I'd like to apologize for and clarify this statement.

Yeah. I didn't realize that was your own dick you were defending. For that much, I realize I am unfounded in making this direct of an attack. I'm sorry, and I really mean that.

With that said, if you're that uncomfortable with guys seeing your wang, you shouldn't have allowed it online, period. You're being very closed-minded in your fear of men seeing your wang. I don't get it. Is it homophobia? Is it something else? At any rate, your dick is on the internet and people are going to look at it.

And again about the cliques; that's a really lame criticism to fall back on. Be nice and you'll see you have lots of friends on here.

 

Ah, you misunderstood me. I know you're a guy, I should know by now. :lol: I should have worded it this way: Shakes knows bnthrdntht is a female.

But um, yeah, go ahead & post a pic. :wink:

 

Caffeine, I'd like to take this opportunity to apologize to you. My intital comment to you was out of defensiveness. After I posted it, I told bnthr and she told me that you were probably only joking with her. So I was out of line. And, by you apologizing, it earned my respect. You're a stand up and guy I appreciate that. Thanks a lot for showing me that there are people on here that have decency about them.

 

Also, I debated on whether I should say this or not. People on here tend to say hurtful things over someone elses pain. I'm not answering this for anyone but Caffeine. You asked why am I so offended. I'll tell you, when I was a young child, I was molested by another guy. 2 or 3 years later, I was molested by a relative for a short perioed of time. He was also a man. Its one thing for a man to molest a girl. But, in the grand scheme of things, the hole he's molesting is the one she's meant to have sex with as an adult. For a little boy to be molested (both anally and orally) I can't begin to tell you what that does to a person mentally, emotionally, psychologically, the works. So yeah, when it comes to this, I do tend to be defensive about it. And, maybe I came here expecting to be understood, but a person can't really understand unless they've been there themselves. So, I may say things sometimes that seem out of line, and for that, I apologize. I do NOT apologize for everything I've said, and I do NOT apologize to certain individuals. When I'm right, I'm right. To rain, I say this: I said what I said to you because my initial response was to Caffeine. He seems like an intelligent guy that can defend himself, he doesn't seem like the kind of person that needs a hero to come to his defense. To shake I say this: bnthr doesn't agree with you. You're out of line for the comments you made directed toward me. I'm not a mean, hurtful, or spiteful person. I meant what I said, I do hope your childhood was a happy and loving one. But mine wasn't, not that you care. Waa waa waa cry me a river? That's not only childish and immature but its out of line. You don't have to live with the fact that two men did things to you that should never have happened. Be thankful for that cause its seriously fucked me up. I'm not here to cause trouble. I'm not here to blast anyone. I'm not even asking everyone here to agree with my comments. All I'm asking for is to have my opinion treated EQUALLY with everyone elses. If someone else is right, I tell them they are. I just got through apologizing to Caffeine because I realized he was right. But, if I'm right, then I should get that same respect.

 

It still doesn't address my point about you not taking your wife's word for it that you're good enough. To my mind, that you were molested doesn't really matter. I'm not trying to make light, it sucks, no doubt, but how many different sources do you have to hear it from that your dick is fine. Fourty years of testimony that the average is less then 6 inches and even your wife and you're still complaining.

Your dick is not the issue, not really. What I wonder about is why you seek the approval of total strangers over the person who loves you most in the world. If you're going to attack me because I'm not here to coddle your ego then don't expect me to respond with kindness and ice cream sundaes.

I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but if something bothers me I say so. If you wanted to be treated with kid gloves because your life was one horrible experience after another, say so up front. Everyone has tragic tales in their life, but we deal with them and we move on, or we don't and we sink into a hole. Which way do you want to live? Do you want to be known as the guy who was molested and who must be pitied or do you want to be known as the guy who was molested but who took control and didn't let that stop him from living his his life and finding happiness. I told the same thing to Sarai in that you can only play the victim card for so long, then it becomes a choice. So choose.

People read your comments the same as they read mine and everyone else's. If they don't agree they are free to say so, just as you are, just as I am. That's what makes it a forum. All fonts are equal (except for Courier, that font sucks!) and the only thing that makes you stand out are your ideas.

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Shake, although you didn't address my point a few days ago, the one about why you came to a thread clearly labled ladies only, I'll address your point. I will concede that you are right about one thing and one thing only. This isn't about my dick size, its about my mental state. I don't look for pity from a motherfucker on the face of this earth, much less nameless strangers on a damn internet forum. I don't want nor need to be coddled by anybody either. As far as me needing anyone's approval, before bnthr even posted this, I told her it wouldn't do any good, no matter what anybody says, I'm gonna feel the way I feel about myself, but her curiousity was stirred up about the whole thing. I'll even take it another step, your last post before the one I'm responding to, I was reading it. The beginning of it was well written and very intelligently thought out. So well that it was causing me to actually think about myself and the problems at hand. But then what happened? You had to go a fuck it up by being an asshole. Waa, waa, waa, cry me a fucking river? Dude, that's something you hear in high school, not from an intelligent adult trying to make a valid point. Doesn't matter if this is the internet or not, intelligence is intelligence. I don't deny my wife loves me, not an issue. I don't deny that fact that however big or small my dick is, it pleases her. And as far as what happened to me goes, the ONLY fucking reason I told that was to let a few people who have asked know what's behind all this. It wasn't to get bleeding heart motherfucking liberals to coddle me or treat me as a kid. I'm an adult and have lived with this shit for a long damn time. Perspective, that's what its all about. People were confused about the whole issue, so I put it in perspective for them. Now, I feel I addressed your point, if you'd so kindly return the favor and explain to me why you came here and felt a need to post a response at all. It would be greatly appreciated.

 

I did because I can, it's that simple. I still have not voted and haven't commented on your penis, I don't care about whether they think it's big or small. I commented because I felt it was a little silly for a woman to put up a pic of her husbands dick for the purposes of approval. If she wants to do it, whether at her prompting or yours, doesn't matter, it's still kind of silly. I can't figure out why you care that a guy would comment, but that's okay, you don't have to answer that, it's rhetorical. If you want to go back and forth we can, but I really don't think there's anything interesting left to be said.

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ok i have finally found the time to respond to my topic and i just have a few things to say

First, to Shake i DON'T agree with you at all secretly or out in the open because i know he respects my opinion but something deep inside of him will shoot it down because it's quite normal for a person who has been through traumatic sexual abuse to have inferiority complexes and mental and physical insecurities. That's just normal.

Second, to Caffeine i knew you were joking and i told him you were but i really do appreciate the fact that you took the time to apologize to my husband. Like i said, you're a good asshole

Third, to Rain you know it's not the fact that something was said that he didn't agree with it's the fact that it was offensive considering what happened to him in the past

Fourth, to AB, i really hate to admit this but i totally agree with you

Fifth, back to Shake, saying because you can just really makes you an asshole and not in a good way and i did want to post this because i was interested in the results

and finally honestly why WOULD a guy want to reply back to this i mean really come on unless you're gay why do you want to look at another man's cock? please explain this to me because it's beyond reason to me

 

Seeing a weiner doesn't make me gay. Otherwise, after being on this forum, I'd be gayer than those two dudes I saw kissing once.

It's a pretty objective thing. I can judge the size of a cock just like I can judge the size of boobs, or a flagpole, or car, or a stretch of road on a map.

And I can objectively say, your husband's cock is nearly eclipsing a pack of cigarettes. Now, assuming that isn't a pack of Virginia Slims, I can say, without turning gay and without threatening your husband's sexuality in any way, this: Yes. That is a big dick. From what I can see, it has more girth than mine, and I consider mine totally average.

I want to take part in the forum because, wtf, I'm on here anyway, and I might as well. I care about you and I care about your husband, and I care about most everybody else on here. I even feel sort of bad now that possum has left.

And like I said before, if he feels uncomfortable with anyone seeing his cock, thread title or no, his cock doesn't belong on here.

 

Well even I'm not right all the time, so it's no big deal. Perhaps I was projecting but if I had a girlfriend who was constantly asking me if her boobs were big enough or her ass small enough, after awhile I'd have to tell her to shut up about it. I'm not an asshole (well not usually) but I am blunt. I wouldn't expect someone to put up with my constant nagging or incessant questions about something so trivial and I assume others would want the same courtesy.

Now, your thread title doesn't say "Seriously...this is a picture of cock, only women or flaming homos should enter and view these pics." It says Women only, but no context. If it involves women, perhaps some extra insight into the gordion knot that is their psyche, I'm going to look. And I promise you I'm right in saying that I'm not the only guy that looked. Just how it is. However, after seeing his penis, and the subject matter, I felt the question was, to put it nicely, silly. As mentioned above, from a teenager okay. From a sexually nieve 20-something, sure. It's a stretch but why not. But from a married man, bucking middle age, sorry. Past history aside, I felt like adding my 2 cents. Not about his dick, again I don't care about his dick, but just about the subject in general. If you don't like it...well tough patooties.

Instead of handling this in an adult way, your hubby got confrontational. All I said was "shouldn't you be past this" and he exploded. His past doesn't give him carte blanche to just shoot off at the mouth to people whenever he's feeling homophobic. I understand he's had a fucked up childhood and for that I'm sorry, but I don't feel my initial comment was anything innapropriate.

I answered "because I can" because that is why I did. I have a "reply" button and I know how to work it. I didn't reply with the intent of getting him all pissy, I'm not a troll, but because I can reply to any topic I see fit. You do it just as we all do. It doesn't make me an asshole in the slightest, it makes me a forum user.

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well this is a helluva conversation ya'll have going here!

hey man, don't stress it. there is not a thing wrong with your cock.

 

Your husband's penis is very small. A 54yr. old man walks into a school with a gun...holds girls hostage...rapes them and even kills one of them. Is the school not responsible for this either?

 

wtf :?: :?

 

Totally irrelevant. Ban this motherfucker.

 

Um. I have no idea. I only sort of remember making that post. But no, I won't claim alcohol as a scapegoat for me being an asshole.

For some reason, his comment seemed to be of very bad taste to me, especially within the context of this thread. That's all.