It is passive receptive and feminine (vagina) not of the male bull dominator (penitrator penis);
And so there would be a clash with the order of nature for him, and also in her eyes (which would subtract from the natural orgasms capablity) as someone she can look up to.

Perhaps she has asked the question the wrong way around:
It is not why ass play is taboo to heterosexual men but rather
why are those who like male ass play not as heterosexual as the other men?

I think that question answers itself?

 

You're hooking up with the wrong guys! I personally LOVE it. Makes me feel so.good, and forcing a lady to lick my ass is the ultimate power and control booster

 

For those who refuse to try. Idk, maybe because they've labeled themselves as "straight men" and conform themselves to what they consider acceptable society norms. If they try it and don't like it, so be it. But this is coming from a guy who would try almost anything at least once and doesn't label himself as anything.

 

huh

Why is it so taboo for women?

 

any guys who complains about it had never had it done, and its not for everyone. Nothing more attractive than a beautiful woman bouncing back and forth from rimming ur ass to licking ur balls to sucking ur cock. One of my girls generally wakes me up with a rim job, she literally cannot get enough! She is so into anal play that I only fuck her ass. Its all about trust and experimenting to see what u like. Before me she had guys just ram their little dicks in her ass and that was that. I am much larger and taught her from my experiences and now she cant get enough of it, and she appreciates it with a rimjob payback, I dont even have to tell her to do it anymore she just does it

 

I remember in my early teens every now and then I would play with my ass while masturbating just out of pure curiosity at the time. I honestly hadn't thought of it as being something that could be sexually pleasurable at the time, it was more just exploring my body and trying new things... Once I was older I would experiment anally once in a blue moon with either fingers/toothbrush/gf toys just to see if I enjoyed it, at the time I was still young and niave and thought the ass is just that, an ass and its dirty (sticking something in it was more of a naughty/fetish thing) definitely not a sexual organ.. Well, the more I learned about sexuality and saw porn ect, in my mind I started to see it as the "gay" version of fucking and must just be pleasurable for the one fucking. I learned one day the g-spot was in the mans ass, so that night I toyed myself. It was weird and hurt a bit and I still felt dirty and wrong about it but tried it anyways.

Fast forward to now - when experimenting in my early 20s with other guys, anal was always a NO NO, that was crossing the line, this included with my gf. Then I was soo horny I tried it one night and FUCK ME!!!! AMAZING The most intense, uncontrollable sensation you could sexually imagine. Now I love being fucked by guys, my gf (strap on, toys, beads) using toys when I wank to even enjoying rimming and being rimmed!! You should try everything in life as you may be missing something that blows your mind because of someone elses judgements.

 

I'm open to it(hasn't happened yet) but would be a show of trust and openess with my partner.

 

I never understood how doing something with a woman can make a man gay. I'm open, and have done everything with girls. I enjoy my ass being played with, and there are few of my girl friends that know I like it. If it ever got out, I still wouldn't worry to much. My friends know I'm straight, I'd just actually be able to chat about it with them is all it would mean. Not that I want it out there really.

I think gay means you have romantic feelings for the same sex. I have no romantic feelings at all about men, just women. That said, there is very little sex of any type I'm opposed to. If it feels good and no one gets hurt then why the hell not?

 

I tried it with my first gf 5 years ago and it never made me feel gay. Hell to this day I'll openly admit to have my asshole played with during a blowjob or. even just cause I felt like having a finger or two.up there. I've told my co workers about it . Being insecure in your sexuality and lacking confidence in yourself can cause you to feel ashamed and so taboo. Though, there is no reason to be ashamed for what you may or may not like.

 

I love ass play. I find that most straight women don't like ass play on a man which sucks.

 

I have sex with women, I have sex with men. I take it up the bum from both. I fucking love it, and for me it is about submission, I love being dominated by a girl with a strap on just as much as a guy.

I don't care if that makes me gay, straight, bisexual or whatever. As long as its all consenting and nobody gets hurt... Well not too much anyway.

What I don't understand is why it is still considered in some circles that it is bad to be gay or even "act" gay, whatever that means.

 

Religion....hangups about masculinity....

 

You've got to explore what feels good, and as much as I like to say live life without labels, its a difficult concept with the relentlessness of the crowd mentality when it comes to such "taboo" things... Does that make sense?

 

Real men take it up the ass

 

When I'm by myself, I love fingering my ass or getting a dildoes and lubeing it up and slosing it in my ass as I stroke my self. I love it when I'm on my back and my wife is sucking my cock and looks upset me as she lifts my hips up so she can get her tongue on my asshole. She has even strapped on a dildo and fuck my ass. It feels so good.

 

Western culture dictates thats its only for women and homosexuals and that homosexuality is wrong, or the desires of women are submissive; Both of these themes are terribly wrong and part of a larger agenda. If you're unfortunately following this rationale you're direly, seriously cheating yourself out of potential pleasure and endless exploration as a sexual being. touch your butt. You'll like it fool.

 

It so happens that I was only around fifteen when a girl has tried massaging my entrance and even sticking a finger inside...
Honestly, I haven't felt any pleasure, but, on the contrary!
Yet, I've met quite a lot of women who were growing orgasms only from anal!

 

I've always wondered about this. I love licking a mans ass. If a guy squats down over my face and allows me to lick his ass it is a dream come true. So many men are afraid of appearing gay to people even though it's just the 2 of you sharing something intimate.