Not sure if anything anyone here tells me will get her to change her mind but I can't get my wife to suck my cock. We've been married for 30 years and shes done it a bout ten times. The last time about 5 years ago. Any hints pleeeeeese

 

One more thing

She won't take it up the arse either but one thing at a time

 

some gals just arent into it...my thinking is if you get some, u should give some...but i love doin it, so its not a prob 4 me...i have a friend with the same issue...i have no clue how to guilt a gal in2 it. sorry good luck with it though

 

if you tried wipping it out in your car.. and asked her to be quick about it... how would she react, you think? (just to get a better understanding of her nature)

Xgamer

 

maybe it's just not her cup of tea
i'm sure there's things your not into..just like she may not be into that

 

mine kinda felt guilty for not going down on me when i went down on her about twice a day.... so eventually i got her to try.... go with that approach.

 

My wife is the same, we have been married more than 30 years. I enjoy giving her oral but she just is not interested in doing that. I have thought a lot about it but now I am beginning to think I am ok with that.

Still it would have been nice to experience that once in my life.

 

i couldn't live with that one. she refuses to give you the pleasure without actually seeing if she'd like it ?

 

..have you tried washing it? lol sorry man...that was begging for that...

hard to say on this one...some women can be so stubborn...does she enjoy when you go down on her? If so...explain to her that you would like to experience that sort of pleasure too..marriage is about sharing etc..blah blah..you know..try and talk..

 

ROFL, only surprised someone didn't say it sooner.

 

Explain to her you were out walking in the woods and stopped to take a pee on a bush when all of a sudden a snake came out and bit you.
Tell her that whenever it swells up and gets hard you need her to suck the poison out otherwise it will get into your bloodstream.:mrgreen:

 

Wow, that's SAD! If you're ever out on the West Coast....

 

I wouldn't fall for that.....

But I would suck on it.

 

Kimiko I swell just from the thought lol

 

Kimiko,
Respect for your lack of niavety, but if your ever in Scotland give me a PM.

I would love for you to suck on it

 

Dip it in chocolate and get ya a diamond ring peircing... She should jump all over that. What is it they say... Diamonds and Chocolate are a womens best friend

 

Sorry, I think we're going to Prague this year.

 

This will not be a popular response to your question and might insite a morality riot, but get a mistress that will do what your wife won't. Because after 30 yrs if she has only done it 10 times, then that should tell you that she is sexually inhibited. And if you try (or have tried) everyone's suggestions here and it still doesn't work then it might be time you become a cat daddy and start creeping for some new puddy. But hey that's just my opinion.

 

my wife is the same way i dont understand it she dont even let me go down on her anymore idont know what the hell the problem is, she likes it though when i suck on her nipples
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Sorry to hear about your problem. Have you tried the cold shoulder technique? Thats when you stop having sex with her for a while and if she wonders why, tell her its not your cup of tea. LOL Maybe after a few months of no sex, she will begin to crave your cock a bit more and now you have the advantage.