My ex wife and I split about 8 years ago now.
We had a great run, but it was time to move on.
In the wake of the divorce our three kids.
All boys.
The ex and I have a great relationship and the kids are split between the two households.
Well, the middle boy is a snoop and as I understand, is constantly jerking off. His brothers give him shit about it all the time.
But he doesn't care.
I haven't caught him nor do I want to.
But from what I understand from the ex is that his favorite material ranges from my current wife and her.
She told me she found on his computer pics of both of them. (Yes, she was pretty pissed).
She said he will walk in on her on a regular basis when in the bathroom or in the bedroom.
She is missing underwear.
She says she has walked in on him a couple times with a hard on or he has exposed himself to her.

She is distrubed by it, but seemingly not mortified.

I am figuring he raided my computer to obtain the pics, as I still have pics of both.

She thinks its a phase, but I am not so sure.

I remember him asking to suck on her boobs until he was 5-6 years old.

What say you?

 

I would say a porn site isn't the place to ask as you will only get sexual answers encouraging it I suggest u go to mum's net as no way would I discuss my children on a place like this

 

Oh mommy!! You are such a spoil sport.

thinskin

 

Lol should of stated if it was a parent opinion or perverted one which was required lol

 

......and daddy's not here! Mommy do it again! Please!!!!!!!!!!!

thinskin

 

For many years my mom was my main jackoff material sneaking a peak at her in the bathroom &sneaking into her room when she was sleeping to. Play with her ass

 

Well if this is serious then I would suggest that it's way past time to have a talk about privacy and respect.

 

Is his mom hot? Lol

 

No for real, if it was just jacking to pics of his mom he found, I wouldn't worry about it. But since he's barging In on her in the bathroom, I'd have a talk to him about boundaries and privacy.

 

I say it's time to put a stop to it. He's crossed a line with walking in on her. He's beginning to take his fantasies to reality and it could get more problematic if not stopped. He might make some kind of unwanted advances or more aggressive moves if he's not put in place about this soon.

 

I agree.

Masturbation is normal, but he needs to be told what is acceptable and what is not acceptable. Walking in on his mum while she is in the bath is not acceptable and someone needs to step up to the plate and remove the computer and then its contents. Someone needs to sit down with him and talk and see if there are other things troubling him, the masturbation and waling in on folk may be symptomatic of something more than idle teenage curiosity. Importantly there needs to be boundaries and he needs to be able to respect others privacy

 

This has to be some of the more mature responses I have read in this section of the forum. Like dmp I was expecting responses of encouragement like there always is in this section. Good responses so far.

And I agree with the others. Talk to him let him know that what he is doing is not acceptable. The walking in on her exposing himself to his mom and taking her underwear are the bigger issues. Masturbating to the pictures are also an issue and you can take those away from his also. He will probably still fantasize about both your ex and current wife naked because the pictures would still be embedded in his memory but all you can hope for is that changes soon and he finds other ways or pictures to fantasize about. Most of the time those are things he has to find on his own.