I still think some of you have misconceptions still about your own sexualities. First off I'm gonna open up and say that I am perfectly comfortable with my sexuality. It's so far passed seeing sex as a gender thing that in my head, I've transcended the need to label my gender as we're all part of one species. Gender only matters when the role of conception comes into play. Long story on why I see things that way which I won't get into but lets just say metaphysical teachings and meditation can lead to better self awareness. Anyway as Brad here has shared, I too had a similar medical experience that really did not feel good. I had found the feeling incredibly intense, the uncontrollable loss of semen and the removal afterword. When a woman had done it to me a few years later, that feeling was still just too intense for me and I knew it was just something I couldn't handle. Now I completely understand why some women get mad when some of us sneak in there without asking because I'm sure it feel waaaaay different than vaginal penetration. That said I don't mind a tongue or two down there and I'll reciprocate the favor and go the extra mile if you want me to. But I respect your boundaries and hope you respect mine. Otherwise karma is a bitch.

So does that make me afraid of being labeled as gay or has it ever? No because fortunately for me I have and always will look past the social stipulations and stigmatism's people associate with life because your sexual behavior is and shouldn't be an extension of your overall personality. And in the end I don't really care what anyone thinks of me because I know who I am and what I like. And unless your someone who matters to me, I'm not gonna change a damn thing to conform to your opinion.

So I think that some of you still aren't open to your true inner sexuality and embrace and love yourself for who you are. Because only then you can truly recognize the inner beauty in someone and truly love and accept others.

 

I think ass play is great if done right..ur doing it with a female its not gay at all

 

if ass play makes you gay, what about getting your cok sucked?
most gays love to suck cok...
So if you like getting you cok sucked you must be gay <rolleyes>

 

OMG LMAO

 

Open minded; closed Ass

Calling it 'gay' sounds too close to a slur. I was guilty of using in high school until some of the sexiest women pointed out "What do you think it's like to come to school each day and be faced with words like that? They said:

1. You can't tell that they're homosexual because of their style of talking/walking.

2. Some that you all think ARE gay really are - yet they can also kick most of your asses.

3. I dated a woman who wasn't involved with a man for over six years. We were on a public bus one day. She asked "How many lesbians are on this bus now? I looked around and said 'None.' She said: "Five. Six including me."

All that said, I met a very sexy woman who was a licker. She licked EVERYTHING. Unusual yet sexy, cool, conventional fucking followed. Met another woman who tried to stick a finger up there.

No Bueno = No Good. Never tried it before yet that feeling ain't my kind of party! Not judging the act; AM letting her know what I like. No going IN through My out door.

If she's that hungry for it or many other sexual variations rest assured there are folks out there hungry for it! Have the courage to learn then ask for what you want. I think it's VERY Healthy to discuss these matters though because many are involved with secretly bisexual partners.

Ever heard of the book 'Down Low Brothers'? Thought it was a lie; turns out it's true.

 

I dont want my ass played with but if a girl wants to then FUCK it. Dive right in

 

Exactly

 

I think it is a few things first it is the fear of a guy looking or feeling gay. Second men especially aren't taught to explore their bodies other than focusing on their penis. 3rdly I think people are taught that there anal region is dirty.

 

It's not something I'd just go out and look for but if it was a major turn on for my wife to play around back there with a finger or two, I'll let her because that's her thing and I live pleasing her. I'd draw the line at her wanting to stick a giant dildo up there. I'm a man and I do the fucking. Not the other way around. Lol

 

That was put very well! And like talkisgood said if it's with a chick I would be comfortable. Minus that pegging shit.

 

I never considered it until an ex gf of mine started playing with my ass. I figured I was open minded and wasn't afraid it woul make me gay, and I'll be damned it felt great. Even that crazy pegging stuff can be a huge turnon when done right

 

Love an open minded guy. So hot

 

I agree. So many times here and on sex chat sites, men have ask me if I like anal sex. I usually set them up for a reciprocating question by say yes and asking if they like anal. Their reply is always oh yes they love it. Then I ask if they prefer their sex partner use a dildo or a strap on on them. Of course you know the answer, they are repulsed by my remark and would never think of letting their sex partner do anal on them.

 

ha! That's awesome...

 

bwahahahahaha
love it

 

Hi there finding..... I am a bloke who loves the I love a woman playing with my ass.... as part of play with a lady I once dated I got herto play and finger my ass first then got her to use her vibrator in my ass and loved every moment of it..... now I know it says on my profile I am bi but this was before I experimented with the bi thing..... as for you having someone to play with who likes their ass played with I would like to join the queue for that position lol

 

I haven't done anal play in a good while I like it but I feel like I need a bigger dildo

 

I was always open the idea in my head I just was not sure what my wife would think, I knew she was kinda in to watching it in pron with where the girl is dildoing or using a strap on with a guy, but I thought she would some how think different of me. Long story short I would say really reasure him that every thing will be fine and that your not going to think any less of him. After my wife reassured me i was like "come on play with my ass, use your toys on me" I was kinda using them on my self any ways for a few years any how. I can understand why guys say they are not in to it, but I do believe most guys that say that really are, and why not it feels great!

 

I love ass play myself Hon