So my wife and I welcomed our first kiddo which is exciting!

Problem is now my wife is soooo tight I can't get a finger in which means no sex

Looking for some advice from people who have had to get over that first sex after having a kid.

 

It really helped us to set some milk aside for the evening, then get drunk. Not hammered, just a bit tipsy.
There was some bodily stress resistance to get over before I could really relax and get into it. Besides that, patience and gentle caresses of course.

 

Lots of patience and lube.

Also helps if you change your fair share of diapers too.

 

How long ago did your wife ‘drop the sprog’?
And was it an uneventful delivery?
It sort of helps to know these things before being able to give a half decent reply✨

 

I was assuming he meant after the 6+ wk recovery period. If it hasn't been that long, I definitely amend my answer to include waiting til at least the end of that.

 

Its been 3 months actually. Delivery went good we ended up have a C Section because she wouldnt turn for us.

 

Not to worry. At 3 months you are terminated from sex for a small time period. 20 years about.

 

All I can say is, after our first, she was nursing and couldnt get pregnant, period stopped or something so no pill or condom, and months later when she stopped nursing, bang she was pregnant again!
Pay attention unless you want another kid right away, thinking about it, always glad we got the baby stuff done all at once!

 

There's no such thing as vagina too tight for a finger, but there is such a thing as a vagina too dry for a finger.

 

My wife was horny when she came home from the hospital.
If she would have had her way we would have parked along the road before getting home.

 

Slow and steady wins the race!!

Congratulations!!

Thinskin

 

Yours?

 

Lube, lube, lube and more lube; when you think you have enough lube add some lube. Seriously if you can get one of those lube shooters & fill her up before you try anything! If she's nursing her vag is going to be drier than it was pre-birth (I never used lube before giving birth, only needed it during the nursing baby period). Go slow, start with a lot of foreplay, things might be awkward at first, she might have pain, don't take it personal if she needs to stop. Make her feel sexy and wanted, don't make it all about you.

 

Have tried getting a running start and plunging your cock in there?

 

Her system is in shock. Even with a C section your vagina prepares itself for birth. So the vaginal brain haha thinks it has had a birth. Add to that the pain from the C section and stress of a new baby. And not feeling very sexy. So helping her as much as you can will ease her. And making her feel sexy and not pressuring her. I was extremely horny. Counting down till i could have sex. Didn't even wait as long as you should.....was a little painful too. But her sex drive will come back good as new. Trust me on that. When you do try take lots of time with foreplay.

 

Bingo! Sweet summed up the path to sex after child birth perfectly!
Our 1st child was natural, she needed to heal 8 weeks, alot of handjobs and bj's for me! She was extremely sore amd waited 9 weeks before I could get it in her. Actually the pic in my album called "wifes new pussy" is before we had sex after our 1st child. Her wonderful lips got sucked up in her and went away for a time. When it was time she was so wet but still nursing so we lubed up and it took a couple minutes for me to get in.

2nd child was the same but we still waited 9 weeks. She felt unattractive (although im a sucker for preggo amd post birth womens bodies!) and wanted to lose weight first. After the 2nd for some reason,everything in our previous "sexual dynamic" changed. We used to engage each other for sex 50/50.....1 of us would always make the 1st move.

Now 5 years later I seem to be the 1 to always make the 1st m9ve....of which I get shot down and have to get a pair of her dirty panties to glue shut with my cum!

 

Awesome! Thanks for the advice guys!

 

After our first child the only thing I thought was that I would never be able to fit snugly in her pussy again. The kid had a head the size of a watermelon I seriously thought I would never be able to fuck her again without having my balls fall in, I even asked the doctor if he could throw in a few more stitches, that's how big his head was. You really think I wanted to fuck my wife again after holding her leg back and the nurse or what ever you call her was pulling and holding back her other leg telling me look, look you can see the babies hair, get the fuck out of here! Congratulations on your child and I wish the three of you the very best, get the fuck out of here and enjoy it because they grow up in a blink of an eye