As i got older and into the latter part of my teenage years i started fantasizing occasionally about sucking another guys dick, it wasnt any attraction to guys that turned me on but more the actual penis itself and the sexual acts that can be performed with it.

The way i see it is as just another sexual body part that just happens to be attached to guys, so if i want to experience a greater sexual awareness/pleasure of the penis as a sexual object i have to see a male (in most cases excluding transgendered) even though thats as far as the attraction goes with males.

I have always said ill try most things once as you never know what you will actually end up enjoying even after thinking it was a "no go". So finally one night it ended up happening and i tried sucking cock for my first time with a mate of mine. I enjoyed it and found the thought of this almost taboo act at the time to be quite arousing and fulfilling.

Since then i have sucked five more guys to orgasm and tried swallowing twice of those times, every meeting or act has purely been about the sexual act of sucking and a fetish for a cock. I have not felt any attraction to the other males but more have seen them as the supporting package for a nice cock and the sucking of it.

While i am not out as such yet, everyone thinks im straight 100% i feel more comfortable about my sexual attractions and desires i have and would probably say now im 80% Straight 20% Bisexual/gay. While i have enjoyed sucking cock in the past and am open to it happening again in the future I still more than that enjoy the company, looks, attraction and sexual acts/pleasure i can achieve with a female companion.

 

I am drawn back periodically to this thread and the reasons for the behaviors explored and stated here by many here both confuse me and intrigue me.
I can fully understand the reasons whereby an older sexually experienced man would seek perhaps an indulgence in male to male sex, but fail to see where in a younger man that this desire early on, would not make him more sexually oriented to a man that a woman. I think perhaps that at an early age if the sexual urges toward men are that great you may have already commited yourself to a life style that suits you.
There is nothing better for self fulfillment and satisfactuion than to discover who and what you are early on in life rather than later. Just realize how much you may miss if you do not. Don't belabor the issue but accept it!

 

LOVE TO TRY

I HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT AND AS I GET OLDER I THINK ABOUT IT MORE AND WHEN I SEE PIC SOME DO NOT LOOK GOOD BUT THEN I SEE ONE AND DAMM LOVE TO TRY THAT DEEP INSIDE I KNOW IT WILL BE GOOD HOPE SOMEDAY IT WILL HAPPEN JUST DO NOT KNOW HOW TO OR WHERE TO START NEVER THINK ABOUT HIM SUCKING ME JUST ME

 

Yeah I don't know man. I'm a guy who loves sex with both males and females but I can only connect emotionally with females.

 

I am married...30yrs..done it..I don't think or care about labels, gay or straight, one should keep ones mind open..NO HATE..pleasure and sexual release..Oh Yeah, now thats living

 

if you are a male that sucks cock and still likes women you are not straight you are bi or bi-curious

 

Never! You think about sucking cock you only think you are straight,get out of the closet.

 

AGree to disagree

I think we are getting close to a conclusion and let me start by saying that we have to agree to disagree before we can move past this. By accepting the opposing view point then we have grounds to reach commonality.
So here goes......
When I am sucking a guys cock I must be gay. When I am having sex with a woman I am enjoying the woman so I am straight then. If I do both equally that makes me bi. If I suck cock 60% of the time and have sex with women 40% I am 60% gay. I think you can see where I am going with this.

According to this 'theory' I would rate myself 20% gay and 80% straight.

How do people on both sides of the argument feel about this?

 

Either you suck it or you don't--Is there really a gray area??

If you thought you were straight ??-You should accept your choice. You have made it clear. Move on. Your self doubt is hurting you.

I am not slamming on Peoples choices.

 

I think about sucking cock and have had mine sucked before while wife and I had a mfm threesome, but I never have sucked one....

 

Agreed. The Kinsey 5 point sexuality scale is not enough.

Maybe we should even evaluate the sexual and emotional attraction separately.

 

It doesn't necasarily mean that your gay. A lot of people probably have thoughts about that stuff. Especially in the teenage years.

 

The gray area could be having the urge to suck cock hit you occasionally while still fantasizing about and having sex with women most of the time.

 

hhhhh ,funny title .. str8 & sucking cock .. thats da funniest thing i have ever heard ,sorry but u r not str8 ,u r curious ,bi ,or GAY

 

i love thinking about it, i really wish to try it

 

I think about sucking cock and I have been married for years to a great woman. Don"t care what lable that makes me, just know what I like. Would like a cock up my ass right now while I eat my wife's pussy.

 

I have no attraction to men. None what so ever. I have never looked at a man and felt that I want to have sex with him. Not so with women. I look at women and picture them naked get all happy in my pants. Desire them, love the way the look, how they feel, how they move. A guy has never made me feel this way.

But I do enjoy giving an occassional blowjob and enjoy getting one from a guy. I have a small circle of married friends with whom I engage in these activites. One of them even has his wife participate.

The label gay, to me is more about the motives than the actions. If there is a sexual attraction, then you are gay. Me, I am more of a try-sexual as I will try anything.

 

If you think about it, fine, you're just curious, If you do it and enjoyed it, or want to do it again, guess what. YOU'RE BI!!!!!!!!!!

stupidest question ever.. Receiving one from another guy doesn't necessarily make you bi, but the one giving it to you is..

 

I do, actually. Makes things a chore to read when everything is misspelled and the punctuation is atrocious.