Well, unfortunately that never seems to work with guys. Apparently we have to be aggressive and confident and we have to initiate conversations and make all the moves and say all the right things, and "sweep the women off their feet." Unfortunately, I'm pretty bad at all that. :|

 

So's my boyfriend...
Maybe you're not going to the right places to meet someone?
What are your interests?
Shy guys can be alluring too.

 

Ah, you see, that's part of the problem. I'm a book addict, but unfortunately the only people you can meet in bookstores and libraries are old ladies. I'm quite surprised at how few young ladies my age read. Of course, living in a small town/farming community doesn't help...

 

Psch, I love to read, I've got 2 on the go atm, Porno by Irvine Welsh for at home and Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov for at work.
Maybe you should go to a large chain type bookstore and if you see a girl you like the look of comment on whatever she's reading or looking at (the important part is actually knowing about the book, if you say you've read it, or at least acting like you're interested if you ask her about the book she has)
I'm so corny

 

I was 21 when i lost mind virginity, it was excellant time and so worth the wait

 

I was 14 and she was same, loved it and havent looked back since lol shame she got into bother for it as we were on her mums bed and didnt notice the blood on sheets as we pulled covers over, must admit though it was better after 1st time as neither of us was as nervous

 

I was also 14, couldn't have been better. He was a sweet heart and took care of me

 

We were both 16, both virgins. Back seat of my car. We had been dating for like six months (first gf) and one day she just randomly tells me she wants to fuck. Hey i wans't gunna say no. So we went for a drive one day and did it. Over all it was pretty good. We both got off lol :excited:

 

Age 7 or 8. A friend, her older brother, her brothers best friend and the two other guys girl friends. It was a summer of fucking, sucking and anal sex. Anyone interested, I'm always willing to tell the story.

 

1. I feel ready I have the ups and downs of ready but thats just nervous I want to get the birth control in to make sure it not just the fear of pregnancy and never really having sex not that I'm scared to death of pain. ( i have a vib. pain should not be a problem)

NOTE: going to college in 2 different is not a lame reason it physically impossible to have sex and our break are different so we don't get much time with me working and school

2. its been difficult to get birth control because I want to get an IUD and when i tried the first time my Gyno was not cover by this insurance to do IUD he said he would ask another doc. that could, they would have to order the IUD and then they would call me. its been over 3 months and i have no more insurance. before I have my regular doctor I got a pap but no birth control. Now with no insurance except dental I plan to go to planned parent hood and hopefully THEN i would get it.

3. any more question please PM me i be happy to give you more information

 

Sweetie, it's 75 cents in the bathroom at the gas station. BTW - he's fucking around on you.

 

What are you talking about? I have dated several girls I met in a library. I have even had some pleasant dates to the library. You can meet people anywhere. I am not very shy but I am anti-social. Going out and meeting people, even friends, is very awkward at times.

A fix was to add public places to my weekly routine. You wouldn't be a virgin if pretty girls were hanging out in your living room. Enjoying a glass of tea in Starbucks. Visiting the library to "read." Go to church. Join a class to seem more interesting. Do anything anywhere that has new people showing up and doesn't make you seem not normal in any way. You would be more comfortable at a quiet library or bookstore than you would be at a noisy nightclub. Be friendly not hasty. The reason you make these places routine is to give your potential date a chance bump into you again.

 

I've tried to convey this same advice to people on many previous occasions...but you said it better than I did. I knew a guy once who claimed that the number one absolutely foolproof way to meet girls willing to have sex with him was to join a church choir.

 

The first time I nearly lost it, I was 16. I'd just flunked out of an Air Force apprenticeship, and was doing volunteer work at a church-run community cafe, when an older girl (about 21, I think) started there. I had the MAJOR hots for her. Nothing happened with her, but she tried setting me up with a friend of hers at the Catholic girls' youth hostel she was living at. That didn't work out either, but I kept visiting the hostel, as I'd made a couple of friends there.
Another girl there took a liking to me — to this day I've no idea why, as she supposedly had a boyfriend and she was a hottie. She was always doing stuff like playing footsie with me when there was a group of us sitting around the courtyard table, or sitting in my lap and grinding her arse against my crotch.
I didn't know how to react, so I didn't. Not even when she found out I was a virgin and stated her intentions by putting her hand down my pants, one night in the TV room when we were alone together.
The next night she went completely cold on me, and went as far as suggesting that I get with one of her friends. I wanted her, but I guess I was more scared to do anything than I realised.
Anyhow, she left the hostel not long after that. I fucking bawled my eyes out that night.
I saw her again a few months after that. She was in the backseat of a car, and put up a sunshade as soon as she saw me.

 

I like to joke around about being a virgin and tell them how tiny my wee wee is. It has been successful for me. I figured it gets them laughing and makes them wonder about my sexual side. Bonus is I don't have to worry about penis-to-small syndrome when they are expecting 2 inches and find a little (not so little) more.

Give me your input? (Everyone not just Kimiko.) A confident man is flirting with you then casually admits, in a humorous way, that he has a small penis and is a virgin. How would you respond? Keep in mind this is done in a flirtatious manner, calm and confident and usually out of the blue (while staying appropriate.)

 

14 with a girl that was 2osomething... near a tennis court on a beach really bad sex ˇ;_ˇ

 

I would imagine it would be better off to say you are smaller than you are and have the girl be surprised, rather than say you are huge and have them be disappointed.

Though, some could make the argument that flaunting about a big cock might get you laid more often.

 

You are the living proof that the U.S. need a new health insurance. Obama is right, the republican bigots are wrong.

In Germany your cherry would already be history...

 

It was a month before I turned 13 however next time was at 15.

I had found dad's nudist mags (Jaybird) and had been humping pillows and a guy friend had showed me how to jack off so I was active with orgasms.

On vacation with parents at a lake resort there was also a High School Senior Class on a graduation outing there. There was a girl there that looking back I guess was the school slut. The older guys let me hang out with them and they all joked and laughed about fucking her. I acted like I knew what they were talking about and learned a lot. When she came around they keep telling her she ought to break me in but she just laughed.

there was a small store less than a mile from there that had food, fishing gear and a magazine rack that had the old men's mags. I loved to read and turn pages looking at the nude women and me with a hard on. Damn. there she is beside me looking over my shoulder and she asked do you want the real thing? I nodded yes and she said come to her room in an hour.

Wow I could not believe it she was in a bathing suit and she kissed me with her tongue in my mouth (new) took off her suit and let me play with her tits.
I was scared as shit but in heaven. She jumped in bed I took off my jeans and hopped in. I spent about 30 mins learning and came in her pussy. She was real nice and I will never forget it. I never talked about it for years and always acted like I didn't know much. I sure got a lot of sex in my younger years acting dumb.

 

First time with a male:

I was 15, he was 17 (almost 18.), knew one another from school. Talked on MSN one night, he asked me to come over - met up, walked to his place. Went into his room, watched a bit of TV and talked. One thing led to another, we had sex... it lasted all of 5min. (I did leave some stuff out.. but, you don't need to know it xD)

First time with a Female:

We were both 17, she was my girlfriend (Whom then became my fiance two years later). We had made out a lot, almost constantly every time we saw one another. (Our first kiss was outside, in the pouring rain in the middle of a soccer field, the first day we met.) As well as some fondling and petting on top of the clothes. She had skipped school and came over to my house for the day. We went into my bedroom, laid on the bed and started to make out... I pleasured her first, and as she was about to do the same for me, my parents came home. After that, we had three years of amazing sex. From just plain fucking, quickies to sensual love making. Though, we are no longer together. (Once we were at it for around 6 hours.. THAT was a fun night!).