i have always had a desire have a threesome and have being hinting at it to my girlfriend for some time. Recently we had a small encounter with another friend, which i greatly enjoyed and i am sure she did. but she seems kind of apprehensive to try it again partly because what her friends will think and the fact that she doesnt want anyone to know.
How can i ease her feelings on the subject as i have had a few other offers from girls, and would and sure we would both have tons of fun

 

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Use this forum to find someone out of state and make it a weekend away. that way there is a little adventure as well as the security of knowing her secert is safe .... make sure you post the pics!

 

Try some Penthouse Forum or Penthouse Letters magazines. Let her read some of the swinging, swapping, and threesome stories and see how she reacts to them. Incorporate some fantasy/role play into sex and see how that goes. Let her make the recommendation. If she's interested, she'll bring it up.

 

The threesome-thing is a delicate subject in a good relationship. There is always the dnager of someone getting jealous. And believe me, the jealousy comes mostly from the girl.
If you're going to have threesomes it is best to encounter with three non-emotionally attached persons.

A threesome can be a wonderful experience but all three have to be fully into it.

good luck
xoxo

 

Some couples actually enjoy threesomes and foursomes. It was my wife who suggested we bring another woman into out bedroom. 7 years later, we are still happily married and our sex life is fantastic! While it's not for everyone, for those who are secure in themselves and their sexuality, it does not cause problems.

 

Why don't you try asking for a threesome with another male and see what happens. If you're not too insecure.

 

The idea of a threesome has never seemed to appealing to me. I've always gone with the idea that I'm not going to ask my girlfriend to do something I wouldn't want to do. There's not a chance in hell I'd ever let another guy or girl into bed with my girlfriend.

 

When we were younger, my wife finally met my best friend. I told her that she would be attracted to him, and she ssaid "yea whatever." Well when she finally met him, we went to the movies and within an hour she had her hand down his pants grabbing his giant cock. Then as we were driving back to his house, she unzipped his pants and started so suck on that big cock, I got so turned on. I pulled her pants down and started goin down on her, and you talk about hot!!! We didn't make it back to his house. We stopped at a Days Inn and got crazy. We got into the room and she and I were doin the 69 and he stuck it to her from behind. I don't think I've ever been so turned on watching her get it from that big meat. When he got his, it was my turn and I'm pumping away and she's almost there, and my buddy rams his cock back into her mouth and by this time he's hard again, then he finally unloaded in her mouth. If you wanna hear more, let me know.

 

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Threesome's were never pushed by me.. On one occasion my wife had a girlfriend over for some drinks, and they decided that they wanted to play around, mostly for me to make of a video of them making love, for her girlfrind was moving away. I was involved quite a lot, but did not want to take on her friend. Being faithful, as I saw it.. I still watch the video, good sound for they were very vocal ladys.. never happened again, with them..

 

I've experianced the 3some with both male and female and all that is nessasary to open to the full enjoyment of the experiance is COMMUNICATION.... talk it out with your partner..you must both see and agree that it is nothing but pure sexual in nature... No feelings of commitment or Love...LOVE & SEX are separated and if you both can do that..WOW Fireworks will commence. All the emotional baggage is left behind and you open a whole new world of excitement. One Iota of jealosy by either partner will end the growing experiance... I lived with 2 females for 6 months and we all knew the perameters of our relationship, and We learned more about sexual pleasures then we had in 30 years prior. Now we use that knowledge to teach others.

 

From my own personal experience, I have to say that jealosy is inevitable, both mine and that of others involved. And anyone who values faithfulness in a relationship is a fool if they deliberately walk into a situation tailor made to destroy faithfulness.

 

Wow. I just don't think I'd be able to handle all that.

 

The wife and I has had a 3 some a couple of times, and a 4 some once. we are still ok! we have been married for 25 yrs, and still going strong! You
Just have to let her make the suggestion, trust me!
Doc.

 

My $.02: It's frought with peril. Someone is bound to get jealous, or feel slighted. At least if you're in a relationship with someone you really care about. If your single and unattached, what the hell, go for it.

And I agree, the proof of the pudding is if a guy agrees to another guy.

 

My wife and her best friend started playing around in front of me and her boyfriend and it use to really turn me on. I would never get invovled because of her bf.A little while later my wife and her friend got stuck away for the evening and we had to get a hotel room. We were all sober and tired, didn't think to much about it. My wife got out of the shower and got in bed with me and I turned the lights off. The next thing I know her friend was getting in bed with us. All I can tell you is don't knock it till you try it. It was simply awesome and we would all do it again in a heartbeat if the oppurtunity was there.

 

3some withffm is good,one chick can simultaneouly engage both, infact even more-there are pics of engaging even four,five-oral,two hands,double penetration. It depends on choices you choose

 

This is one of my fav fantasies for me and my wife!! But it'll never actually happen because she's insecure about her appearance.

That being said, the bottom line is it has to be a mutual decision. It requires a lot of thought by both partners and no one can be coerced into it or there WILL be jealousy and problems afterwards!!

Just my 3 cents worth ........

 

Just don't do it with someone she knows.