So, I had a question for everyone. I have a major fantasy of sharing my wife. She really doesn't know about it, although she does know I'm on here. How do I bring it up to her? I get super turned on when she says guys check her out or when I notice it. I'm Worried she'll get pissed, but it also could be a turn on for her too. Any suggestions are welcome!

 

My husband told me it's a fantasy of his to watch another man with a large cock fuck me and I told him I liked the idea and we are going to do it because I fantasize of it to. I think.

 

Just a word of advice:
If you're relationship isn't at a point where you can discuss your fantasies with each other, it probably not at the point where it could survive opening it up to other people.

But, since you asked.
She knows you're on here. Invite her to join you.
Go to the stories forum and take turns reading stories out loud to each other.
Read her some of the sharing stories and see how she reacts.

Or bring her to this forum and read her some of the questions about sharing and ask her how she would respond to the thread.

 

Let me be the big Dick that's fucks her

 

Well, you can try telling her that, if you die, you would want her to find someone that makes her happy, see what she does.
If she seems all too eager to take on a new partner then I'd say thats a good sign

 

Let me tell her and let her see this big dick

 

Perfectly said. That first part is most important I think.

 

Do you mean sharing, as in you and another man with her, or having her get fucked while you watch? That could make a difference. But regardless, DO make sure your relationship is ironclad and built on trust before you bring in others. That's super important. Talk a lot about it. If she's not very open to the idea, don't push it. But don't forget about it, either. You never know...

 

I harbor this fantasy as well. My wife finds it hot, and will definitely do it for me. She doesn't fantasize about it herself, though. She wants it, so as to drive me wild.

 

I would love to fuck you while he watches. Pm me and lets have some fun with it

 

It was a real turn on watching my wife with a big cock in her while i was in the closet. We do it all the time. The biggesti seen her take was 12 and thick .he was a big cummer.

 

It took my hubby over a year to tell me about it when he started thinking about this fantasy. At first I felt a little offended, wondering why he would want it. But since starting, things have been the best they have ever been between us in 20 years of marriage.

 

I told my wife the other night that i want to eat out her younger sister and she said that she eould not like that. You think i should

 

If she said she wouldn't like it, no, I wouldn't.

 

Watch some porn together and while you're fucking her tell her you sometimes fantasise that it's her in the movie being fucked and see how she responds. If she doesn't freak out, watch some more together and tell her you'd love to see her being fucked by another man for real. I'd say that'd pretty much do it. You can then discuss it as a real option and see how she feels about it. But for fucks sake don't pressure her into doing something she really doesn't want to do. Oh, and don't forget to reassure her that you don't want to use it as an excuse to fuck other women. My wife has permission to fuck whoever she wants and she knows I have no interest in fucking anyone else. Works for us.

 

I agree, watch some MFM porn with her and watch her reaction. If she seems to enjoy it, ask her if she would consider it.

 

Well you will definitely have to be slow and calculating. If you guys talk about sex openly and about your fantasies then you are in a good position to steer towards that but if not you have a lot of work to do. You can start perhaps with when she mentions again that other guys check her out that you can see why they would be checking her out. Get her to talk more about it bit by bit feeling her out on whether she likes it or is offended. If offended then you have an uphill battle unless she is saying it because she thinks you would be upset if she said she wasn't. You will have to be very reassuring with a calming and unassuming posture.
If she asks if you are offended if other guys check her out you can say you don't blame them one bit and realize she is desirable. Of course you will need to navigate it slowly and one step at a time without tipping your hand too early until you see she is welcoming the idea. You will have to feel her out in a slow and methodical way. It may also take many separate discussions at different increasing levels to allow her to process it all and become a little more comfortable with the idea.

 

You both need to totally trust each other to allow someone else into your most intimate places and be able to not get emotionally engaged with the third person. If you can then you can have wonderful sex.

 

If you both want it then do it . It's so exiting I wish I was the lucky fella.