married to a terrific girl but the younger son really struggles to make friends.

    I think you should be honest when you meet someone and say,hey I have Aspergers and it means I - and you tell them how you relate with people and ask them to give you a nudge when you need it.

    The upside is that you should have high intelligence and enviable focus.

    Don't be concerned about getting a girl friend; nice guys who do their best at what they do get noticed by the fairer sex and the one who decides you're the one might just be a bit bossy but you probably need that.

    So hang in there, it'll all work out fine;)
     
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  6. smcaaphd

    smcaaphd zOMGorgeous

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  7. Draegus

    Draegus Digital Demon

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    I have only two words for that... Wow, and Amazing.
     
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  8. origen01

    origen01 Porn Star

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    Did you try an Asperger's Support Group? Have you ever considered getting re-diagnosed?

    This is your life. Something is obviously affecting you.
     
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  9. richief

    richief The Curly Wurly Man In XNXX Heaven

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    Yet you give the same advice DL, what NEW as given is excellent advice, if you don't aim high you generally fail, and if he suffers a few brush off's then he is no different from anyone else, win or lose it is good experience, and if you lose you can always try again.
     
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  10. Distant Lover

    Distant Lover Master of Facts

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    The OP should do things that are a little out of his comfort level, but he should not attempt things where he will almost certainly fail. He needs to build up a series of successes.
     
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  11. Druidoak

    Druidoak Porn Star

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    Normal is a myth! You will aquire confidence, when you learn to say Fuck You to people that want to tell you your not good enough!
     
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