I am not a model, I am not super thin, but I love to suck dick and swallow.

I am curious to know, would you rather date a not so nice looking women who loves to suck dick and swallow, or would you rather date a super model who hates to suck dick

 

I have a friend widowed with 6 grown kids (old men and women) who has never sucked and says she never will. I wont have sex with her for that reason.She will sleep with me and cuddle, wants to marry me, but no thanks.

She lete me eat her pussy for 3 hours once, and foran hour 12 years later, and now wont even admit that it ever happened.

Too bad she's so inhibited. Oh yes, anal is out too.

 

Sorry, but I can't see the relevance of this question!!

...and Mandy, I think the best thing you could do would be to divorce your husband for mental cruelty, take all his money and go find a man who will love and cherish you for yourself! :x

 

I couldn't go without a blow job for too long. I start to fixate on it. Take my last state-side ex-girlfriend. She would give me little perfunctory blow-jobs, but never all the way and swallowing was out of the question. She was willing, just not able. But even that wasn't good enough. I started to fantasize about a good blow-job constantly. Still haven't gotten a good one, really.



Maybe one day.

-S-

 

I'm not a fan of recieving BJ's, they just seem over rated to me. Nothing special,heh.

 

Mandy, you don't need to look like a model or be super thin to receive respect or someone to love you. To have someone use you for his own satisfaction on a daily basis with no thoughts of getting you off, that's very disrespectful. I 100% agree with Chunky.

 

Humf! I resent that!! :shock:

 

I apologize attacking you earlier. I mean it.

I have a question, though. Actually, my question is your own:

Would you rather have an ugly guy who loves to please you or a super hot guy who isn't interested in pleasing you?

 

Well, that is a good point.

Unfortunately I have found that hot guys not only do they not care about pleasing the women they are with, they are also assholes... I hope this doesnt offent anyone but I have had the most fucked up luck when I have come anywhere near any hot guy.

Also, I have yet in my 39 years to orgasm from being penetrated the usual ways or receiving oral sex from a guy.

 

i love to suck cock or eat pussy if my partner won't i don't need them

 

See, that's strange and sad to me. I honestly hope you find some gratification. I understand that you're happy in your situation, but I hope you find growth and fulfillment within it.

Sorry to sound like a psychologist. What brought you here, to this site? You are interested in sex, yet you have lived a relatively unfulfilling sex life (I aplogize if I'm making crass assumptions).


It seems to me that you are a sensitive person, willing to give selflessly. But you seem to have put yourself in this interesting position. You have created an image of yourself, undesireable physically (I'm going to assume that you are actually beautiful and have low self-esteem; I refuse to believe that there is nobody who thinks of you as beautiful) but sexually available, mostly in order to compensate for your percieved unattractiveness. And yet you hold physical attractiveness so high that you are willing to essentially become a slave in order to gain and keep a man who you describe as quite attractive yet unavailable sexually to you (in at least one respect - your desires are secondary always to his).

You have, in effect, striven to hold something that you cannot become yourself, and have created in yourself the opposite of your own desire. How strange.


May I ask you another question? If you woke up one morning to find yourself beautiful and thin, would you continue sexually submitting yourself, or would you feel more entitled sexually as a result of your attractiveness?

 

Hey Leila, I heard you give the greatest bj's.

 

Caffeine, you have raised some very valid and interesting points there, and I think there is a lot of value in the words.

Mandy... I agree with Caffeine on this and I think he's actually said what half of me was thinking and what the other half had yet to realise. 39 years years is a long time... it's time you got sexually fulfilled.
Having perfect beauty, weight, looks, height etc isn't the ultimate important... have a personality at all and a kind or good nature within is more important.
To answer your question, though in an altered way, I would rather have someone who wants to pleasure me who can pleasure me regardless of looks on either party and does not run away scared when he sees me in the morning or when i look like a mess or a wreck, and would want me to be with him.

 

Wow, good news travels fast! 8)

 

I meant recently babe. Sorry, didn't mean to impune your honor. :wink:

-S-

 

Damn skippy. 8)

 

I agree. It's not that I don't like them, I just don't rate them. Maybe I've just never been with anyone who was any good at it, but I don't miss them when I'm fucking my hot wife. I'll go with option 2.

 

Well, I'd rather suck a pussy than have my dick sucked
meaning blow jobs aren't #1 on my list.

I'm just going to simplify the question:

A) Would I rather be with woman who's a perfect 10 at looks(face & body), but very limiting sexually.
OR
B) Would I rather be with a woman, say 5 or 6, who's really fun & wild in bed...or balcony.(ha)

I'd take "B".
Because "A" becomes a tease and frustrating
Personality goes a long way.

 

Same

 

bjs

i would rather have a ordinary woman who just has to have a cock in her mouth constantly and really gets off on it..than a woman who thinks its gross or too much of a chore anyday