Here are 2 articles that I thought I'd share with you (Straight ladies especially and Bi too) .

http://www.yourtango.com/experts/melissa-fritchle/men-want-feel-sexy-too-expert

http://broadblogs.com/2013/08/05/men-dont-feel-sexy-and-it-sucks/

After u read those 2 articles, I want to ask :

How do u feel about the male body ?? Not sex with males, not "the cock; but the whole male body. Does it visually arouse/stimulate you ? Do/Would u enjoy playing with or even "worshiping" it ? What parts arouse you ? what do u like to grab/lick/kiss/squeeze ..etc ?

- If women are not as visual as men, not as "aggressive" or whatever, how come lesbian action has so much more passion & chemistry & mutual body lust ? .

In porn, which I know isn't real but it still shows sth, the b/g dynamics are different from g/g dynamics when it comes to foreplay and body lust. In straight porn the girl just lays there and that's it (not all ofc, but u get the picture). But in lesbian, wooow !

- Can a guy seduce a woman/girl not just by the idea of physical pleasure or "getting the dee", but by a manner that would make her crave him in the way I've described ? ( Like she'd go crazy and rip his shirt off and start sucking on his chest nipples or sth, lol ). Coz I never saw that and am really curious on how would that go XD.

- I kinda noticed in sexually open societies that there are a lot more bi girls than bi dudes. Or even straight girls who like to play and fool around (still dunno which one r u, lol). But y r sexually active girls more inclined to fool around and make out/ sleep with each other ? I mean guys are grossed out by each other, and if they're not, they're either gay or Bi (and again, bi girls are way more than bi guys..I think..) Is it because when a straight girl who's fooling with a girl , there's no emotions involved, but with a guy u need emotions involved ? Still y aren't girls grossed out by each other like guys lol. (I'm not judging really, I'm just curious).

This is an article relating to this point specifically, lol. I don't necessarily approve, I'm just curious :

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/ukn...ither-bisexual-or-gay-but-never-straight.html

- Guys love watching lesbians ( I prefer b/g but whatever). Girls love gays ? I know some girls do, but not as nearly the same ratio as guys with lesbians. So : gay porn for u , yay or nay ? And y is it it's not the same in ur opinion ?

- And Finally, regarding this aspect of body lust , which do u prefer : male or female? And be honest & don't tell me they're the same or like oranges and apples, coz then I'll ask u what do u like more : oranges or apples ?

I know each of u can only answer for urself not every woman on the planet so feel free to say how u feel personally.

P.S : all of these questions are non relevant to BDSM or power-play or who's dominating whom or if it's rough or soft..etc., as it is the manner that defines the roles, not the sexual acts themselves.

 

I like a good pair of shoulders and strong arms on any guy. As for the rest of the body, eh. I like my partners' bodies because they're my partners' bodies.

When I've had sex with men and when I've had sex with women, the best sex was always passionate and lustful. I've also had lackluster sex with both genders. I will say that women have had a better idea of what pleases me, and I have a better idea of what pleases them, and women are usually more interested in pleasing me, so yeah, we can really go for it. Also, women don't cum and say "Okay, I'm done" - we can just keep going as long as we want to.

I don't really know what you mean by that. Like, what, buying me dinner or something? If all the guy wants is sex, he has to give me a reason to want to have sex - and that has to be a physical reason if it's only going to be a physical interaction.

No idea. I'm bisexual - always have been. I can't wrap my mind around being monosexual in either direction.

Well, straight guys think women are hot, so two women = twice as hot. Women who aren't particularly visually oriented don't really like looking at naked guys all that much, and two naked guys, double "eh." Most women I know who do like porn like gay male porn the best, though. Women who like porn obviously are visually stimulated so that would be a reaction more like the straight guy/"lesbian" porn.

I really don't feel "body lust" except with people whose personalities I am already attracted to. But in terms of "that's more attractive" - women, hands-down. Or cross-dressing men. Mmmmph.

I like pomegranates better than apples or oranges.

Everything is relevant to BDSM for me! All of the above answers would be completely different if a person of one gender could handle a whip and the other couldn't...

 

Thx for answering ! Regarding the 3rd question : Yes, I do mean physical only. Like how a girl would seduce a guy with her boobs and eyes and make him wanna ravish her. I was wondering if that could be reversed but we don't have boobs and few girls would initiate and ravish so I can't quiet picture it,lol.

 

Hmm I was kinda hoping more people to interact with this :/

 

Not that anyone is interested, but ALL top 10 male performers of aebn this year are gay. Nobody likes straight guys.lol.

 

Sorry, but maybe you would get more people to interact if you didn't want us to read some articles and answer a shit load of questions. You're making it feel like it's homework. What do you think? We're not intellectuals. We're just everyday ordinary perverts. And proud of it.

 

Oh. Sorry u felt this way. The articles aren't even that long. And it's not like u have to answer all. I am certainly not an intellectual either,lol.

 

I love the male body and yes, it does visually arouse me. Of course, like with women, there are men bodies that look better than others, but in the end, when we're not talking about looking at pictures of models, if I like the guy, I get aroused by his body. My favorite parts to squeeze would be his buns and crotch. Favorite parts to lick, any he'd like. Favorite parts to kiss: lips, cock, balls, and nipples.

I don't know because I don't watch lesbian porn.

My man drives me crazy when he wears overalls.

I don't know, I don't like girls.

I love gay porn, with guys, not girls. Also trannies.

Male body.

 

Thank you christina! Your man is lucky to have you that's for sure! Overalls, huh? I'm guessing u're a country kinda girl then. I'm not judging, as long as u're both getting off then who cares XD. Cheers and thx for reply.

 

Yep, I'm a country kinda gal