It really depends on the person giving it and the situation I guess. I've had some good head from both men and women. Also had some not so good from both as well.

 

based on my experience

i've been told by most men i've sucked off that i do it better than any woman they've ever had - i think a guy who sucks not only knows the plumbing and how it works better but really wants 2 suck a cock so he puts more into it and enjoys it more - not sure women really get the same enjoyment from sucking cock as a cocksucking male does

 

Speak for yourself.

 

I think Kimiko can truly make a man see spots with her technique.

 

in my experience most men enjoy giving a blowjob more than women, in sex in general I prefer women but men know exactly what to do with a cock in their mouth even if is their first time!!!

 

IF women fail to please your cock, then you're not slapping them around enough!

But seriously, women can be trained; they can learn to be better receptacles for your cum.

Have you ever tried to teach them? Or do you always give up so easily?

 

I guess it is a mix. I have had really good blow jobs from woman and really good ones from men. And really bad ones from both. I do have to say that my X wife gave damn good head. But, on the other hand I had a gay friend that was some what better than her.

Growing up in a college town I was fortunate enough to get them from both. Nothing like a drunk college girl. The guy's didn't have to be drunk, you did.

You can also teach someone how to give a great blow job. Just let them know what you want. To many men just lay back and expect the sucker to know what they like or dislike. Nothing like a bit of coaching. One doesn't wake up and know how to play ball without a coach.

 

Well after all is said and done on this thread, it just comes down to any BJ you get is wonderful, if they know what their doing and take your load down its great, if they come back for more its fantastic!!!!

 

So true.

 

Also, the cock sucker needs to like the cock they are sucking on and who it is attached to. If is not what they really want they most likely won't do a good job.

I am unable to suck on a cock the is less then 7" and thick. Unless it is very thick, hairy and uncut. I want to feel the cock in my mouth and down my throat.

 

I too have been told that but, these are men that rarely or never get a blow job. Or they are married and the Mrs. only does it half heartedly.

The true test is to have a man that gets a good cock sucking more than your average man. One that seeks out a good cock sucker.

 

I've been blown by men, women and trans. Maybe you'll find my answer too politically correct, but in my opinion is not a matter of gender. It's more about practise and attention to details.
E.g. one of the prostitutes I often go to is really terrible at blowjobs. She for sure practise a lot, but is - it goes without saying - not interested in the act.
Another escort, on the contrary, gave me the best bj I ever got.

Summarizing I'd say that men maybe know better what feels right, but, if the woman is into it, the sensation is the same.

That said, it is also about the state of mind of both partecipants...

 

I would enjoy sucking on your cock.

 

Thx. Likewise!

 

The thing is, if you're a heterosexual man, I don't think you're going to be turned on by the idea of a blowjob administered by another man, no matter what might "feel right". Similarly, would a gay man get turned on by the idea of a blowjob from a girl? Probably not. My point is, this isn't really just about the physical sensation...it's about what floats your boat sexually, which is mostly something going on inside your brain, not your penis.

Now, if your bisexual, you have the luxury of being objective about the matter...

 

LOL Most gay men say that. They think they have a patent on sucking cock.

 

Point taken. It was implicit in my statement that one must like being blown from both sexes. And, in fact, I added that line about the "state of mind". Of course someone straight would not be in the "right state of mind" to enjoy a bj from a man. And viceversa.

That said, let me add that i'm a firm believer that body wins over mind. I explain: if someone is really good at what it does to your body (sexually) there is no way you can force your body not to react. Or, at least, I never met someone really able to...

 

I understand. In fact, that's the theme of a gazillion sex stories...the ones in which the body betrays the "victim" and he or she responds to sexual stimulus despite the person's initial resistance.

So if that's true, I could torment a gay guy by holding him captive and sucking his cock, or even fucking him, and he'd be powerless to resist, no matter how disgusted he was by the thought of a girl doing it.

 

Not true. The body doesn't always win over the mind. It's the mind that controls the sex drive not the body. I am not in any way attracted to heavy set men. I do not get hard looking at them, I find nothing attractive about them. I have only let two heavy set men suck my cock. It never got hard. Not even semi hard.

It was the same with woman. No attraction to a heavy set woman at all. I am not your typical man. I don't think with the little head. My brain is what tells my cock to get hard. not my cock.

Also with woman, if I am sober nothing will work. If I smoke a little weed then I am ok if she is attractive to me. And what is attractive to me may not be attractive to others. And vise versa with men.

 

This is interesting topic but not one I ever thought I'd ever see discussed.

I've had blowjobs from males and females. I am not one to turn away a bj, whether it was a male or female offering.

I have to agree, gender offers me no benefit in receiving a good blowjob. I've gotten really bad one's from both males and females.

Experience was the winning factor in my escapades. If the person giving it had gotten a lot of coaching and blowjobs with other partners, then they were more likely to give a better bj.

The worst were newbies, lacking a LOT of experience and the worst one who had bragged about how many bj's she'd given to her previous partners - she lacked technique and endurance, on top of all else. Her idea of a bj was just having a penis pushed in and out of her mouth, with no further action from me. And to me, she was worse than the newbie who almost bit mine off rubbing her teeth on me, but made up for it in many times later.