I'm curious actually.. Please share your reason

 

I don't have any reason to dislike you.
You have been kind to me the intermittent times we have crossed paths.

 

Here is some honest advice in that I am truly indifferent to just about everyone on this forum.

Relax... Quit trying so hard to be the person you want to be, to impress others, to be gravitated toward and have some aspect of your choices be the center of their world. Life doles us all out some plusses and some minuses. Many here after I have related some aspect of my life, have tried to state how this or that I was, to have endured and to have overcome and moved on, yet I tell them all the same thing.

My "worst thing" is no different, greater or less than anyone else's "worse thing." Some may say that mine is so much more/less, yet truth be told, to each of us they are our-own "worst thing." In other words, internally, no one person suffers any more than any other. The question is however, how do we cope with and face that?

You really only have three options or a combination thereof, no one person some two-dimensional cartoon entity/avatar. The first is that we let our misery and suffering define us, electing to wallow in it and make it the center of our world. Obviously that simply leads to a life wasted upon something that cannot be changed be it in the past or a situation that will not change (ex. me finally able to grow a dick which I have wanted for decades).

The second option is to simply set it down and walk away from it. That works, to a point, for some perhaps their entire lives, yet then you're always having to avoid that issue fearing you'll encounter it having never dealt with the issue and come to grips with it. Only once you have, simply facing it and resolving yourself to the outcome which you cannot change accepting it can you truly move on unhindered.

The last option is to bury yourself in positive works. That's good, it works and basically turns lemons into lemonade... yet the trouble is you never resolved your issues and more so, your efforts and good works are tainted in that they are not sincere. Truly good things have an underlying stench of overcompensation as though somehow they'll erase or bury your other issues.

The truth of the matter is, you need to do all three, in moderation, yet in the end let it all go, relax, and just live. No one solution is the answer. Little appropriate bits of all three is. At that point, accepting who you are, what you cannot change and what you can, then focusing upon living, not avoiding the issue is the only true way that you'll find peace...

And finally begin to TRULY live YOUR life. Up until you do, you are simply wasting it. Wasting it as much as if you stepped out in front of a train. Those seconds which become minutes, then hours and ultimately years, you will never get back. Ever. Believe me, any pain and hurt you may now feel is NOTHING compared to the realization and regret of a life wasted.

So quit trying so hard. Face your issues as you can, and instead of focusing upon what hurt, or what wasn't, or what you can never have... Live the life you have to its fullest, and make "it" better. Don't make some other life which is not yours the best it can be, make your life that way.

I think you'll find that once you accept you, and once you quit trying to force you upon others, life might just become all you ever dreamed it could be.

Hush....an alias

 

Your narcissism.

You always create duplicate threads.

 

You are a small black boy trying to be a large hero girl. That's fucked up. That's why.

Be just vat you is and vat you is not. Folks dat do dis is da happiest lot.

 

How could I dislike someone I don't know?

 

I don't have a reason. I have always liked the way you can put burrs under the saddles of Trump supporters and homophobes. You have a real knack for doing that and I always get a kick out of their reactions.

 

Go on...

 

From what I have gathered so far it is because people dislike anyone that Distantlover likes.