It's so much fun being able to share with the wife

 

Setting up an alter ego on a porn board because you are dissatisfied with your home life is like drinking from a poison well because you are thirsty. It might not kill you, but there are worse things than being thirsty.

Doing something you believe you must keep secret from your significant other is cheating. A porn board may be 1 on a scale of 10, but it's the scale.

I've been through all of this and I survived. I tried cheating(the 10 on a scale of 10 kind) and it was great. The sex was great, I felt like the stud of the universe. I was amazed to discover how many married women were ready to fuck me. They were just as unhappy as me. There was a risk of getting caught, but I felt it was well worth it all.

I did love my wife, but I was miserable(for reasons we don't have space or time to discuss) with her. The cheating made it bearable. Of course, it all came crashing down. One day my wife got an anonymous phone call and all my lies became transparent. After much anguish, we decided to try again, this time with total honesty. Since I could not lie any more, when she did or said something crazy, I had to tell her it was crazy.

It was the strangest thing. She discovered she did not like me. She did like the lying cheating husband who said what she wanted to hear, but she didn't like the honest husband who told her the truth. The marriage did not last long after that. It was tough and finances were a bitch, but it was worth every penny.

The moral of the story is simple. A relationship is two people. You can't fix a broken relationship by yourself. Cheating, in its various degrees is just a pain killer, but it doesn't heal the wound.

 

In short, no and no

 

I'm too known and obvious in my life to keep secrets, the wife use to visit and even had her own page till too many men who had no idea of tact bombarded her with vulgarity and cock shots! She still reads occasionally, but I'm the main feature on our page.

 

Hubby turned me onto XNXX. Of course I can be myself- after ten years it is no longer possible for me to shock him.

 

Mine has no Idea about this world. Wholebunch other issues but sex isn't that plentiful in our house. She would never understand thia world.

 

I'm not in an exclusive relationship but I have tried to share this forum with someone very close to me (lovable bitch has her own keys etc.) and her reaction has gone from not understanding why I'm here to not caring at all. I've also praised this forum and explained some of the positive benefits for me personally to several friends, though as time goes on, I'd kind of prefer it if I didn't bump into them here. I already struggle with full disclosure (in the interest of others) and don't want to upset anyone I know.

However, in regard to people here 'secretly', I'm not entirely sure if the possible benefits (of those genuinely in need or confused) don't outweigh the fact that its cheating. Difficult one for me.

 

My b/f doesn't kno this side of me

 

My wife is sitting in the same room, she knows I visit XNXX among other sites. She knows I read and sometimes contribute to the forum, even discuss some of them with her. Of coarse She will watch a porn movie with me here. No problems.

 

She never told me and I never knew, until years later . When she blurted it out when she was very drunk, that she was blowing and fucking this guy a few months after we got married. So I have no reason to share what I say or do on here. Everyone fucks up and makes mistakes in their life. I'm glad it was years later when I found out. To many years of good times and memories to throw a way for one time of poor judgment and one mistake. I wasn't a priest by no means. Then again, I kinda was.

 

My wife doesn't know. She's naive when it comes to men, porn, and their sexual fantasies.

 

My wife knows that I come on here, though I'm much less active on here than I used to be. She's logged in to my profile, read my messages, seen the now defunct threads of our pictures.

We've been married 10 years. We've been through a lot of good and our share of bad. I decided some time ago that what I do, especially on here, is so minor and really harmless that there's no point in hiding it. She has done enough that is truly detrimental to our marriage that this means nothing. Hell, most of the times she's come on here and read my profile and posts, she gets all horny and we have a quality fuck for once.

 

What are we talking about here - XNXX or NXNN ?
I searched for the latter and got another porn site - so which are you referring to?

 

My wife knows I visit this site. She sometimes likes to read over my shoulder. She often says I one sick individual, then smiles and says don't ever change!!

 

Yes I can. I one of the few fortunate ones

 

Well, I am major lonely that is why I am here & if I had someone they wouldn't know about xnxx...

 

You are not the only one. When my wife found out of my bisexual past, she nearly went postal. She is a good catholic girl. She wont do anywhere near what I want to do. Thats why Im here.

 

My man and I started his account two years ago and I just created my own earlier this year. We are very open with each other when I comes to sex. I think we both agree that we are finally happy having someone to be with that doesn't judge us on our fantasies, pleasures, and our openness to the sex world. We always share our activities from the forum with each other.

 

Yes, my whore wife and I share everything, on here, in txt, in our kinky minds, everything. We are both greatfull that we can be ourselves, not having to worrie what the other will think of ones self, when some thing is said or done. They will love you no less, no matter what it is. Most times the love is stronger afterwards.

 

No, I don't like fisting guys while wearing a shoulder length, industrial strength, black rubber glove, dipped in tar then in sand while they wear a pink TuTu...

In any case, my Husband has not only encouraged me yet pressured me to constantly maintain some significant form of an online sexual outlet. Now that may sound as though it is some twisted plan to try and force me to be constantly horny, or that he gets off on it yet both assumptions would be incredibly wrong.

He realizes that my offline activities with no other outlet amp up to a point that I literally burn myself out which I already walk the razor's edge with anyway. He also understands that non-sexual venues I reflexively will rather quickly turn to sexual which can cause obvious problems in many regards in that folks naturally don't take things for what they are, yet could be.....In kind when faced with a sexual venue I will actually settle down feeling comfortable and in "my" environment, so I'll not push or lead the issue where it is not appropriate.

Finally, he trusts me implicitly. He likes hearing about what I'm discussing and doing, yet does not require that I issue him daily blow by blows. It is due to that trust that I'd never betray it in that keeping it is paramount to me.....So in contrast to many relationships which seem to run like some toilet based whirlpool ever spiraling down, ours just gets stronger and better winding its way up.

He knows me, understands me, and unlike many folks, I don't find that threatening in that he does so to make my life better, not control it.

Hush....an alias